Ask the professionals for advice! My problem is a personal and family trouble! 10

First of all, you have to empathize, you need to understand the hard work of your parents, and they don't look down on you, they just hope that you can have your own ideas, go but worry about their hard work, after all, you have grown up.

Moreover, you can't have too many opinions on your parents, they don't encourage you, on behalf of their way of expression and care is more silently reflected in the heart, you first understand them, their mood will be much better, so that the family is more harmonious, then the attitude towards you is naturally different, and then you don't have to worry about your parents' family affairs, then thinking about problems and doing things will be more clear and rational, naturally, confidence will be. Another point, you don't care too much about friends and their opinions, sure that everyone makes friends more like thoughtful, sincere people, positive and optimistic people, the so-called ability is admirable, the so-called rich, is envied and distanced things. Therefore, if you slowly make yourself more cheerful, diligent, and more motivated, your friends will naturally have different views on you, and your ability will slowly improve.

Having said so much, I emphasize, two points, first, you first understand that your parents have been raising you so hard for so many years, how they lived in their twenties, with you, how they raised you, these bits and pieces, think about it from their point of view, although they have not encouraged you, have not given you a good family education, but why they haven't given you these, is because they don't understand, don't know how to express themselves, which parents don't want their children to be considerate of themselves, care about themselves, and be truly sensible? If you take care of this, you'll be all right. If you don't believe it, try it and see if your parents' starting point for everything about you is that they care about you and whether it is for your own good, and you will be clear.

And you're emphasizing that it's not your own reason, and I think that no one can help you, you can only rely on yourself, so who do you think is the reason? Do you want to grow up in a good family environment, or meet a noble person to help you, or do you want to do a lot of things without learning? Unearned?

These are just a few opportunities that will be available, and most of them rely on their own efforts and the correct way to adjust their mentality. I bless you ...

Modern people, the degree of success is different. Personally, I think that a twenty-seven-year-old person, no matter whether he has a good job or a bad job, as long as he earns money to support himself, he is successful. If your parents don't encourage you, you have to fight for yourself and stick to your work, which is success.

Parents have great hopes for you, and you let them down, parents have parents are wrong, most parents in Chinese society are the same, rich parents can give their children a good environment, good jobs, and those who don't have much money can only pin their hopes on their children. There is more money between people. You can't blame your parents, complaining can't solve the problem, love and understanding can make everything go well.

It is not a matter of generation gap between children and parents, but of love and understanding.

You are too heavy in your own thoughts, your heart is higher than the sky, your life is thinner than paper, you must first build your own confidence, no one looks down on you, your parents are even more impossible, which parents don't want their children to become talents, do you reflect on yourself is really not working hard? I believe that as long as you work hard and don't care too much about the eyes of others, you will succeed. Man 27 is nothing, it can be a start, it depends on how you grasp !!

Agree with the upstairs, you think too much, you just need to remember that your parents are the only ones who have no bad intentions for you, you compare with others, you don't lack arms and legs, 27 years old, KFC boss Harlan Sandoz, started his business at the age of 66, Jiang Ziya was only a military advisor at the age of 80, you compare with them, you have too much time, you don't want to be ambitious, the accumulation of youth is very important, there is no deep foundation, there is no step by step, where is the success.

Haven't you tried it?

Life is made by yourself, and it is not that you can be useful if you complain about others. What is it if you don't have a job, you don't have a degree? Start a business without a job, and learn to be a person without a degree.

You can make money by opening a food stall, working as a waiter, and studying. Many big bosses started out as wage earners. Even some big bosses haven't even finished elementary school, haven't they also succeeded? The main thing is whether you dare to fight, whether you dare to break through!

If you were seventy or eighty, I would pity you, but you are only 27 years old, which is the prime of life. But you are complaining at home, who do you expect to help you?

As long as you work hard, you may succeed. But if you don't work hard, you'll never succeed.

Your parents are introverted and must be honest people, then your uncle is arranged by your grandmother in your house, and your parents also approve of it, it is useless for you to entangle, they are all your elders, there is no way to deal with it, so let it go.

You need to communicate with your family often, and sometimes you ignore the warmth of your family? There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, there is no problem that cannot be solved You must communicate with your family in a peaceful mood.

Spring Festival is a traditional Chinese festival, every household buys New Year's activities, puts up lanterns, sets off firecrackers, bids farewell to the old and welcomes the new, eats Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, meets and greets on the first day of the new year, and watches songs in my hometown, which is very lively. Your family has a special reason, the Chinese New Year is not lively, and you are not happy. It is recommended that you:

Use your wits to convince your parents to bring your grandma. Uncle, bring gifts, go to your grandparents' house for the New Year, and bring a few red envelopes to the children at home, so that you won't be annoyed, and the family will have a happy Spring Festival.

This is his business, you are not a legal husband and wife, and you are not obliged to pay off the debt for him, so you should keep some money for your own use.

Why do you want to be prejudiced against your uncle, grandchildren are full, your uncle doesn't want to start a family, but in this society, how can it be so easy to find a wife.

It doesn't matter, as long as the family is harmonious and the family members are healthy, it is the greatest happiness and happiness.

If you have any troubles, your uncle's problems, your mother will solve them.

Uncle is your elder, what are you bothering him? There's your parents.