How should I treat my former girlfriend as a stranger after a breakup?

Updated on society 2024-08-01
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Did you break up with your girlfriend on the spur of the moment, and if you still like her, I think you should chase her back, don't say what you're afraid of! Touching her with sincerity, as long as you have a heart, you will definitely succeed, if you really can't be together again, then there's nothing embarrassing, goodbye is also a friend! Just treat it with a normal heart!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It's basically impossible to be a friend. Then when you meet on the street, smile at her and save the smile for the person who hurts you the most. Show your generosity, your courage.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Be relieved that you are still friends, not to mention that you don't see you when you look down. I wish you both to find each other's happiness. :

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think I can still adjust my mentality and be a friend I hate it the most when those guys are like strangers after a breakup or a failed confession!

    Stingy pinch

    You can't do that, uh-huh... Be generous

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No matter what, you can't avoid embarrassment, it's better to be friends, and after a while, the relationship will be normal.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Can they be considered friends, but must they be classmates? Don't be embarrassed, just think it's a dream, everything is already in the past.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, since you've had a period before, how can you just forget it?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Just be a regular friend.

    Say hello as a last resort.

    Otherwise, don't speak.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's still young, and it's still friends when we see each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I also naively thought that I could be friends after breaking up, but the reality told me how stupid my idea was, I broke up because of the injury, and the result was that the injury was deeper after being a friend, in fact, the statement of being a friend is a bit self-deceptive, and I can't let go of it after breaking up, I want to use "friends" to keep him for a lifetime, in fact, no one is anyone's who, who is who, broke up, why bother to be friends again? Otherwise, how to break up? If you don't let go, cherish it, and if you let it go, you will turn around in a chic way, and never look back, because you don't need to look back.

    Support you, you can't after a breakup, be friends.

    15 things to do for you who can't love dripping people anymore.

    1 Respect his choice.

    2 At the last meeting, do not mention the past.

    3 Do not weep either.

    4 If you still cry, smile at it.

    5 Say thank you to him, and thank him for the love he has given.

    6 Say sorry to him, for his uselessness, and finally let him choose to give up7 Write him your letters, give you gifts and put away your **8 Some promises that have been promised to him should still be kept, such as not smoking, not drinking, and taking medicine when sick9 Don't call him ** for any reason.

    10 When others ask about you, say that you are not right.

    11 If he sends you a message greeting you, say that he is fine and greet her as well12 Say happy birthday to the sky where he is on his birthday, even if he can't hear it13 If you meet again, replace everything you want to say with a smile14 Face each day with a smile if you never see each other again15 Learn to forget, for him, for yourself, and for the person who loves you, that your girlfriend said that you can't be friends after a breakup, because you have hurt each other, you can't be enemies, because they have loved each other, they can only be the most familiar strangers. If you really have love, chase her back and cherish it, and if she has made up her mind, please respect her decision. Where there is love, there is pain.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What should come will still come, and you can only face it calmly. Believe that it will get better and better

    Sadness is inevitable, it's only a matter of time.

    If you want to be less sad, find more things for yourself to do. Fill your life to the fullest. If you have good people around, you may want to turn your attention to them. As long as you don't deliberately forget, it won't be long before you find that you have forgotten!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always be with you, bury my love for you deeply, do not let you know, not be seen by you, and am willing to follow you like a shadow to be the friend who is good as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When they are divided, they only say that they break up, not that they are friends.

    It's just the stranger who is most familiar with the traces of the mind.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because after you broke up with your girlfriend, for the sake of your new relationship in the future, the two of you should no longer hide the contact and let the contact coincide, so you have become like strangers, but the stove is in love after all, so it is still familiar.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when Shiye Li slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

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