My boyfriend s family can t afford to buy a house, so it s uncomfortable

Updated on society 2024-02-09
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No such thing is perfect, your boyfriend just needs to be nice to you. In fact, there are many people like you, and I am one of them. If you are in a hurry to get married, you can live in the old one first if you don't have a house, renovate it first, and then buy a new one when you both have the conditions, or your joint property after marriage.

    Don't have a problem with his family because they haven't bought a house, I actually understand you very well, and it's inevitable that you see them this way, but you also have to think about your boyfriend and understand his family. Just like some friends said, their family invested this money in business, they must also want to make more money for your marriage, no one wants to lose money, it's just bad luck. So, let's open it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe his family is also doing business to make some money to help you solve the problem of the house, but unfortunately it backfired, since you are still young and your boyfriend is a potential stock, then fight more.

    There may be a lot of things to happen in the future, don't keep thinking about the gloomy and misty aspects. I also can't sleep in the middle of the night and say a few words casually, I wish you a good mood tomorrow.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since your boyfriend is good, it's good, there is no perfect thing in the world, if your boyfriend is very motivated, and the family is still very rich, you may be worried that he will change his girlfriend one day, life lies in struggle, but also with contentment, not being content has a lot of troubles, why bother.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Living in this era, it is better to be realistic, and there is no good foundation in hard work.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The most important thing is your boyfriend (not the husband?) You're self-motivated.

    Since it's a boyfriend, it means that he is not married yet? In such a hurry to buy a house. Ready to get married? said that his career did not succeed, why is he preparing to get married? I think you're in a hurry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You said that the housing price is so high, a few ordinary people can afford it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If his family can afford to buy a house, it doesn't have to be you, you should feel lucky!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    We are still young now, we can rent a house first, he loves you very much, doesn't a woman want a man to be good to her all her life? Besides, he is very capable, as long as he is with the person you love, he has the whole world

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's enough to find someone who truly loves you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course it should have been held. Because of your boyfriend, he is just very inferior, it's not that he doesn't love you, you should give him some confidence, and then the two of them struggle together and buy a house together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The house is something outside the body, if you really love each other, it is a pity to break up because you don't have a house, so you should stick to it and maintain your relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't mind renting an apartment with your boyfriend or are willing to save up with him to buy a house, you can also not break up. Because his financial situation may just not be able to buy a house. If you love him very much and are willing to endure hardships with him, you can also persevere, but it may be very stressful.

    There will be a lot of days without money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on what type of person your boyfriend is.

    If your boyfriend is a type of person who has potential, is self-motivated, and treats you exceptionally well.

    Then you shouldn't break up with him, his family can't afford to buy a house, because his family's conditions are not good, but he can buy a house through his own efforts, then your persistence will become more meaningful.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your boyfriend's family can't afford a house, and you want to break up with him. Then there is no need to insist on this situation, because what you need is material. Even if you stick to it, it won't change much, so it's better to let it go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If this happens, I think you should insist, because the happiness of the two of you, the love of the two people depends on the two of you to complete, of course, the objective conditions of the house also play a certain role in fueling the fire, but in the end, I believe that through the efforts of the two of you will get happiness to get the house, I hope you can persevere, happiness is in your persistence, if it is simply because of the house breakup, then how can the relationship talk about you, So I still hope that you can stick to your boyfriend, even if you don't have a house for the time being, I believe that you will get what you deserve through the efforts of both of you in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think you should stick to it. Because the reason why your boyfriend broke up with you is not sufficient. You can tell your boyfriend that if you can't afford to buy a house now, you can work hard, and you will definitely be able to afford it later.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe he thinks he can't afford the life you want, that's why he thinks this way. You can try to explain your standard of living to him without putting too much pressure on him. In this way, the relationship between you can be more stable and long-lasting.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, you can work with him to save money to buy a house, so that you will live a happier life. I don't think there is a house that I can afford to buy. If you need it, and the conditions are not too bad, if you want to buy the most ideal one, buy it.

    If it is too poor, his needs should not buy a house, it should be more basic needs, such as full food, warmth, etc.).

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Whether you choose to stick with it depends on how confident you are in your boyfriend and whether he is a motivated guy, and if he is a self-motivated, career-minded man, you can gamble on this guy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you accept that he doesn't have a house at home, then insist on guarding your love, if you can't accept that there is no house after marriage, then break up. Insist on not letting go, if you want to buy a house, your boyfriend can't afford it, it will be very painful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you have a good relationship, then I think you can work together, after all, it is to marry someone, not to marry a house. Two people working together will be able to afford it later.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It should be insisted on, and I don't think it should be let go. As long as two people are happy, then there will definitely be everything in the end, so you should not give up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You should insist, because your boyfriend is a very good person, so you shouldn't give up on each other easily at this time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then it depends on whether this boyfriend is a high-quality boy? If it's really good to you, just because your family is poor, I think you two should work together and work together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    My boyfriend's family can't afford it, shouldn't my boyfriend work hard to buy a house for the future of you? It's good to take out a loan and pay off the mortgage.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you meet such a person, I think you should marry him, because he is willing to sacrifice himself for love and love. I feel great at sacrificing myself for your love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If your boyfriend's family is very poor and your boyfriend can't afford to buy a house, you can also choose to break up with your boyfriend at this time. If your boyfriend has already taken the initiative to break up, then you can also choose to break up with this person at this time, of course, you can also choose to stick to it, but I think you may encounter more problems in the future.

    Everyone's situation is different, feel that your boyfriend's family conditions are very poor, at this time you must also understand clearly, and everyone should be psychologically prepared in advance, if your boyfriend has taken the initiative to break up with you, it means that your boyfriend still loves you very much, because he doesn't want you to suffer with him. So everyone must stick to it, but I think everyone's thoughts are different, if your boyfriend really can't afford to buy a house. At this time, everyone can work together, because I feel that it is not easy to find someone I like very much.

    If you feel that this man is very unreliable, there is no need for you to be with this person at this time, because this person will not love you very much, and it will not provide you with a better life. In fact, I think girls should be materialistic, and there is nothing wrong with being materialistic, if you don't want anything, then you may find that you can't even get love in the future.

    These questions are necessary to attract the attention of girls, because girls are very involved in their love life, if your boyfriend is really in poor family conditions, at this time you must also ask your parents in advance. If this boy is very self-motivated, then I think everyone can stick to it, because this man will also provide you with a good life in the future, and such a man is very responsible.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Listen to your own heart's wishes, if you particularly like your boyfriend, and don't care if there is a room or not, then you choose to persevere, if you care, then break up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Persistence should not be chosen. Because the boyfriend has shaken the relationship, there is no need for such a relationship to continue, and it should not be insisted on.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you don't mind, you can stick to it, and you can wait for your boyfriend to earn money to buy you a house.

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