Young grandmothers in rural areas are becoming more and more common, why do parents accept them wi

In recent years, there has been a strange phenomenon in the countryside, that is, in the past, daughters-in-law generally honored their in-laws, but now it is the other way around. Often the daughter-in-law doesn't do anything at home, and the child is taken care of by her mother-in-law, so she doesn't have to worry about housework. Even the meal was prepared by the mother-in-law, and then asked her to come and eat directly, and continued to be the shopkeeper after eating.

Therefore, some old people in the countryside joked that this ** is to marry a daughter-in-law, which is simply to invite a Buddha at home. And such daughters-in-law, the villagers also unanimously call them "young grandmothers".

Influenced by the idea of patriarchy, many people in the past said that it was good to have a son and that it could be passed on to the next generation. It is also under the influence of this thinking that some families are desperate to have sons. If you give birth to several daughters in a row, you will give them away.

As a resultThe rural population has more men than women, and it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law.

For parents, their sons are already very lucky to be able to marry their daughters-in-law, so they can't ask too much of their daughters-in-law, which can only make their sons embarrassed. Since his body is still quite strong, he can help if he can. If your son divorces because of your own reasons, it hurts your son and grandson the most.

Therefore, many parents-in-law will "give in" in front of their daughters-in-law.

Plus,Today's rural parents are also keeping up with the trend and will no longer use the same set of standards to demand their daughters-in-law. The older generation also knows very well that every child is the pearl of their parents, especially girls, who have not done any housework since they were young, and they don't know much after they get married, unlike the older generation, which can do all kinds of needlework and housework. Let inexperienced mothers take care of children, grandparents are not at ease, so mothers-in-law naturally have to take on the responsibility.

It may be that they are used to this phenomenon and can accept it naturally.

Maybe it's because the old people in the countryside think that it should be like this, after all, they are daughters-in-law in the city.

There are still a lot of contradictions in this, after all, there are many differences between the two generations.

Because it's too difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, is it impossible to get a divorce?

I think most of the reason is that parents are accommodating to their children, which promotes children's willfulness towards their parents. This has led to the emergence of the phenomenon of young grandmothers.

Now this is the case, it is very common, it is not easy to marry a wife in the countryside, basically parents will willingly admit such a fact, and there will be no complaints.

Because it's not easy to marry a wife now, you have to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to marry home, you can only accept it willingly, if you have a little complaint, your wife is gone, and the family's money is spent in vain.

Urban girls dare not be young grandmothers, how can rural girls be young grandmothers? Did you marry the stupid son of the landlord? This is misleading and biased......!

The main reason why there are more and more young grandmothers in rural areas is that there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, there are more men than women, and the cost of marriage is also very high.

The main reason is that they are too pampered and indulged in life, which will lead to this happening.

Nowadays, in this society, many families are popular for girls to be rich and boys to be poor. Many girls don't know how to cook, and they don't know much about some common sense of life. Once these girls marry into the countryside, they will be confused about the farm work.

One is the influence of TV dramas or vulgar plots on the Internet, thinking that the daughter-in-law should be the eldest in the family and does not need to take care of the face of her husband and elders.

For this problem, we have to analyze it from three aspects!

Because today's young people have never suffered hardships and are all pampered, there are more and more young grandmothers in rural areas.

This suitable for young men in rural areas has a great deal to do with whether they can marry a daughter-in-law. There are even some who spend hundreds of thousands of bride price to marry a daughter-in-law and come back to be sure to provide for it, and there is that many women are lazy and vanity, and comparisons have become a trend, resulting in this phenomenon becoming more and more difficult and serious.

Because the construction of the countryside is getting better and better, as long as there are children in the family, they are also spoiled, rather than being sensible too early as before, so girls in the countryside are also raised by wealth.

Because there are many men in rural areas nowadays, many people have reached a certain age, but they cannot marry a daughter-in-law. People who can find a partner will spoil their wives very much, and they won't let them do anything, just like a young grandmother.

Because there are fewer girls and more men than sons, and if you don't hurry up to marry a daughter-in-law, you can't even marry a disabled or mentally retarded person, so there are fewer grandmothers.

Because there are many elderly people living alone in rural areas, even if there is a young grandmother at home, it is much better than not having children by their side, so they will be happy to accept this fact.

The main reason is that many young girls are not willing to marry in the countryside and yearn for big cities, if they marry into the village, it will definitely be the life of the young grandmother, the family takes care of the girls and needs someone to serve, because the probability of being single in the countryside is still very large, so it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law.

There are fewer grandmothers in rural areas, and there are more because the status of women has become higher. Then she was raised at home, this is the young grandmother in the countryside, super powerful.

I don't think these women can be so arrogant, they need to improve, learn to be diligent, do it themselves, and be a better person

The increasing number of "less grandmothers" in rural areas reflects the improvement of women's status under the reality that there are more men and fewer women, but women cannot be very superior because of this, and two people need to understand each other to live.

Or is it because the imbalance between men and women is too serious, which makes it difficult for boys to marry wives, and even if they marry wives, they are kept at home.

In fact, the main reason is that these women have not studied for a long time, so they will choose to marry at a relatively young age.

That's true, there's nothing wrong with that, there are a lot of rotten people around me, and I don't want to go out to work and stay at home all day.