The social aspect must be expanded by being very attentive to others?

What the landlord said is too one-sided, and frankly speaking, you are just going to join in the fun, not to expand the social surface.

In fact, everyone wants to integrate into a circle, more or less will have a purpose, determine your purpose, of course, the purpose I am talking about is not only utilitarian, including many, many things, such as emotion, such as satisfaction, etc., the party is just one of the many ways, if you want to meet more people, you can also consider according to your interests, such as you like to sing, you can sign up for a vocal training, you can also travel in a group, participate in public welfare, network city, nearby people, etc. But these are just one way for you to meet people with the same interests, it doesn't mean that you have expanded your social network, and you need to start with a single person if you want to expand your social circle. To put it simply, you are better with a person, through this person to recommend you to a few of his friends, after a period of time together, you feel that he and his friends have something in common with other friends around you, you can bring this group of people together, and such a circle will be formed.

In various ways, in the same way, and so on, your other circles will be slowly formed, and the previous circles will also slowly expand, and the social surface will also expand.

Friends, advise you to pay attention to the difference between confidants and wine and meat while communicating, if you are a person who is good at going in and out of various occasions, I believe you must understand what it means to "play on the scene than acting", but your moral outlook must be correct.

Now that I am deeply involved in the workplace, I am accustomed to being left and right, but I deeply understand that if people want to live a simple and happy life, their parents are alive, their wives and children, and their confidants are enough!

I wish the landlord more and more communication.

Pure hand fighting, hope!

Communication does have a lot to do with personality, and people are all heart-to-heart.

Go to hobby classes, work in a big company, go to the park and play mahjong with grandpa.

First of all, we must learn to get along with people, be sincere to people, and don't be harsh. Secondly, enrich your knowledge, and you can have a topic to talk about when you are together.

Expand the medium of communication, such as QQ and other social **.

Reservations: Excessive arguments are not helpful and unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and nurture the others. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

Don't exaggerate: Hyperbolism is detrimental to truth and can easily cast doubt on your perception. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overestimating oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very bad impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain good relationships between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

Learn from each other's strengths: Learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised and what you hear will be learned.

Handle interpersonal relationships in the workplace according to the "type".

Be concise: Conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

Never be arrogant: always talk about your strengths, and often show off your strengths in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

Never complain: Complaining will cost you credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you should have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complain about this, complain about that, will only make others despise you!

Don't lie and break your promise: Lying to your friends and colleagues will lose the trust of your friends and colleagues, so that your friends and colleagues no longer believe you, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

Be big-sighted: It's easy to think of poverty when you're prosperous. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

Let's make friends first.

A little bit more connected, isn't it? o(∩_o

I think you should make more friends, treat them sincerely, and participate in more activities.

Gradual.

Communicate with the people you like, the people close to you, put forward some of your opinions, see their reactions, and gradually improve.

Then gradually watch more workplace-related TV series or ** with strangers, colleagues, and their superiors.

Summarize every night the good places continue and the bad places to avoid next time.

Don't listen to the blind bb upstairs, change jobs to do sales, I really think anyone can do sales, sales is really so good? Intersection doesn't work, you add more friends, add nearby people, and add surrounding groups that you are interested in, chat in the group, communicate with others more, chat and discuss topics, and slowly it's fine. Upstairs really thought that sales were easy to do, who didn't want to work in peace and stability.

In the beginning, listen more and talk less. Learn to smile. If you can't say it, you can't say it accurately, just laugh more!

Listen to others and look for the rules, habits, and hobbies of that person's language! Practice a lot, reach the amount, and try to express your opinion! But as the saying goes, leave three points on your lips!

Think about it.

Participate in more social activities, sometimes you don't have to talk a lot, and you can observe others.

It is possible to change jobs, such as sales, and so on.

It's easy! Attend a friend's party, ask a friend to introduce her friend to you, and then make an appointment to eat and go shopping together.

When you go to work in a large company, you will come into contact with a lot of colleagues and customers, and gradually your network of contacts will expand.

As long as there are interesting people at the social level, it is easy to expand the scope of communication.

First of all, consider those places in your body that may affect interpersonal communication, such as image, habits, behavior, which places are not suitable, pay attention to adjustment, strictly demand yourself, slowly change, and then participate in more activities, have the opportunity to contact others, in order to expand the social surface

If you want to be fast, you can't be too utilitarian, treat everyone around you sincerely, perform in a timely manner, and good luck will come naturally.

In fact, knowing someone you feel is worth befriending, he will always help you in the future. Participate in group activities more often to improve your own quality. Be a listener and be considerate of others.