When you are in love, do you mind if your other half has a girlfriend of the opposite sex?

Definitely, I mind. If it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl, if you have a girlfriend of the opposite sex, I think there is still a deep relationship. I'll tell you a list of things in life first, there is a male colleague who has a very good relationship with her as a woman, and the relationship together can be said to be a girlfriend of the opposite sex in today's words, and the relationship is very harmonious together, and there is nothing to talk about more than giving it to her wife, and the meeting is also very intimate, and finally I feel very strange, I said how can you have such a harmonious relationship with a woman, and he finally told me that this girlfriend of the opposite sex is his first girlfriend, and I suddenly realized.

I want to ask a man or a woman, if this is the case with a friend of the opposite sex, it is not covered, and it is said that it is a girlfriend, I think it is really unbelievable.

It is important to note that there is indeed a pure friendship between a man and a woman, and there is no pure friendship before development and after menopause. Don't let your boyfriend have a red face, red and red and you two will be yellow. Don't let your girlfriend have a blue face, you will be green if you are blue!

Of course I mind, although the relationship between them is very good, but I always feel very uncomfortable, love this kind of thing, for me, is selfish, if they are so great, it may not really be called love.

Mind! Love is a matter of two people, if it is suitable, continue to get along well, if it is not suitable, it is good to get together and disperse, and pull the third person in as a supplement to the shortcomings of their partner, it is stupid, if the partner is good enough, it is even more stupid to slowly destroy their feelings.

I think that if my lover has a girlfriend of the opposite sex, I will also care, but if this girlfriend is our mutual friend, and has a good sense of morality and principles of life, there is no need to doubt it anymore, and the quality of people can give a verdict to all this.

I think I'll mind. You said that when I went on a date with my boyfriend, there was always a girl who had a very good relationship with him and hooked up with him. That will definitely make you feel lost and sad inside.

I don't really believe in the pure friendship between men and women.,Both of them say it's a pot friend.,It's hard to guarantee that there is a person who has some favorite ideas in his heart.。 So, most of the time, I still don't like my boyfriend to have girlfriends of the opposite sex.

Can you accept that your significant other has girlfriends of the opposite sex? Why?

1. I can't accept that my other half has girlfriends of the opposite sex.

Whether it is during a relationship or after marriage, my requirements for my other half are very high, not referring to the other party's appearance and work, but to his attitude towards the relationship. That is to say, if the other person has a good friend of the opposite sex, I will definitely not agree, this is my determination, therefore, my other half and her friend of the opposite sex are able to keep a certain distance, which makes me feel very comfortable.

Second, because I want the relationship between two people not to be disturbed by others, without any impurities.

I think the most important thing for two people to get along with each other is to respect each other, and giving each other innocent feelings is a way of respect. Since two people have become a couple or husband and wife, they are the most important people in their lives, so don't be unclear with other members of the opposite sex, let alone make big arguments that the other half is too stingy, so that the relationship between two people can develop smoothly. When one of them has a girlfriend of the opposite sex, but he is still secretive, it means that the other half especially likes this strange feeling, which is disloyalty to the relationship, and the relationship has impurities, so there is no need to continue.

Third, this also has something to do with my personality, and I am especially worried that my other half of the opposite sex girlfriend will steal my love.

I am more introverted, I don't want to get along with strangers, my good friends are old friends who have known each other for many years, and I am also very unconfident about my feelings. The weakness of my personality always makes me feel a sense of crisis, afraid that she will get too close to her good friend of the opposite sex and ignore my feelings. After work, I will go out of my way to pick her up from work, so that I can avoid her getting along with others, sometimes she falls asleep, I will also look at her phone to see if there are any clues, I know that this is not right, but the more I care about her, the more she will behave like this.

I also know that if you want to keep the other person's heart, you should change your personality, and you should make yourself stronger, instead of always doubting the other person.

It depends on the situation, if you behave in a way that makes you uncomfortable, you won't accept it, and it will be better to break up with the next one, and you will never be wronged.

Of course unacceptable!

In the face of love, people are selfish. Unless it's not true love, you will have an indifferent attitude towards the actions of your other half. Especially in the eyes of women, love requires absolute selfishness, and love is not allowed to be mixed with any sand.

But some people say that the highest state of love is selflessness. Are you able to accept that your partner has a confidant of the opposite sex?

True love is possessive and selfish. I believe that many people are negative about this issue. Generally, after having a partner, everyone will also take the initiative to keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex, in order to avoid suspicion, it is also to show respect for the other half, so that the other half has a sense of security.

However, it is rare to meet a true friend in life, and some people will be unwilling to give up like this. On the one hand, in order not to make the subject feel uneasy, and in order to maintain friendship with confidants. Many times, you can only keep in touch with friends quietly and try to avoid seeing each other.

It is also normal to chat occasionally through the mobile phone, in order not to let the other half misunderstand, everyone is used to deleting records after chatting, or using a calculator to disguise encrypted chat content, and they are not afraid of profiteering mobile phone chat privacy information in the face of mobile phone checks.

Besides, true confidants don't need to meet each other often, nor do they need to chat often, and the relationship doesn't need to be deliberately maintained, no matter how long they haven't met, they won't feel strange when they meet or chat again.

Everyone needs their own friends, and they should also be given appropriate personal space when getting along with partners, but they can't be completely ignored. In the right space, everyone can do what they want, but only if they respect each other and remain loyal to their relationship.

JustPersonal experience. I can't accept that my partner hasGirlfriends of the opposite sex. Because the presence of girlfriends may affect the communication and conflict handling of both parties, and it will cause me to pay too much attention and participate in the relationship, leading to the emergence of distrust and suspicion.

In the process of getting along and maintaining a relationship, two people need to have enough trust and intimacy with each other, and the presence of girlfriends of the opposite sex may cause this relationship to produce an indescribable sense of estrangement. This situation will only affect the daily communication and life between partners, and has no long-term positive effect on the improvement of relationships.

I personally can't accept it.

As for me, who attaches more importance to feedback and ownership in relationships, if my partner has some same-sex girlfriends to communicate and play, I will not interfere and interact too much in this situation, but if the other party has a close girlfriend of the opposite sex, this kind of thing will definitely be unbearable. Because any girlfriend of the opposite sex is an uncertain issue for a relationship, I want to be able to have each other's ideas and communicate with my partner. I don't want my partner to communicate with friends of the opposite sex who I don't know.

The presence of girlfriends of the opposite sex will affect the emotional communication and conflict handling of both parties.

In real life, the partner can go to find a friend of the same sex as a girlfriend, this kind of opposite-sex girlfriend has no rationality outside the relationship, and when the partner has a problem that needs to be communicated and solved, he can ask me for help. And the existence of this kind of girlfriend of the opposite sex will only make me feel uncertain about my feelings. When there is emotional conflict and conflict between the two parties, this kind of opposite-sex girlfriend may have more serious consequences for the breakdown of the relationship.

This can lead to too much attention and involvement in my feelings, which can lead to distrust and suspicion.

In my own experience, if the other party has a girlfriend of the opposite sex, it will definitely cause me to pay too much attention and participate in the relationship, which will not only affect my concentration in work and life, but also make me have more negative emotions and suspicions, which will only cause the emotional relationship to break out into contradictions and conflicts in the long run, and eventually even lead to quarrels and breakdowns. <>

I definitely can't accept it, I think if the other party has such a girlfriend, I will definitely be jealous, and the two of them will definitely break up after a long time, and there will be no good results.

Yes; Because I am a very rational person who treats feelings, I think everyone has their own private space, as long as they have a proper grasp of the scale, so I don't mind that my other half has a girlfriend of the opposite sex.

I can't accept it, I don't think there's pure friendship between men and women, there must be something between them.

There are three main reasons why I don't accept that my partner has a girlfriend of the opposite sex. First of all, I don't think there is such a thing as pure friendship between people of the opposite sex. Secondly, girlfriends of the opposite sex will make the other person very insecure. In addition, girlfriends of the opposite sex may ruin the relationship between two people.

Personally, I don't accept that the other half has girlfriends of the opposite sex, and it's okay to have ordinary friends of the opposite sex, but don't have any girlfriends, girlfriends are beyond ordinary friends, which I can't accept. There are several reasons why it is not accepted.

First of all, I don't think there is such a thing as pure friendship between people of the opposite sex. I always believe that there can be no so-called pure friendship between men and women, especially the kind of particularly close heterosexual friendship, which is definitely not a simple friend relationship, there must be some ideas. I think both of them may have some good feelings, but they just weren't together for various reasons.

Whatever the reason, since pure friendship does not exist, there is no need to continue dating under the guise of girlfriends of the opposite sex.

Secondly, girlfriends of the opposite sex will make the other person very insecure. If the other half has a so-called girlfriend of the opposite sex around him, it will make the other one very insecure. Just imagine, your other half often goes to this girlfriend of the opposite sex to share his heart, confide in him, and is so close to him, no one can stand this matter.

Therefore, in order to make the other half feel secure, I think I can remove the so-called girlfriends of the opposite sex.

In addition, girlfriends of the opposite sex may ruin the relationship between two people. Some girlfriends of the opposite sex are really not just so-called girlfriends of the opposite sex, they are really a time bomb lurking around your boyfriend, and their actual purpose is to break you up. In order to remove such a crisis and avoid similar things from happening, we would rather not have the so-called opposite-sex girlfriends, so that the relationship between the two people can be harmonious.

Although it is said that flies don't bite seamless eggs, even if this one has a seam, it is okay for us to drive Chen Yue away.

That's why I don't accept that my partner has a girlfriend of the opposite sex.

Of course I don't accept it. I think as a man, if he has any problem or needs any care, his wife can do it. The same goes for women.

I can't, I don't think there are so-called girlfriends of the opposite sex, all of them have ulterior motives, and I will treat each other as my rivals.

I can't accept it because my mind is small, which makes me insecure and makes me feel neglected.