I have been married for one year and my children are four months old, and my wife wants to divorce m

If you want to reconcile, you should find a way to do reconciliation work as soon as possible. If you agree to the divorce, because the child is still breastfeeding and is under the age of two, the mother should raise the child and the father should bear the maintenance until the child is 18 years old. The pre-marital property shall be owned separately and the joint property of the husband and wife shall be divided equally.

This opinion is only based on the description of the questioner, and the final opinion should be determined after specific verification of the relevant facts, and this is not the final lawyer's legal opinion.

Since your child is still breastfeeding, he is not yet over one year old. So in this case, the court will not allow the two of you to divorce.

Only after your child is over one year old can you get a divorce.

And now you mainly have to consider what the reason for the divorce of the two of you is, the main thing is to see which of the two of you has a problem, of course, if there is a problem, it must be solved, so you must solve the problem of the two of you first, and then think about the divorce.

Whoever makes the mistake should stand up and admit the mistake in advance, and then the two of you should avoid the divorce.

If the other party really wants to divorce, you have no choice, then you can only fight for child custody.

Then you go and look for a woman who is right for you to live with.

First of all, you must find out why you want to get a divorce, otherwise you will repeat the same mistakes after you have a new family. Just four months of marriage is still a sweet period, so it is necessary to find out what is the reason why you want to divorce because you are uncomfortable living in your in-law's house? Or is your husband inconsiderate to you?

If it is for such reasons, it is not a big problem, I believe that there are ways to solve it, so it is recommended that you discuss with your husband and tell him that the problem is solved together to improve the quality of life, divorce is just a way for you to escape the problem, but if you continue to solve the marriage problem in this way, it will be difficult for you to get happiness.

Secondly, before getting married, a woman must be psychologically prepared to integrate into a new family. After marriage, women will have a lot of discomfort from one family to another, such as the neighbors have to get acquainted again, and even learn to get along with their in-laws, which requires a woman to be strong enough in her heart or be psychologically prepared enough to accept all this before marriage.

As a man, you should be strong in your heart, understand that marriage is not a play house between children, and don't choose to escape because of pressure. Love is sweet after all, but marriage is completely different, every day in the face of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea is boring and boring, and for men, the pressure after marriage is much greater than when they are in love, and the man who is under the pressure of the mortgage and car loan is breathless, but the world is so fair, after marriage, women must learn to integrate into the in-law's family, and men must learn to earn money to support their families. The burden on the shoulders of a boy to a man is naturally many times heavier, so we can only make ourselves stronger and strong enough in our hearts, and divorce will eventually cure the symptoms but not the root cause.

Whether it is a man or a woman, marriage is not a child's play, love is a matter of two people and marriage is a matter of two families, we can not divorce because of a moment of unhappiness or discomfort, this is just a manifestation of your immaturity. It is not easy for two people to fall in love with each other and get married, and even exhaust the efforts of the two families to buy a car and a house just because of marriage, if you don't even figure out the truth that you want to divorce, it is a pity, and it is irresponsible to yourself and both families.

Again, a partner in a marriage can't learn, or even don't realize, how important the ability to love someone is. ”

But why do some people love more and more after they get married?

It's because these people know how to solve problems in marriage, and you keep complaining about "why problems arise."

People who hold their partners and love themselves, and there will be no problems in marriage, are often the ones who are most likely to be played to death by marriage.

In marriage, you will definitely encounter big and small problems that you need to face and solve, these problems will make you feel the pain points of marriage, but in fact, marriage is not so bad, most people experience the same thing as you.

Divorce is not terrible.

What's really terrible is that after getting married and divorced, the family is separated, and I don't have any growth and reflection at all, and even live with the next person in a daze, and finally start to live the old life with the new person.

Personally, I think that we must be calm down at this time, we have just been married for a long time, don't have such thoughts, two people should communicate well when they encounter problems, help each other and understand each other.

If you are not happy or unhappy, I don't think you will be happy in the future, so you can leave if you want.

1.What should I do if I want to get a divorce after four months of marriage.

Marriage is not child's play, since there is no emotion, why do you get married?

Divorce will bring losses to both parties.

First of all, both parties are married for the second time, and secondly, they also have a discount on their relationship history.

What property damage is also only something outside the body.

Then go directly to the court to sue, and you can ask the court to divorce.

Because there are no children, it is nothing more than the division of property, and if the woman does not have too much, then the court will give a better sentence.

After going to the court to file a lawsuit, you must also go through the adjustment procedure to strive for a divorce by agreement.

If it really doesn't work, a divorce will also be granted.

The court has a time limit, which seems to be a three-month period, and the court also has an assessment.

2.I wanted to get a divorce after less than four months of marriage, what should I do.

After less than four months of marriage, the parties want to get a divorce, and if the relationship does break down or there are other circumstances that qualify for divorce, they can get a divorce.

Divorce can be obtained by mutual agreement or by sue for divorce. Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted.

Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person who has a spouse; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change after repeated attempts; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault. Article 34: The man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after giving birth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy.

This restriction does not apply if the woman files for divorce, or where the people's court deems it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

3.Divorce after four months of marriage, what to do with the huge bride price.

According to Article 10 of the Interpretation (II) of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, "where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply: (1) the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; (2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together; (3) Payments made before marriage and causing hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

2. If there is no marriage registration and there is no cohabitation, you can ask for the return of the bride price. The return of the bride price is subject to the ordinary statute of limitations, i.e., two years, and the right to prevail is lost after the expiration of the date.

We have been married for 12 years, we divorced half a year ago, and my wife is still living in the house for four months after the divorce, and during these four months, I found my wife.

After the divorce of the husband and wife, they will lose their spousal rights, and if they still live together, they will be recognized as cohabitation. Because the legal consequences of divorce mainly include three aspects: personal life, property, and child support.

The question of how to determine whether the divorce is still living together is a matter of identity, and it is not a de facto marriage or the restoration of marital relations as some people think, but cohabitation.

Judging from the financial situation of the two of you, it is very likely that you will keep the children, because if the two of you are really separated, whoever has better economic conditions will have a better chance of keeping the children.

In fact, I personally suggest that the two of you can communicate well, if it is not a problem that touches the bottom line, it is still possible to save your wife's heart.

In the end, it's not a big deal, but you spend less time with her, but I also hope that she can think about it from your point of view, so if the two of you talk about it, you may be able to save your marriage.

In this case, you can keep your children, but for the sake of the children, you should find someone to do ideological work for your daughter-in-law, or find her mother to talk about it, divorce is not a solution to depression, but will be more depressing, the child is too young, the child is too pitiful, communicate with your daughter-in-law well, you can also ask your daughter-in-law to go to work, and ask her mother to come to see the child.

My wife and I have been married for more than a year and nine months, is it okay for my wife to file for divorce? I think that since the wife has filed for divorce, it should be okay, if the man files for divorce, it is not okay, let my wife file for divorce, it should be okay, so I think it should be okay for the wife to file for divorce, married for more than a year, the child is nine months old, and the wife files for divorce.

Although the specifics are yet to be understood, any divorce should be considered after careful consideration, calm and reason. If you can't resolve the conflict and save the marriage, the best option is to communicate honestly, respect the other person, follow the legal process for divorce, and pay attention to the growth and development of the children. Before making a decision, it is recommended that both husband and wife seriously think about the meaning, purpose and future planning of marriage, and at the same time make up for the shortcomings of both parties through emotional communication, family education, material security, etc., so as to achieve a harmonious and happy family life.

In any case, staying calm, honest and respectful are important prerequisites for dealing with divorce issues, and it is recommended that couples seek professional counselling to resolve conflicts and find the best solution together.

Divorce is not possible during pregnancy, and the child is generally awarded to the mother before the child is three years old, unless there are special circumstances, if the divorce is filed by lawsuit.