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Men who make mistakes should be forgiven with the mentality of forgetting and not caring, in fact, women also make mistakes, don't be too strict with others, people are not saints and sages.

The best state of mind is to forget all the things he did wrong before, treat those mistakes as if they didn't happen, and continue to live well, what he did to him before, and how he still treats him now.

I think you have to face it with a calm mind, but the premise is that you can guarantee that he really won't make mistakes in the future, so you have to tell yourself that it's okay to correct your mistakes.

On the occasion of Tong Liya's birthday, Chen Sicheng posted on social platforms the warmth of Tong Liya and her children playing the piano together**, and Chen Sicheng also specially wrote: "Duoduo Mom, happy birthday, eternal youth!" Tong Liya also generously replied with the word "thank you", but some netizens directly interpreted it as "I feel that Tong Liya doesn't want to deal with him, and she looks very perfunctory".

Haha I have to say, this netizen is also very naughty, how can he tell the truth. In this regard, netizens also feel that Chen Sicheng's birthday celebration is too controversial, and many of them express disdain for his "affection after the fact".

Chen Sicheng posted a message to celebrate Tong Liya's birthday on her birthday, but Tong Liya did not respond directly at that time, and then Tong Liya gave a reply after the matter was on the hot search the next day. At that time, it also attracted the interpretation of countless netizens, saying that the decency was given by Tong Liya, but such belated affection is actually cheaper than grass, and Tong Liya doesn't have to pay attention to it at all. Some netizens even caused memories to kill, asking why Chen Sicheng didn't treat Tong Liya better when he got married?

On the first birthday after the divorce, I directly sent blessings, is this to remarry or to rub the heat? It seems that netizens are also looking at Chen Sicheng's operation with "sharp eyes".

The marriage of Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya has also become a hot spot of people's attention before, after all, one person has paid a lot for this family, while the other person still does his own thing, ignores this family, and is even messing with flowers. Fortunately, in the end, the two of them dispersed, and Tong Liya finally returned to her previous life. Seeing that Tong Liya was also living well alone after the divorce, many netizens expressed their satisfaction with this.

After all, instead of waiting for the love of others aggrievedly, it is better to love yourself first and stand up first, so that people have more rights to enjoy a happy life.

Now Chen Sicheng has established an affectionate character after the divorce, hoping that Tong Liya will no longer be deceived by the other party and can continue to maintain the current good state of life. After all, Chen Sicheng is already a person with a "criminal record" here in Tong Liya, even if Chen Sicheng's current mind is serious, it is difficult to impress the other party. If the injured person has not been able to come out of the haze of marriage, it is naturally not easy to be warmed.

Therefore, Tong Liya should work hard for her career, and love and marriage should still have a casual attitude.

It didn't work. Because the two of them have divorced and have no husband and wife relationship, even if they realize the preciousness of each other now, there is no meaning.

Late affection is useless and very troubling. It makes people feel very hypocritical and very embarrassing.

Late affection is useless, the previous damage has already been done, and even the current affection will not make up for the previous one.

It's useless, there is a saying that says, belated affection is cheaper than grass, and now it's too late to regret it, after all, the two of them have divorced, and it is particularly meaningless to make such an act.

I think it's family reasons, Tong Liya replied to three emojis, which is the first time to publicly interact with Chen SichengBroke the rumors of divorce. It has been a full 940 days since Chen Sicheng was exposed to the two women who had a night party in the suite. In the past two and a half years, Tong Liya has had three birthdays, and Chen Sicheng sent his blessings at 0:00, but Tong Liya ignored him the first two times.

On August 8, 2017, Chen Sicheng posted: Love, no time difference, happy birthday, my love.

A simple sentence pierced Tong Liya's heart, and she finally responded. In the past 940 days, no one knows the pain in her heart, but everyone has seen how hard she has worked. During this period of restoration, the outside world was quite friendly, no matter whether she participated in variety shows or was interviewed, few people mentioned the word divorce, there was no side knock, let alone pressing, everyone had an instinctive respect and distress for Tong Liya.

Therefore, in 2014, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng participated in the happy camp, and the program team held a Chinese-style marriage for the two and invited Tong Liya's father. Tong Liya cried a lot, but her father said something like this: I will hand over my daughter to Lao Chen's family today, and I hope that after arriving at Chen's family, I will do more work, cook for Lao Chen, and serve him.

Because Tong Liya is inseparable from Chen Sicheng.

Her own choice of it, for the sake of the family.

I think it's family.

For the sake of the family and the children, I am willing to forgive.

Tong Liya for the sake of the family and children.

The privacy of celebrities, I don't want to know much.

I think it's probably because of the child.

Maybe it's because of the child.

Tong Liya is indeed very humble in marriage, when he told the fighters on the show before, Tong Liya's father told Tong Liya that he had to serve Chen Sicheng well, and this is really not right.

She is very humble in her married life, so she will say before the social disadvantages**, every time she quarrels, she will apologize first, I think they are husband and wife guessed that the status of the two people is not equal before the ear.

She is a very humble person, working hard outside and doing laundry and cooking when she comes home.

Of course that's the case, Sun Xiao, if he is not good to Tong Liya in his married life, not to mention having children, as long as he can go down Kaishan too early, who will choose to divorce, it is okay to be separated, I am particularly in favor.

In fact, I was originally a matter of two people, such as the rupture of Yuluguo, it is not one person's fault, both of them are responsible, Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya divorced, this is also a joint decision of the two of them, it must have been thought about by both of them.

I think so, maybe she originally wanted to save this marriage, but Chen Sicheng had no intention of repenting, so Tong Liya was heartbroken, and decided to divorce after the most hungry banquet.

Yes, it is true that I can't be happy in this marriage, and I haven't been in a good state all the time, so I choose to divorce.

It's still very likely, and the two of them are relatively calm, so this ending is also the best.

Yes, and the relationship between the two of them has had problems a long time ago, and then this result is also relatively happy.

In fact, I personally think that it is likely that Tong Liya feels that the fate of the two people has really reached the end, and there is no need to continue to hide it, so it will be clarified.

Yes, she is already extremely disappointed in her husband, and it can't be undone, so she has come to this point, but we bless Tong Liya.

Yes, Tong Liya has endured her reputation for a long time, but her husband Chen Sicheng has never corrected it, so she was particularly disappointed in this marriage, and finally chose to divorce Chen Siqing.

In fact, I think it's mainly because the relationship between the two people is really over, and there is no need to cover up anything for anyone, and they should start a new life of their own.

Maybe, she also has her own dignity, if her husband has always been like this. She must be considering divorce for her own sake.

It must be because she can't bear it anymore, so Tong Liya will do this, and she really lost hope in her husband.

Yes, and after Tong Liya's divorce, netizens also blessed her, and Tong Liya's choice of divorce was also very correct.

No, it's just that the two have no love, so they choose to divorce, and the two broke up peacefully, hoping that they will be well.

Of course, it's okay to forgive, but I also make mistakes, and when I make mistakes, I want others to forgive me for my mistakes. Thinking from his other side, I relaxed and didn't bother with him.

I won't. After all, a mistake is a mistake. And he did something wrong, which was hurting me. Why should I forgive him? Maybe it's because I'm a grudge-holder.

Personally, I think that this is to see what the other party's fault is, whether the specific thing is serious, whether it touches their own bottom line, and then make their decisions and judgments.

Personally, I'm going to look at what was wrong with that person's mistake? I think to see if he makes mistakes again and again, that is, what kind of personality he is.