People always ask me, Why are you so introverted? Why don t you speak? What should I do?

Updated on parenting 2024-08-02
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I understand you very well because I am also an introvert. Introverts are easily mistaken for being indifferent and unapproachable, so when others ask you, you should start with the purpose of eliminating misunderstandings and show affinity and enthusiasm.

    Just let him know that you're not talking because you're cold and arrogant.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If you are really confident, you will be confident to the end, and it is easy to mingle with others by lowering your posture, don't pretend, make true friends with confidence and sincerity! Girlfriend....Fate....Isn't it ok when fate arrives? Brothers.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    People are always different. Introverted and calm, extroverted lively. Engage in research and do academics, can't you sit still?

    Introversion and extroversion have their own merits. It's not that introverts don't understand feelings, so there's no reason to worry about not getting them. Everything depends on one's own efforts, and only one's own struggle and self-improvement are the last word.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hehe, introverted but confident!

    Show your confidence and let others see it.

    At that time, I believe that you are not very introverted!

    Don't let confidence be seen only by yourself!

    I believe that when your self-confidence blooms, you will have a different kind of charm!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Summary. It was such a coincidence that it happened to run into you."

    Web chat "Nice to meet you," What are you doing now? Or, "Have you eaten?" In short, it's a polite pick-up Question sentencePersonally, I think that even if it is a stranger, if it is the first time we meet, we will definitely know a small amount of information such as the other party's occupation in advance.

    Both men and women are indispensable for necessary greetings in the first place. If the person is a man, you can ask, "I heard that recently...""Ask questions that are relevant to the other person but don't involve privacy. If the other party is a lady, you can praise the other person's outfit appropriately and slowly expand the topic.

    I'm more introverted, and I don't usually talk much, and I talk to strangers and say hello.

    It so happened that I happened to run into you and "Internet chat" and it was nice to meet you, "What are you doing now?" Or, "Have you eaten?" In short, it's a polite pick-up Question sentencePersonally, I think that even if it is a stranger, if it is the first time we meet, we will definitely know a small amount of information such as the other party's occupation in advance.

    Both men and women, first of all, the necessary cold fights are indispensable. If the person is a man, you can ask, "I heard that recently...""Ask questions that are relevant to the other person but don't involve privacy. If the other party is a lady, you can praise the other party's outfit appropriately and slowly expand the topic.

    What to say after chatting with a girl and sending hello, a little introverted and don't know what to say.

    Talk to her about things she loves.

    You should understand the other person's preferences before chatting.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    1. Do you have any outgoing and sociable classmates or friends around you? Communicate with them more, make some outgoing friends, be more influenced by them, observe how they usually treat people who are not familiar with you, learn their mentality and way of doing things, and be inspired by observation and experience.

    2. Participate in group activities, whether it is a class, a club or a student department, and work in group activities, so that you can have a reason to communicate with others and exercise your ability to express yourself and deal with things from communication.

    3. Cultivate your interest in singing and listening, and then go to KTV to sing with your classmates and learn to use your ears and mouth.

    4. If you have the opportunity to make a PPT presentation during class, volunteer, no matter how bad the lecture is, exercise your courage.

    5. Participate in group sports such as football, basketball, and baseball, and cultivate a sense of tacit understanding with others.

    6. Expand the social circle, start with the people closest to you, be good at expressing yourself, cultivate a good relationship and a harmonious communication atmosphere, and gradually establish a good interpersonal relationship from near to far. In this way, you will be able to cultivate your self-confidence, and you will gradually develop a gregarious personality and realize a set of principles for interacting with others.

    7. Remember the rules of communication, and strive to go with the flow.

    8 This is a long process, and there may be repetitions and twists and turns in between, but please give yourself enough time and patience to grow.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then don't talk about it, and talk about it when you want to.

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