How to chat with strangers of the opposite sex who have a crush on you?

Maybe this opposite sex is a more flowery word to listen to it first, listen to him more. If he doesn't have a lot of words, then you're going to have to find a topic. If the other person is a girl, don't ask boring questions:

For example, where you live, how tall you are, how much you have, these are more private words. Ask something she likes, such as asking how so-and-so TV series is, if she has watched it and you have watched it, then you can talk. You want to know what she likes, how do you know?

Look at the circle of friends. You have to talk about the circle of friends, see what news she posted, you can ask about that dynamic, which also reflects that you have been paying attention to her. If the other party is a boy, ditto.

But sometimes it's best not to be too deliberate in chatting, it's not good to have an awkward chat, and I'd rather not talk about it for the time being. Communication, first of all, you have to open your own heart to break the guard of others.

You can talk about topics of interest to both parties, or talk to him about jokes, ask him interesting things you encounter in life and work, and you will get acquainted quickly.

It's not just men who are visual creatures, but women too. It doesn't matter how you speak before chatting with most people of the opposite sex, the key is that you should dress up and look human. According to today's popular words, it is necessary to know how to dress.

To put it simply, it is necessary to make people look like you are a good person, so that you have a chance to speak, otherwise, everything you say is harassment.

I think you should take your time to get in touch with her, and you must not be pestering others all at once, which is easy to turn off. When you get acquainted, you can start talking to each other about psychology, and slowly you will be able to enter her heart.

Slowly cultivate a relationship, and if the other person is also interesting to you, they will feel your favor.

1. Establish your own image from greetings. When you add a friend you don't know, the chat starts with a greeting. First of all, you have to be friendly to people you don't know, and the first message can be a smile emoji and hello or something like that, a handshake emoji.

Most people can do that.

2. Find a common language. You can ask him about her interests and hobbies in tentative terms. (For example:.)

I like to go for a run after work every day so I can relax and exercise. What do you think? If the other person doesn't show disgust, you can go ahead and make some witty and humorous statements to chat!

If you both share common hobbies and interests, that's fine. This way, you can use your imagination to bring him or her into your chat environment, and you can be sure that he or she likes to talk about the main aspects.

3. Focus on being a close friend. With the foreshadowing of the first good impression, the next step is to communicate your thoughts in simple terms. If the other party is a very sincere person, you can open your heart and communicate with him and her heart-to-heart, and pay attention to the topic of being close friends with him and her.

If you feel that he or she is disguised as herself, then you don't have to bother bragging with him or her anymore.

Because you only pay if you find someone you feel you can talk to authentically.

Note: 1. Be sure to smile during the first contact with the other party, show your big white teeth, and appear in the other party's world with a youthful and beautiful image. That person can also feel that you are like your own white moonlight, and gradually you will accept you, and the relationship between the two people will become more and more appropriate.

2. In order to make the chat make the two of you pay more attention to the quality of the chat, you must know how to explore the needs of the other party in the selection of chat topics. Say something to the other person that the other person wants to hear, and then the two of you are talking about it, and slowly that person will feel that you are attracted to you.

Be proactive with friends of the opposite sex who have a good impression and want to make a good impression. At the beginning, you should also do a lot of work to chat, don't change yourself because of anyone, insist on being yourself, and don't keep pestering others to chat, just show politeness, and stop talking. If the other party really has a good impression of you, they will slowly move closer to you, instead of constantly begging for other people's attention, even if this kind of relationship is not fair in the end, and you will be very tired.

A good relationship is for two people to love each other and go both ways, and love cannot be achieved just by shaving their heads and picking their heads. So let's find out!

First, do you want to take the initiative?

It's really rare to meet someone of the opposite sex you like, and you don't want to miss it, so you can take the initiative. This kind of initiative is not to tell each other about their love as soon as they come, so they can't maintain a sense of mystery, if two people want to be really together, they also have to go through an ambiguous period and have a good impression of each other. Don't show impatience when you first come into contact with the other person.

Taking the initiative is not to ask each other out for dinner every day and say some sweet words, but to take the initiative in action and dominate in status. After a long time, the other party will be in a passive state, and their opportunities will come.

Second, how to chat?

When chatting, you should adopt a step-by-step approach, to be a good friend of the other party, you are embarrassed to chat with each other alone, you can hold a party through mutual friends, in this case, the two people will be more relaxed, you can chat at will. The content of the chat can be talked about from the other party's interests, work, and study, rather than an inexplicable confession, and many people will be suspicious of the inexplicable confession. After all, two people have not experienced anything, and they like each other because of each other's appearance, and this relationship can easily come to an abrupt end.

In short, when you meet someone you like, you should be careful and don't be too excited. This kind of enthusiasm will scare off the other party, true love does not need anyone to take the initiative, but naturally attracts, and the heart is turbulent.

If you have a crush on your friend of the opposite sex, and you can be sure that he is single, then I think you should be proactive, because it is not easy to meet someone you have a crush on, and if you miss it, you may regret it for the rest of your life. Although there are many people in China, not everyone can make you feel good, so it is not easy to meet such a person, don't miss it casually.

As for how to chat, I think that since you are already friends, there is actually communication in your daily life. You can go directly to him to express your thoughts, or ask other friends to tell him tactfully, so that you can know what he thinks of you, is it still possible? In this way, in fact, it is to make each other less embarrassed, and in case they can't be a couple, they can be friends again.

If you don't want to ruin your friendship, try it first.

If you think this way is too straightforward, then you can treat him as a good friend, usually talk to him more, and ask her out for a walk when she is fine, or go around to play. In fact, after a lot of times, he may understand what you mean, if he can accept your invitation, it proves that he also has a good impression of you, then you can directly confess to him. If he refuses every time, then it is obvious that he does not have any affection for you, but just treats you as a friend.

But I think no matter which way you use, you should try hard, after all, it is really not easy for us to meet a person who meets our eyes in life. If you haven't worked hard to pursue, then you will really regret it in the future, although the pursuit may not be successful, but at least you will not regret it, at least I have worked hard for this matter.

You can talk to each other about buying shoes, you can talk to each other about buying clothes, you can talk to each other about love, you can talk to each other about family, and you can also talk to each other about cosmetics.

I think you should really take the initiative, you can take the initiative to chat with the other party, send an application, you can take the initiative to ask the other person out to play, so that the other party can feel your love and love.

It should be like this, two people will have a good relationship, there will be a good communication, and they will understand each other, and if the two people are suitable, they will be together.

1. Keep an appropriate distance. When chatting with strangers, regardless of whether the other person is male or female, keep an appropriate distance and not get too close to the other person to avoid embarrassment; It should not be too far away to talk.

2. Look at each other generously. When chatting with strangers, you should look at each other's eyes, and if it is inconvenient to look directly at each other's eyes, you can look at each other's eyebrows, which can not only observe the changes in the expression of the other person or the other party, but also appear to be down-to-earth and generous.

3. Smile and nod your head. When chatting with strangers, keep a sincere smile, and when listening to the other person's conversation, nod your head and affirm them at the right time, which is conducive to enhancing the interaction between the two parties.

4. Elegant manners. When chatting with strangers, speak and behave in a polite manner. Maintain a natural and relaxed sitting or standing posture, do not shake your legs, do not look left and right, and do not make exaggerated body language; Don't speak too loudly or urgently, and you can discuss it, not argue.

5. Be good at listening carefully. When chatting with strangers, don't rush to grab the conversation, be good at listening to the other person's words quietly, and the other party will feel that you are excellent in the culture.

6. Give appropriate appreciation. When chatting with strangers, praise the other person's point of view in a timely manner, and the tone of praise should be sincere, and the language should be subtle, not flattering. When appreciating, sometimes use appropriate body language such as patting the shoulder and thumbs up, etc., which can show the sincerity of appreciation.

Empathy and Eloquence and Thinking Transformation and Guessing. It is recommended to often read information and some reports related to the content of the chat, such as: indirect** news broadcasts, reporter broadcasts, newspaper articles, **, etc., to master the speaking skills and essence to bring different pleasure to others.

Here are a few easy-to-follow tutorial level exercises:

First of all, you must clarify the purpose of chatting with the opposite sex, that is, what is the purpose of your chat this time, increase your goodwill to help friendly communication in the later stage, or develop friendship and love? Grasp the content of the other party's verbal communication from the chat? Wait a minute.

Common examples of talking to death: What are you doing? The other party may chat with you for the first time, and it will only annoy the opposite sex after a long time.

At first, I just couldn't find a suitable topic, and often asked: hello, how old are you, **, where do you work, where do you go to school and study, can you blow up photos, how tall are you, how many are you, etc., and so on, similar to checking the household registration, will make girls more disgusted, because today's young people are inseparable from family and relatives and friends, such as: elders ask about grades, compare children's appearance and height with relatives and friends, and ask all kinds of academic and work topics, so the opposite sex at this time is more disgusted, I can't stand all kinds of plain and unreasonable, unreasonable rhetorical questions, so at this time we must learn to transform our thinking, and subconsciously know these things in our brains and then try to chat skillfully, such as if you want to ask the other party, you can choose language to divert your gaze and inadvertently grasp the chat information, so as to make the chat content more interesting, soulful, and progressive.

For example, a girl tells you that she ate a hot pot at 9 o'clock at night. Ordinary people:

O'O. High Emotional Intelligence: Grab the key content of this chat:

Which hot pot restaurant do you go to? Interested in introducing me? I'll try it next time.

The topic of the chat is as simple as that, the purpose of chatting is to make the other party easy to understand, and briefly summarize the text to express their thoughts, so that the other party can promote the content of the reply to you.

Introduction to the Guessing Method:

Seeing that the ** shown in the other party's circle of friends looks good, I want to ask the other party whether they are southerners or northerners at this time. You can use blind guessing to increase the fun of chatting, and the success rate of this kind of blind guessing is 50% (50% for southern and northern keywords) For example: Look at your circle of friends** shoot well, your photography skills are not first-class, but in my opinion, it is still a bit level, you should be a southerner, right?

If the other party replies yes, you can reply to him at this time, guess how I know? If the other party has the mentality of wanting to know, they will definitely continue to ask how you know about the recreation. At this time, you can evaluate his appearance, if the other party is posting screenshots of the game and scenery, you can start a similar related topic, ask questions, and so on to increase the content of the chat and cultivate goodwill.

If the other person replies no, I am from the north. Then at this time, you can still make a comment on his appearance, wow, I have only seen such a beautiful young lady in the south, but I didn't expect you to be a northerner, me.