My love is not blessed by my family, what should I do?

In fact, love is so simple: love with your own heart, love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is care rather than pampering, love is mutual blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart Be tolerant, caring, and leave a private space for each other Be honest, if you want to quarrel Think about your own bad first It should be no big problem, but it's hard to do.

You're in a similar situation to me! My love is also not recognized by my parents! They're all idle, my boyfriend, it's not good, that's not good!

But I want to tell you that it's up to you to decide whether to be together or not! If you think it's worth it, then please stand up bravely and prove it to your family! But don't be too anxious, and slowly let your family accept it!

I have no choice but to give up my love! I hope you have a good grasp of it!

If you really love each other, even if you are not blessed by your family, you will be happy, as long as you love each other. Time will dilute everything, and it won't be long before your family will accept him/her!!

Love is a kind of emotional exchange and communication, and it is a mutual understanding and elimination of each other. In a relationship, we will experience a lot of good times, but we will also face many difficulties and challenges. Whether a relationship is successful or not often depends on whether both parties truly love each other and are willing to give and change for each other.

However, there will also be situations in which you are not favored in love, so how to face such a situation and whether it should continue?

First of all, we need to understand the reasons why we are not favored. It may be because of factors such as age, personality, family background, etc., which may affect how others perceive your relationship. However, the first step out of love is to learn to stick to your choices and not care too much about other people's opinions and evaluations.

If you really like the other person, then you should try to get to know her as much as possible, see if it suits you, and achieve your own happiness is the most important thing.

Second, we need to make sure that we are feeling the right thing. At the beginning of a relationship, many people will feel very excited and excited, and it is easy to fall into blind love. Therefore, in the process of falling in love, we need to calmly think about our feelings about the other person, see if we are sincere in giving and feel the sincere response of the other party.

In addition, we also need to see each other's good, bad and shortcomings, and not blindly pursue perfection, but accept each other's shortcomings.

In the end, falling in love requires a joint effort on both sides. If two people truly love each other, then they should give and change for each other. In the process of falling in love, we not only need to care about our own feelings and needs, but also respect each other's feelings and needs.

If you find yourself in a relationship, you can also choose to communicate with the other party and solve it together. Only in this way can happiness be achieved in love.

In short, whether a relationship that is not favored should continue depends on one's feelings and needs. If you feel that the other person is someone worth giving and changing, and that the relationship with the other person can bring fun and growth, then keep trying. But if you feel unhappy, unsatisfied, or if the other person doesn't respect your needs, then you should consider letting go.

Any decision requires listening to your inner voice and making the choice that best suits you.

Falling in love is a complex and very sensitive matter, and sometimes we encounter some unfavorable factors, such as feelings that are not recognized by the other party or the opposition of the other party's family and friends. At this point, we are often caught in a dilemma: do we keep going, or do we let it go?

In this article, I will briefly ** this issue.

Number one: take your emotions seriously. As a dignified person, you must first figure out how you feel and seriously consider whether the relationship is worth continuing.

If you feel that this person is worth waiting for, guarding, and pursuing, then keep trying; If you find it increasingly difficult to hold on, you should be honest with the other person and your heart and end the relationship in time.

Number two: understand why. When you are perceived as the "wrong choice" to be with someone, you need to ask yourself why you think so.

Is it the other person's injustice to you or the other person's behavior that makes you feel embarrassed or hurt? Or did you make the wrong decision on the spur of the moment? In either case, you have to dig deep and find the cause in order to make the right decision.

Number 3: Ask for help. Sometimes we feel like we're struggling anymore, but we don't know how to make a choice.

At this point, friends and family become your treasurers. Please find people who listen and support you in the spiritual world, and think about problems and solutions with them. If necessary, you can also seek the help of a professional, such as a psychologist or relationship counselor.

Fourth: Honesty and communication. Even if you love each other very much, you must also be clear about your happy and unhappy position, don't just feel sorry for yourself for the other person's happiness, even if you really can't be together, there are many subtle but relatively objective ways to deal with it.

Communication can make problems clearer, expand your horizons of mutual understanding in future relationships, and ultimately help you and the other person to make the right decisions.

In general, when you encounter a relationship that is not favored, you must dare to face your emotions and problems and make the right judgment. As mentioned above, we can take our feelings seriously, understand the causes, ask for help and communicate openly, and constantly improve and adjust our mindset in the process of solving problems. Only in this way can you get through the storm and move towards a healthier and happier relationship.

The solution should not be in the form of crying and shouting, which will only be counterproductive. Make your family think you're ignorant.

2) If your family thinks that your appearance is not compatible, you can do your work to enlighten them and tell them that even if you marry a man who is taller than you and looks good, you will always quarrel together, and the relationship between the two is not harmonious, and you will not be happy.

3) What the family wants most is that their children can be happy, you can show your feelings for him in front of them, and your own inner feelings, and if you can't be with him, you should also show your inner feelings, so that they will experience your true feelings.

4) There is a good saying: "It's a mule or a horse, pull it out and slip it!" The happiness of your life, show your family with actions, so that they feel that you are worthy! Let them all bless you!

Wishing you happiness! Thank you

If it's just appearances, I don't think it should be an obstacle between you, as long as the two of you insist on your own opinions, sooner or later your parents will agree to the parents who have not been tough on their children! Don't give up

What should I do if I don't get the blessing of my family? Then you will manage your love very well, make your career and your family more perfect, and your family will silently bless you when they see you doing so well.

It can also be seen everywhere in life, some people may love each other very much, but they can't get the blessing of their parents, and then they may be separated, and of course some people end up together.

But if the love between you is not blessed by your parents, what will you choose?

Yesterday, a netizen told me that she and her boyfriend loved each other, but her boyfriend's mother objected to them being together, and finally her boyfriend chose to break up. So, she came to me and asked me if her boyfriend didn't love her at all.

I think so. Since you have said that you love each other, it means that you feel that he loves you, so at least you have this feeling, so you can feel his love for you, so I think he loves you.

But because he finally listened to his mother and didn't choose to be with you, it makes you feel that he doesn't love you at all. If you feel that he loves you, you can't give up on you.

When your love is not blessed by your parents, the following 3 possibilities usually appear.

1. Listen to your parents.

However, some people may have been influenced by the environment since childhood, he may have listened to his parents since he was a child, and he never said anything his parents said. Therefore, whether in life or emotionally, his parents feel that they are more experienced than their son, so in the name of loving their son, they want their son to obey him both emotionally and in life, otherwise he is not filial.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with parents doing this, because no parent in the world thinks about everything for the sake of their children. So, that's probably what your boyfriend thinks.

2. No matter what your parents say, you have to be with her.

Situations like this generally happen to younger lovers, because they are young and vigorous, and they don't understand many things, but when they taste the sweetness of love for the first time, they feel that this is the happiness they want.

So, they have such an idea, whoever wants to object to us being together, that is, they want not to let themselves be happy, so they will be desperate to be with her.

There are two endings: one is that they are really happy to come to the end of their marriage, but the marriage dies in the middle of the road.

3. Convince parents.

Some people may be more mature and more stable in doing things, they know what they want, so their parents may not agree at first, but they will not compromise, let alone rush to object, but will calm down and do their best to convince their parents to let them accept her.

Of course, their efforts do not rely on words, but on practical actions to move each other's parents, so as to convince each other's parents.

Therefore, love is not just a matter between two people, when your marriage or love is not blessed by your parents, you must calm down and think about how to make your parents accept each other.

Then, I will communicate with them and say my own thoughts, because I am also an adult, I can be responsible for my words and deeds, if I can solve small problems, I will try to consider the reasons of both parties, and strive for the most perfect solution, I will also work with my boyfriend to win the recognition and blessing of my parents for us, after all, family and love are always indispensable. I believe that it is possible to combine the two with sincerity, because both are born of love.

I can be bold to love, but I am also not willing to give up family affection because of love, I believe that sincerity, gold and stone are open, and there is always the best way to solve things. There's no need to break the blood flow.

I think I'll analyze why my parents don't bless me and my boyfriend, and treat them differently for different reasons.

Second, if I disagree because of the differences in family backgrounds, I think I will carefully consider my parents' views. Because my parents are people who have come over and understand the importance of being the right person, but since I have told my parents about this relationship, it must be time to talk about marriage, marriage is the reorganization of two families, not just the union of two people, so I will have a good chat with my boyfriend to see what the other party's parents think, if the other party's parents do not agree, then I think this relationship should end here, because there will be no happy ending.

Everyone's love will not be smooth sailing, and we will all encounter some difficulties to a greater or lesser extent, so that our love can be tested. The most feared thing about love is not getting the blessing of your parents. This can be a dilemma for both sides, but different people have different ways of dealing with it.

In the case of not getting the blessing of my parents, I will not disobey my parents in this situation, I will solve it on both sides, rather than ignoring the feelings of one side. My parents are also good for me, and I know that, so I don't ignore my parents' feelings. When I'm a daughter and a girlfriend, I'm going to play both roles at the same time, so that's my approach to solving problems.