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When everyone is in love, they may come to the step of talking about marriage, but in the end, the real marriage partner may not be the one they are in love, that is to say, we may not marry love in the end. So if we end up married to life, what difference will it make?
In fact, this means that marrying love is not the same as not marrying love, because when we marry love, our life will actually be sweeter, and there are many things that both parties help each other, and in this life, we can also feel each other's sincere feelings. If we are indeed slowly moving from love to marriage step by step, we may be in married life.
Among them, we don't have too many problems, because these problems have already been solved when we are in love.
But if we don't marry love in the end, we marry a blind date, or a person who is the right person for us. So at this time, our life can be said to be only firewood, rice, oil and salt, and even there is only a monetary interest relationship between the two, so there will be more contradictions in the married life of the two at this time. There will be disagreements in the handling of many things, and there is no way for the two to communicate well, because there is no love between the two people, so there is no way to communicate.
For people who are not married to love, they are just two people living together, and those who are married to love can really be called married life. When they encounter problems in their marriage, they can rely on their love for each other and then forgive and forgive, but if they do not marry a loving man, they will face the problem and then blame each other. If they are not married to love, they may live a very respectful life, without a little breath of life.
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Those who marry love will become very happy in their married life, and two people will have the same opinion, but those who are not married to love will quarrel over some trivial matters in marriage.
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The married life of marrying love is relatively happy, two people will understand each other in life, and will also surprise each other, the sense of ceremony is very strong, and the married life of not marrying love has a certain amount of chicken feathers, two people will quarrel because of some small problems, always complain about each other because of some things, and life is very tired.
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Married life can make a big difference. If you marry love, you will be very happy after marriage, and you can also live the life you want, if you don't marry love, it will lead to life that is not very exciting, and then it will also lead to your own regret and disappointment.
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A marriage that marries love is happy, happy, and secure, while a marriage that marries a marriage without love is unhappy, has no meaning in life, and has no feelings.
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The marriage of marrying love is particularly happy, knowing what the other party likes, having a very definite goal, and working hard towards the goal.
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When some people don't know what a marriage in the name of love is, they are eager to go to everything. Some people have experienced the sweetness of love, the pain of disappointment, and have chosen marriage when they crave stability. When you enter marriage, which form will make you happier?
There is no absolute answer, but what is the difference between married and unmarried and unmarried? Let's analyze it together and see what the difference is.
1. Expectation. 1.Love: Being able to finally enter into marriage can be said to be the result of love, giving each other the best fantasy and the highest expectations, and giving each other marriage. The next step is how to keep it seamless.
2.No love: Men and women who can go on a blind date have a very simple purpose, to find a person with equal conditions and a pleasing eye to marry. At this time, everyone longs for a home and a home, so they will look at each other's strengths and weaknesses more rationally.
2. Life. 1.Love: From ideal to reality, each other has faded the aura of "lover", and their shortcomings and tempers have been slowly exposed. Begin to complain, correct, endure, and be disappointed, and then it depends on how loyal the love is.
2.No love: From a realistic point of view, the first thing we see is the shortcomings of the other person, but we are ready to accept it. Slowly, you will see each other's shining points, and the relationship will gradually warm up. The key is to understand clearly before getting married, and not to see it.
3. Differences. 1.Love: When you are in love, you give each other all your good expectations. Once something goes wrong, this illusion is completely shattered. Overestimating the value of marriage, disappointment will be infinitely magnified, and the degree of mutual tolerance determines the quality of marriage.
2.No love: From the beginning, I didn't expect too much from each other.
I accepted him in reality. Even if you encounter problems, there will be no huge gap in your heart. It's easier to forgive.
If you are of marriageable age, don't refuse a blind date for the sake of so-called love. Each has its pros and cons, and we must face it rationally.
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Marrying love is particularly happy in life, and two people have a very good emotional foundation, and any problems can be solved, but if you don't marry love, life will become very tired, and when you encounter some small things, two people may have contradictions, and they will quarrel and fight.
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People who marry love are very good after marriage, the life of two people is sweeter, and the husband often creates a sense of ritual for his wife, and if he does not marry a person in love, his life after marriage is more boring, and the two people have no topic, they will get more and more tired, and they may divorce.
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The days of marrying love will be very happy, the relationship between the husband and wife will be very good, the two people can support each other, and the lives of the two people will get better and better. If you are not married to love, after getting married, the two people are always afraid that the other party will take advantage of each other, and the economy is very clear.
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The situation of life will change, there will be different lifestyles, different ideas of life, different emotional foundations, different marriage models after marriage, and different standards will be produced.
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Their own states are different, their emotions are different, their facial expressions are different, their quality of life is different, and their psychology is different.
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The person who marries the love is very good after marriage, and the husband often builds a sense of ritual for his wife, and the person who is not married to love is interesting in the life and livelihood after marriage, and the two people have no topic, they will get more and more tired, and they can or may divorce.
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Who is happier after marriage and who is married to love, or who is not married to love?
1.Many people say that if they don't want to settle, they must marry love. But in real life, many people actually marry the person they like when they get married, and when they make their wedding vows, they will cry until they cry.
In short, they were very touched and felt that they could spend the rest of their lives with each other. But in this kind of marriage, there are also many divorces nowadays. What are some extrinsic causes of marriage breakdown?
Actually, there are many reasons. Although I really wanted to live happily with each other for the rest of my life at that time, I didn't understand the reality of life, the trivialities of marriage, and so on.
2.Marriage is not only romantic, red wine with Western food, but also pots and pans, rice, oil and salt, children's education, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, etc., these are all big problems. Some people may feel that after entering the marriage, they feel that the gap in their hearts is too big, because it is completely different from what they imagined, and they can only choose to separate.
Many girls like to distinguish between love and marriage, thinking that love is beautiful, while marriage is the opposite, thinking that it is unfortunate to get married at a certain age. It is not that a marriage without love will be unhappy, because not all girls who marry love will be happy.
3.It's just that many girls think that love is the foundation of marriage, but they don't know that if you meet the right person, the practice after marriage can also prove your love. Love and marriage are in no particular order.
If you want to find someone who is really good to you, you have to learn to give first. It is important to know that in addition to love and the trivial things of daily life, the most important thing in marriage is that two people go through those hardships together, so that your relationship will be deeper.
4.Instead of thinking about whether to marry love, think about what kind of life situation is most comfortable for you. Love can't save you from unhappiness, let alone decide whether you deserve it.
Hopefully, whether you end up marrying love or not, don't take it as a result. This is just the beginning of your pursuit of happiness, and it is best to feel it with your heart and live it seriously.
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I think that those who marry love will be happier, and if you want to be happier after marriage, the first thing is that the relationship between two people is very good, if you don't marry love, that home can't be called home, it can only be called a house.
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I think it's just as happy, because in the life of marrying love, the relationship between the two parties is very good, the life is very happy, and there is a high degree of tacit understanding, so they will be very happy, and most of the people who are not married to love are because the other party has good material conditions to provide a very good quality of life and improve the standard of living, so they will also live very happily.
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I think it must be that marriage to love is happier, and a marriage without love can only be said to be a partnership, just like two roommates living a life, so a woman must marry love to be truly happy.
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It is happier to marry love, because two people have an emotional foundation, which can avoid many contradictions and make life happier.
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