What should I do if I can t control my own style? 10

I don't know if it's the pressure that causes me to be depressed, or if I've never been interested in life.

In short, it is still the same sentence: life does not give us anything, what we give to life, life will reward us. Therefore, as long as you can be active, life will naturally be full.

Don't be negative about life, and don't let all kinds of unsatisfactory things in life affect you. Try your best to show yourself, identify with yourself, and learn to pursue whatever you want. Don't let yourself be left empty in a circle of negativity.

It is precisely because of many unsatisfactory things in life that we know how to cherish other things. Look at everything around you with an appreciative eye, otherwise, once you think that you are deep darkness, you will also silence yourself. I suppressed myself, so that I couldn't treat things with a good side, and I always felt that the things around me were also gray, so I closed myself even more.

Be positive, as long as we are positive, we will be interested in many things. If you always suppress yourself and can't have a great interest in anything, you will also lose your vitality because of the lack of enthusiasm.

Make yourself motivated enough. During this time, relax yourself first and face your surroundings with a more stable mind. Do something you love and exercise to vent yourself.

Communicate more than people, go to more crowded places to stand, to see the various states of life, to see the people walking on the busy road and the vitality shown in them.

Because human consciousness is divided into two parts: the unconscious. And the control mechanism of the brain is on the table. If something shakes your conscious system, or if your subconscious needs or uneasiness are excessively expanded, it will have an impact on your conscious mind.

So you can't control your thoughts!

The mind cannot be completely controlled by yourself, and the more you think about it, the more you control it, the more you can't help but think, you have to be able to free yourself from the idea that you want to control your mind and let it develop freely. The best way to prevent cranky thinking is to occupy it with another thought, and you are completely engaged in one thing that you like, and you can't think of anything else.

An outstanding person should have both precepts, concentration, and wisdom.

Precepts – It is necessary to maintain a standard of life for a long time, undergo rigorous training, and sacrifice many personal pleasures.

Determination - must be in danger, just like Mount Tai collapsed in front of the color unchanged, as long as the concentration is slightly insufficient, a flash, years of hard work will be burned.

Wisdom - in addition to the development of limbs, only and must be developed, outstanding people must have outstanding minds, otherwise they cannot win in an instant.

If you do all three of these things, you will be able to control your mind well.

Go to a psychiatrist and do some ideological work.

There is no way to change others, so I have to try to change myself. In fact, everyone has his strengths, learn to find his strengths.

People nowadays are very social! The official-oriented ideology has deeply poisoned the Chinese!

He is him, you are you. No matter if he is soaring, you have no regrets. Have fun with your heart.

Is there a salary?

If you have a salary, you will become a working emperor.

Thirty-six strategies, go for the best policy!

There is always a feeling of wanting to laugh, so it is difficult to control what he says at this moment. "The things that make you angry are usually touching you.

That's a good thing! Don't be influenced by those false intellectuals who are nostalgic for going back and forth in a sad life, thinking that this is a precursor to neurosis, and that you want to laugh to show that you subconsciously feel that your body and mind are happy, which means that you are in a good state.

Happy people laugh, don't control your laughter, go with the flow.

Seeing this question, my heart couldn't help but tremble slightly, and when I came in and thought about it, when did I stop laughing? It was high school, and I was the happiest in the class, often laughing and giggling, and some people said, this classmate is really happy. I'm very happy.

But I'm not going to teach you how to control laughter right now, because every nature has its raison d'être, and anything that stifles it will bring disaster.

What a laugh! But it also depends on the occasion, and when you don't want to laugh, think about people and things that make you feel disgusting or annoying!

Laugh if you want to, you should cherish every opportunity to laugh, isn't it, I'm glad that there are still such happy things. o∩_∩o

Laughter proves that you are a happy person, be your true self, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, this is the happiest person, hehe, I hope it will help you.

It's a good thing. Learn to be vicious, too. Otherwise, kindness will be bullied by bad eyes or villains.

The opportunity is no better than undergrad, not to watch, not to watch, not to include Dad.

Why do you want to control, you are born to be an optimist. That's who you really are.

It's not a bad thing to want to laugh a lot, but it just depends on the occasion. Would you have had such an experience? For example, in a formal setting, you will want to laugh because you hear or see something, but others may not know why you are laughing, and they will look at you with surprised eyes. For example, if your boss asks you to do something, and you want to laugh because you think it's stupid to do so, then in the eyes of your leader, you are not serious about doing things, and maybe it will make the leader angry.

If such a scenario arises in your life, then you need to learn to distinguish between occasions where you can laugh freely and when you need to control yourself, and then strengthen your emotional control. What do you think?

That's good. It means you're happy. Hah

This may be less comfortable than just working. But it doesn't matter, it's a big deal to resign... What does the leader drag!

I hate people like that! If you still want to stay, then you follow the step-by-step, look at the documents, don't give him a handle, he can't raise a person who doesn't work for nothing, and if you don't work, you will be idle... Occasionally clean and clean, don't give him a handle!!

There are two possibilities, one is that the department leader has a prejudice against you, and the other is that there are other arrangements for you, you wait patiently for a few days, if you don't arrange it, just politely ask the leader.

One of the best ways to do this is to go out on the street and talk to strangers about yourself, or go to some kind of newspaper to go to a crowded place to advertise it, no charges, no money, just to train yourself, as I used to do.

Business doesn't rely on handing out business cards in exchange for performance! Connections are built up in the bits and pieces of your life! Being thick-skinned does not mean that you can do a good job, but wisdom can definitely achieve wealth! People are people-oriented, sometimes faster than you can send hundreds of business cards!

Changfeng Kid:

Hello, I am a counselor, and your situation is compatible with your inner needs, because you have been living alone since you were 14 years old, lacking attention, recognition, and emotional deficiencies. Therefore, in your heart, you have the idea of being noticed by everyone, fantasizing about being sought after by everyone, being noticed and loved by everyone, so you fantasize about singing like a singer and giving speeches to your classmates like an orator, in order to attract their attention and love. In short, these are a kind of loneliness in your heart and a need to be noticed and loved, and it is a way to dispel your inner loneliness, so how to change this kind of fantasy behavior?

I think that if a person has a pursuit, his spirit will have sustenance, and he will not feel lonely, such as those monks who practice, those hermits in the mountains, although there is no one around them, but they have pursuits and sustenance, so not only do they not feel lonely, but they are happy and detached, right?

Fantasy is happiness, struggling with pain, "The Reconstruction of Life" creates the future with one thought and one thought

Meet the unknown self" people are 95% dominated by the subconscious, "The Practice of Not Thinking" has five senses in one sense, "Eyes and Recognize People Again" people have their own attributes, "Never Retreat" people have various possibilities, when they were children, they died suddenly in the crisis, lived into the subconscious, wanted to believe, and cleared their emotional memories and solved the same problems. ​

1.Why: What you think is exactly what you lack, what you expect. Normal. Never mind. Most of the people are a little bit Don't worry, lad.; )

2.The solution: pay for practice.

Make a plan, take it one step at a time, and adjust the plan appropriately along the way. Don't be afraid if the plan is perfect, but do it now, and you'll find out if what you fantasize about is what you really want, and if it's really worth your time. Isn't it time to do something else with these events that will actually help you take a step towards success?

Good luck! ：）

It's not as serious as you think. Everyone loves fantasy to varying degrees. It's not necessarily a bad thing to be honest, but if it affects your normal life.

It should be adjusted. Personally, I also love fantasies, and sometimes I feel like I've become a singer. It's very popular because I feel like all the songs that I think are good are written for me, and sometimes I imagine myself as a top player in the NBA.

I think fantasy should be a kind of nature, a kind of self-reflection and scrutiny. Basically, all people who love fantasy are dissatisfied with their current standard of living. will imagine yourself as a successful person in your eyes.

Or the center of attention. The ordinariness of a long time makes people want to stand in front of everyone. It can be regarded as a subconscious spiritual desire.

Every kid who likes **. will have their own innocent dreams. You don't have a chance to feel bad about that.

Usually divert your attention a little more. It would be nice to make life a little fuller. If it's really serious, go to a psychiatrist.

It's okay, everyone has fantasies, hehe, I still fantasize all day long about how I won tens of millions of lottery tickets, and those online crossing**yy**Aren't they also fantasized by people? Fantasy is the most normal, your problem is that if you want to realize these fantasies, you have to work hard to move forward, I fantasize about the life of a rich man, so I started to buy lottery tickets, even if it is an ethereal fantasy, don't those people also write it out and share it on the Internet and share it with everyone, realize the fantasy on another level? One should strive to get closer to one's dreams, not do nothing but just think.

Come to reality, make your fantasies a little more concrete, match reality a little bit, of course, these must be positive and healthy and harmless to society!

This is normal. However, it is necessary to cooperate with the study and tempering to create conditions for the future future. Tips included.

Method. Network. **。

Popular dynamics. Relevant professional virtues. Always pay attention.

Don't just fantasize. It's better to take time to be filial and comfort your parents.

It's good to have fantasies, the key question is how to turn your fantasies into reality, and hopefully you can work hard to become the character of your fantasies!!

It's normal to fantasize! Everyone loves fantasy! Some things can't be realized in real life, but they can be realized one by one in fantasy, which can be regarded as a kind of sustenance for the spirit, which is a normal phenomenon!

However, if you fantasize every day, you love to fantasize and don't want to do anything! That's not normal, then you must see a doctor!

It's only fourteen years old, which is very suitable for age, why should you be so mature?

Do more things, such as reading a book or exercising, preferably in a crowded place.

Like other achievements with good learning and learning, how others do it, learn with an open mind, and then summarize the reasons yourself, and think more about how to argue that Lu Xiangzao's organizational language can attract people's attention.