Emotional problems, just want to talk about it

Hehe, in fact, you shouldn't have paid for her in the first place, it's a sin to pay for someone who doesn't love you. I'm a girl too, but this girl really makes her feel pathetic for her, she just enjoys being pursued To put it bluntly, she's greedy and vain Thinking I'm good Don't blame me for saying that I'm serious.

That kind of woman is not worth your grief.

That's growth, and it's good to go through it.

Feelings should be watched first and then paid.

Remember, the people who remember love in the world are their parents and themselves.

And then go and love other people.

I hope you harvest a beautiful relationship and look down on these memories as soon as possible.

I'm only a freshman in high school, and I think this girl is so conflicted. She may not mean it, sometimes girls have this kind of mentality, and they don't know how to describe it If it's really intentional, then you should be glad to see it, remember, be optimistic and optimistic!!

Happy every day! Alilua!!

Since you have typed so many words, it seems that it is really a so-called "relationship" People must pursue in life Real men are injured by women, and you are still an apprentice Fate will naturally come.

Well, I've finished talking about you, give me points.

Reality is cruel, let's face it!

Recently, my best friend told me that she was very distressed and didn't know how to reconcile her parents.

His parents have been married for so many years, and they have quarreled for many years, and every time they encounter something, they will quarrel, and gradually they don't trust each other so much, so they go their own way, but in fact, both parties hope that the family is good, and they work hard and work hard for the family.

However, because of the discordant relationship, her best friend was a little afraid of marriage, and later, she decided to talk to her parents.

For his father's side, he felt that everything could not be discussed between the two of them, and every time he heard his mother say something hard, absolutely, he felt very uncomfortable, and he didn't want to communicate, and sometimes he would deliberately do something to make the other party angry.

For my mother, I feel that my father is not considerate and patient enough, he usually doesn't discuss anything, he just does his own, and he can't be forgiven for his hard work, so he will often say angry words, overwhelm in words, and sometimes even think about it.

At this point, the girlfriends found that the most important thing for them is communication, if the mother can say more good things to the father, it may not make the father panic, and the father can understand, maybe there will be no misunderstanding of the mother.

In fact, 99% of the contradictions in feelings lie in communication, a person doesn't want to say, a person can't listen, this information will be blocked, and the more it will become, the more dry it will be, and in the end it will only become a sharp weapon to hurt people.

In the parents' generation, the parents of both sides got married when they thought it was appropriate, and both of them were hard-working and hard-working, but they couldn't say good things, on the one hand, they never said it, and they felt that the old husband and wife were old, so there was no need to say it. On the other hand, I also failed to master the skills of communication, and I felt that if I said it and hurt others, it was like I had won.

Although every time it is a lose-lose situation.

Feelings are not a feeling, sometimes they are a responsibility. When a person is with a person, it may be just a feeling at first, but how to maintain this feeling or make it turn into a deeper feeling is the responsibility of both people.

It is the responsibility of both people to create this vicious circle, on the one hand, the other person does not maintain that feeling in your mind, and on the other hand, you do not give the other person the opportunity to sublimate this feeling into feelings.

Affection is a matter for two people, and when the two love turns into wishful thinking, separating may be a good choice, but another option may be better, and that is how not to separate. If the value of separation to a certain person is greater than the value of two people together, then it is better to choose to separate, if separation brings only sadness to both parties, or being together is only a burden to a certain person, then separation is the best choice. If, after separation, it is found that the reason for the separation is simply because of the lack of novelty, then it is very likely that one party is irresponsible to the other, and the two parties may only be hurt and hurt.

Why do people fall in love, and what is love for? How can a relationship last long? What should I do if I encounter problems during this process? If one party has a problem, how should the other party choose?

Two people fall in love for happiness, to support each other, and to have someone in the world who is most willing to accept you besides your parents.

It's not about right and wrong, it's not about competing with each other's coldness and useless nobility.

You have 10,000 ways to prove yourself right and resilient in the outside world, but in front of those who love you, only softness and tolerance are the only strong evidence.

Taking the yardstick of "judging true love" to score the closest people is meant to put you and the other person in an inevitable confrontation.

The friction between the big and small in those intimate relationships is originally a necessary process to polish two angular people into a harmonious symbiosis.

If you listen to a lot of fairy tales, you will expect to have such a person, who understands your extraneous sounds, satisfies your beautiful dreams, and whose personality is in tune with you as if it is a roundworm in your stomach.

will forget that there is no partner in the world who is tailor-made for you, and the so-called true love is not that God will give you a perfect lover, but that we are willing to accept that part of the other party that attracts me for the part that is different from me.

Intimacy that can last for a long time must not be a calculation, let alone a calculation.

It must not be me vs you, but us vs the problem.

When you encounter the problem of bending and sleepy cars, think about how to solve the problem. Problems will always be solved.