When do people cry? When are people most likely to cry and why?

Haven't you ever cried?

It's easiest to cry when you're hurt! If your body hurts and you cry, you cry when your heart hurts!

People will cry in some situations, first of all, they will be sad and sad, this is also a kind of emotional outburst, sometimes we feel hopeless and collapse when we are under great psychological pressure, we will cry out loud, so that we will release the pressure.

Sometimes I cry because I am afraid, because I am afraid, because I am frightened, I am afraid, and I have a fear of crying to cover up myself from my heart.

Tears of joy. Sometimes when people are suddenly surprised or moved, there will be a kind of joy and excitement in their hearts that shed festive tears. It was a touch. That's why I cry.

Therefore, people encounter different things in different situations, and the emotions or changes he shows will be different, not all crying is sad, and sadness is more exciting tears and touching surprises.

I will definitely cry when I encounter something sad, and there are many times when I cry heartbreakingly.

People are emotional animals, especially when they are very uncomfortable in their hearts, they are very lost in their hearts, and when they touch their hearts, they will have a feeling of wanting to cry very much, and they will vent in this way.

Then there is what we usually call crying with joy, that is, when you encounter something that is happier and something that is more exciting, your emotions will not be controlled by yourself, and you will also leave tears of happiness.

Like laughter, it is a kind of emotional catharsis. It's just that there are many reasons why laughter is just because it's fun, but there are many reasons to cry, and I think it's as follows:

1. Sadness (including loss of loved ones, loss of love, etc.).

2. Grievances (being wronged, being unspeakable, etc.).

3. Anger (such as injustice).

4. Anxiety (worry about the negative aspects of the unknown).

5. Pain (such as hitting the heater and getting more than 30 stitches).

6. Fear (the flight attendant said that our plane encountered some turbulence in the unstable airflow, please fasten your seat belt and put away the small table).

7. Despair (what you have been holding on to will eventually disappoint you).

8. Touched (such as the person you love has done something that makes you willing to go crazy for him, or hearing a melody of oh ah, seeing a picture will remind you of the past).

9. Everything else I haven't thought of yet.

But although there are so many reasons to make people cry, in fact, everyone laughs much longer than they cry, so it means that most people are still happy more time, which is good, at least it proves that the world is still dominated by happiness.

Tears are caused by emotional stress, and both joy and sadness contribute to the release of this chemical compound. The chemical composition of tears shed by cold air, wind, or cold is very different from that of tears when you are sad.

Sadness is the same as happiness, because some very simple reason creates tears. If the feelings are strong enough, a special hormone will be released, and the person will "cry". Inevitably, this reaction makes onlookers subconsciously believe that the victim's system is losing liquid:

She burst into tears.

First of all, it is normal for people to cry and shout, so let's analyze why people cry in common sense. As the saying goes, men don't flick when they have tears, and it is rare to see hungry men crying, but you can see women crying every day, why do women cry more than men?

1 Tears are caused by emotional pressure, that is, when people's feelings are in place, they will shed tears when they are sad. Both happiness and sadness contribute to the release of this chemical compound. Or the tears that fall from the cold air, wind, sand, or cold, and the tears that are affected by the outside world are very different from the tears that are sad.

2 Under normal circumstances, the tears secreted by a person during the day have the effect of moistening the conjunctiva and cornea of the eyeball, and part of the tears secreted are evaporated by the temperature.

3 Adult men feel that they are stronger than women, so there has always been a saying that "men don't flick when they have tears". The "normal" crying behavior of men and women proved that women did cry more often, on average five times more than men. Women cry 5 out of 10 times because of tears, while men only account for 29

After understanding the basic mechanism of human crying, let's take a closer look at the question of why people cry when they know that crying can't solve the problem (this place is a bit lame).

First of all, everything is not so absolute, and sometimes crying can still solve part of the problem. For example, children's crying can achieve goals that they usually can't achieve, such as food, toys and other things that they usually like; A woman's crying can be a companion's comfort; The crying of adults can win everyone's sympathy; Even the emotional crying of street beggars can reap a lot of benefits, etc.

But crying can play a role in certain situations of relatives, friends or certain situations, but it is definitely not omnipotent, crying in front of strangers or people who lack empathy, in exchange for only indifference, ridicule, and only the help of weak souls under the contemptuous gaze.

And a person who knows that crying can't solve the problem, and keeps crying, must be a person who is emotionally rich and delicate, sensitive and fragile, weak and introverted, and unwilling to face difficulties. But it's good to admit that you love to cry!

When you're sad, when you're uncomfortable, when you're desperate, cry if you want to. American scientist Ferrey said that people do not cry when they are sad, which is harmful to their health, which is equivalent to chronic suicide, and the prevalence rate of people who do not cry for a long time is twice as high as that of people who shed tears.

See! Crying is not useless.

However, after crying, remember to wipe away your tears and tell yourself: "Moscow does not believe in tears!" Then find a master for guidance, ask the wise man for help, and find a way to solve the problem, which is not in vain for us to cry!

Crying is the best way for people to vent. Now this high-temperature liquid attack, high-frequency society, so that the troublesome brothers are under a lot of pressure every day, through the way of crying to vent their emotions, it is good for the body, if these bad emotions are held in the heart, it is easy to have physical or mental diseases. Under normal circumstances, people are prone to crying at the most excited, or the saddest lightness.

When meeting friends who have not seen for a long time and seeing parents who have not seen them for a long time, people will cry excitedly, this kind of crying is a happy cry, which is very good for the body. And crying when encountering difficulties and setbacks, it is sad crying. In this case, it is best not to hold back your crying, you should cry out loud, and vent your heart unhappily, so as to release the anger in your chest and relieve the pressure of the state.

Hello: The first time was when I left my hometown and got on the train to the south, and I couldn't stop crying on the train. Thinking of my mother's tears when she said goodbye, I secretly wiped away the tears and red eyes while I was not paying attention, so that I didn't dare to look at her eyes, for fear that I would cry out and the two of them would collapse emotionally.

Looking at the green fields outside the car and the distant city, I knew that I needed to grow and shoulder the responsibility.

The second time was in the south, a few months were not as smooth as I imagined, I was timid and cautious at work, often made mistakes due to nervousness, was not reused by the leader, and was always in the role of soy sauce. I began to live in a relative's house, and for the first time I felt the feeling of Wu Xun Brigade under the fence, none of the lights of thousands of homes were lit for me, like a lonely soul in the city, floating everywhere, no one cared, and I also felt how important it was to have a house of my own. Crying happened when I left my relatives' house and sat on the bus, thinking about my recent work status, and I couldn't do anything about it for most of the year, I was weak like an ant in this city, and how to repay the people who were kind to me, the helplessness in this strange city deeply stung the weak heart, and I cried silently.

Everyone has their joys and sorrows, and I believe that many people will have the experience of breaking down and crying. However, there shouldn't be a lot of such experiences, unless it's something big, we don't cry out loud in our daily lives for some small things. In fact, we should not suppress our emotions excessively, sometimes when we really can't bear something, we can vent it, and crying out loud is one of the ways to vent our emotions.

So, what are some of your experiences of breaking down and crying? First of all, when his lover abandoned him, he broke down and cried on the night of his lovelorn. Secondly, when a loved one died, he cried loudly.

In the end, when his friend betrayed him, he couldn't help but break down and cry.

1. When your lover abandoned herself, she broke down and cried on the night of her lovelorn Almost everyone has experienced the pain of falling out of love, but the degree of pain is different. In his first love stage, Sun Xian, he was the one who was forced to break up. So, you can imagine how painful it was when I was abandoned by my lover.

On the night of the breakup, I cried bitterly all night.

2. When a loved one dies, crying loudly, there is nothing more painful than saying goodbye to oneself. My grandmother has loved herself since she was a child, and she has a very good relationship with herself. When he learned the news of his grandmother's death, he broke down and cried.

However, my grandmother is very old, and her death is predictable. Even so, he still couldn't accept the fact that his grandmother would say goodbye to him forever.

3. When a friend betrays him, he can't help but break down and cry that he doesn't have many friends, and he treats each friend with his heart and lungs. However, there are friends who betray themselves, and the reason is because of interests. When he learned of his friend's betrayal, he couldn't accept this fact for a while, so he couldn't help but break down and cry.

However, afterwards, I gradually let go. After all, what the other party loses is a friend who is good to him, and what he loses is only a person who betrays him.

These are some of the experiences of breaking down and crying.

I think the main reason why people cry is because they have been greatly wronged in their hearts, and they can't relieve the pressure in their hearts, and through crying, they can also release the negative energy of the body and make people recover as soon as possible. There is no doubt that we often know that crying can't solve the problem at all, but we still can't control our emotions and will cry, when we encounter great setbacks and difficulties in life, or when we are not very wronged, I come to cry can release my inner pressure to a large extent.

First of all, although when you are tired, you also clearly realize that it is impossible to solve the problem by crying, but in the case of being full of pressure and grievances in your heart, if you don't let this pressure and grievances be released well, then your heart will be more depressed, especially for many girls, when you cry when you cry when you encounter something that makes you sad, this sadness in your heart will be very good.

On the other hand, the reason why I know that crying and can't solve the problem but still can't control crying is also a lot to do with my heart is not strong enough, but it mainly depends on my own growth experience, family education and other factors, because in my own growth process, I lack too many setbacks and difficult tests, so when I really encounter difficulties, I am often overwhelmed because of the lack of enough strength in my heart, and I can only show this confusion and loss in my heart by crying, and if I want to change this situation, I must learn to adjust my mentality.

Therefore, we allow ourselves to gradually adapt to some setbacks and difficulties in life, and gradually make ourselves strong in our hearts, so that when we encounter difficulties in life, we will be surprised and stop crying to face them with a more mature and rational attitude. In this way, it is the performance that a strong person in life should have.