Why do people who used to talk so much have nothing to say in the end?

Everyone you know knows what you don't know, that's why there is gossip and something to say, and if it is understood too thoroughly and transparently, there will be no desire to continue talking. If you tell me something I don't know, and I'll tell you something you don't know, then we can have a good conversation, otherwise what else is there to communicate? Gatherings are about exchanging information that we don't know about each other, filling in the gaps of time when we are not together.

The relationship between people is never black and white, and the gray area accounts for most of it, which is the manifestation of humanity. Because people's hearts can never be guessed, whether they are suspicious of each other or understand each other, no one can really empathize, and who will know if it hurts others.

If you are familiar with it, you will get tired of it, and you will continue to improve your requirements, and you will become more and more unpleasant, and naturally you will have nothing to say about estrangement.

You think that the person has only said those things to you, and has kept her mouth shut, when in fact, she has said those things to many people. Then you understand that it's not that others don't pay attention to you, but that you think too simply, your thinking is too simple, your thinking is too simple, you don't speak well, and you take yourself too seriously.

The body is far away, and the heart is light, so it is still necessary to get close and get together more in order to better maintain the relationship. Long-distance greetings can't warm people's hearts. The figure that can't be seen can only go away like that. The heart that has been broken has become numb.

Things change, and so do people. Yesterday's buddy, today's buddy. For the benefit of each. If it is useful, it will be combined, and if it is not useful, it will be divided. If you seek profit, you will rebel, and you will be annoyed when you strive for profit. It is easy to share hardships and hardships, but it is difficult to share wealth and prosperity. That's it.

There is a song title that says well, familiar strangers. Often the smiling faces are given to strangers, and the people around them are neglected. Because it is so familiar, there are some questions that need not to be said. It's too much, but I don't want to listen to it anymore, human nature.

Innocence is a word that can be praised or degraded, the innocence of children is cute, and the innocence of adults is ignorant. As I get older, I am still being said to be simple, which makes me feel more and more that it is not a good word to describe human character. You are simple, so it is easy to suffer in a world where people's hearts are complicated, you are simple, so if you are not careful, you will be caught in a trap, you are simple, so you don't know when you have been used by others, and you are still complacent and think that you have met a good person.

In fact, many times, whether it is a couple or a couple, there will be such a problem at a certain stage, that is, when chatting with the other half, there are fewer and fewer topics, and there is less and less to talk about. Although it turns out that two people have nothing to talk about, as time goes by, the desire for communication will become weaker, and you will wonder if the relationship between two people has come to an end.

Generally speaking, there are two situations when you don't want to talk, one is that the relationship really starts to change, not that the two parties have nothing to say, but they don't want to talk to the other party, especially when one party talks about a topic with the other party excitedly, and the other party often behaves slanderously, perfunctory or indifferent, and can't understand the meaning of what the other party says.

When this happens, the person who is proposing the topic will gradually reduce their desire to communicate, until they finally give up communication altogether. If such a situation occurs, it means that there is something wrong with the relationship between the two people, and if you don't pay attention, it will definitely affect the emotional development of the two people. In fact, two people need some space, at this time to reflect, is the two of each other too tightly bound, if the two keep a distance, it is not particularly easy to meet, so they will miss each other more, will love more, so when there is no communication, the feelings should be loosened.

Of course, there is another situation, that is, the relationship enters the next stage of Zen, enters the period of stability, the initial freshness begins to drain, and slowly returns to rationality, and the interaction between you will slowly "cool down". At this time, the two people are stable and relaxed, they will not start arguing because of a trivial matter, and they are more tolerant of each other, they don't need to be deliberately accommodating to please, and they don't need to have nothing to say. In the same room, each doing their own thing, and without any words, they can still feel the happiness of simplicity.

1. Unintentionally bumped into it.

2. I don't want to pay attention to you.

3. There is nothing to say.

1. I don't like to chat with punctuation personality:

Usually there is no punctuation in a paragraph, sometimes it will be replaced by a space, sometimes there is not even a space, how to break a sentence, full screen you play personally. This shows that he is more anxious, likes to rush forward when doing things, and rarely immerses himself in the memories of the past. Sometimes things are not done with thought, and even when making decisions without prudence.

Sometimes they prefer to immerse themselves in their personal world, and although they sometimes feel their emotions to others, they are also more self-healing.

2. Like a sentence and a line of personality traits:

They have similarities in the first category, and the replies can be two words and two responses, or even one word at a time. Whatever they think of in the chat, even if there is only one word will be typed, they can always have two or three words as a sentence, and you will find that the reply to your sentence can even be divided into five times, and there will be individual typos in the middle, and then send a separate correction word as a sentence.

They are usually more impatient, eager to express their thoughts, they are more sensitive, and they are more concerned about whether they can be approved by others. Sometimes it can seem frizzy, but it's also a type of person who can easily and quickly establish a chat relationship with others.

3. I like to end with a comma.

They tend to be easy-going, they don't pay much attention to detail, and they always blend in quickly with the crowd. When communicating with others, it seems that there is always an endless topic in their minds, usually people have a higher acceptance of this kind of people, they are a good communicator, they always seem to have a fresh topic output, sometimes it is considered to be chatter, but it does not prevent people from recognizing them.

Hello, if you want to avoid the daily communication between lovers becoming the reason for the breakup, you must learn to choose the right way to communicate according to the other party's way of doing things and personality, so as to achieve better results.

Many couples have communication problems, which is actually easy to understand, because the other half is a close person to us, generally speaking, many people think that close people should be able to understand what they need, so we think they should be the most understanding and supportive of us.

So when the other party can't reach an agreement with us point-to-point, we feel that the other party doesn't care about themselves, and if the other party can't meet their expectations, they will use some bad ways to express their needs, all because we have too high expectations for the people close to us, but sometimes we don't realize it.

For example, they will use insulting words to punish the other person for not understanding. But this is unrealistic, and even we ourselves are not able to understand and support the needs and thoughts of our loved ones. Why should the other party accept you?

In fact, if couples can talk well, they can add a lot of interest, reduce a lot of unnecessary conflicts, and avoid breakups caused by poor communication.

It's not that the other party can't put forward mistakes, the most important thing in communication is not to be reasonable, to talk about right and wrong, but to communicate each other's emotions and feelings.

You can use actions to match words, and what I say is not to do it when both parties are dissatisfied, but to learn to use gentle language and powerful actions to make the other party correct your dissatisfaction with him.

When I first fell in love, every time I would ask my partner what he had for lunch, he would mostly reply to me like this: "It's okay, whatever".

But a few months later, when he said, "It's okay," I wanted to run away. Why don't we talk about your suggestion too, will you come back to the main line for me? Then instead of asking him what he was eating, I asked him, "What do you say to eat today, I'll listen to you." ”

But he still said, "It's all right." So I took him to eat fried rice for a week.

He couldn't stand it anymore and began to tell me seriously, "Is it okay for us to eat that tomorrow, and can we eat this the day after tomorrow?" Since then, he has never told me that he can eat anything.

In fact, communication does not have to be temper tantrums, imposing your own ideas on the other party, and attacking the other party with ugly words, which will only make the other party avoid you or even hate you. With some practical actions, couples who have been together for a long time will unconsciously produce a relatively stable mode of getting along, that is, a balance point model infiltration. If, after a while, you feel that this balance point should be broken, it is time to change the initiative.

In addition to unilateral efforts in words, it is possible to think differently, and the words are still gentle, and when combined with strong actions, they may work faster.

Good luck! <>

First of all, frequent chatting can give people the illusion of love. It's like you're in love, but you're actually indulging in a feeling, a fantasy, or a spiritual sustenance.

Second, you're in love with someone you imagine.

He may be soft-spoken, and it just so happens that you don't like people who are too hot-tempered, so you automatically substitute him as the perfect partner.

You keep refining his image in your mind, constantly convincing yourself. Besides, through the screen, you don't know who's on the other side. Words can express the essence of people's hearts, but they are also easy to disguise.

Maybe a punctuation mark, a word, can make you misunderstand, such a low-cost love experience will be easy to indulge.

And words are actually an illusion, because words can be packaged, and language can be modified.

Some people wait for you to look through the text and over the screen to meet face-to-face, only to find that it's not like that at all. And true love should be based on the sincerity of mutual appreciation and mutual giving.

It's always said that the subtext of the desire to share is to like. 」

I don't deny this sentence, but there are many kinds of likes, and not all of them have the idea of falling in love.

For example, some people are very good at chatting and like to share their lives; Some people will share with many people at the same time, and you are not the only one; There are also people who share with you just as a friend, and they just maintain friendship with you, and they don't have other meanings. If you have the illusion of being in love in a chat, but you feel that the other person doesn't seem to want to be in love that much, you should be aware of one thing:

He shares a lot every day just because he is a person who wants to share, and you are a person who responds to everything he says. 」

Maybe he likes you and will share his life with you every day, but that doesn't mean the other way around.

If you want to maximize the value of your marriage and love, you need to have three abilities, knowing the channels of men, attracting men's charm and judging a man's eyesight. Today, we're going to talk about a little topic about judgment.

Amei works in a monopoly state-owned enterprise in Shanghai, this kind of unit, the treatment is not the best, but the work is relatively easy, and Amei is also given a Shanghai hukou, so the cost performance is very high. Amei is 25 years old this year, and she is in a girl's **mate selection period, because the comprehensive conditions are good, so there are more people who introduce Amei. Amei's colleague introduced her to a friend of her own, and now she is introduced, everyone is trying to save trouble efficiently, and when she introduces people, she simply pulled the two of them into a group and let them get to know each other.

As for Amei, just like that, I added the man introduced by his colleague, and the two chatted back and forth on WeChat for about a month. In the first week, the man didn't talk a lot because he wasn't familiar with it. Later, I slowly got familiar with it, this man became more enthusiastic, greeting him every day, chatting with Amei if he had something to do, and caring about her.

In the second week, I originally made an appointment to meet Amei, but just in time for Amei to work overtime, I missed it, so the two of them chatted more lively, and by the end of the third week, Amei thought that this man might ask herself out, but at this time, there was no movement on the man's side. By the fourth week, the man talked very little, and even didn't take the initiative to find Amei. So, Ame came to me with such a question.