How I should be firm in myself, how to be firm in myself

Super CEO, you're saying it so well.

When there is a gap between reality and what you think, when you are in a hurry, when you see that others are so good, and when you want to do something, you have to pay a lot of money and even make you poor, how do you strengthen yourself.

Be firm in your original thoughts, firm in what you are doing now, firm in the future you see, and so on.

Often when I say or think about it, I think it's very simple, and it's easy to achieve, but when you step out towards a seemingly beautiful place, you will deeply realize that oh, it's not as I imagined before, it's not that simple, and then, it's a blow again and again, a blow, a blow, and a blow, until the last trace of hope in your heart is gone. Then I started doubting myself, denying myself, and I started feeling bad at it. At this time, the whole person is filled with negative energy, at this time, can you still remember the original intention, even if it is just a little, can you still remember?

I think about it, then you have survived, hope is also coming, at this time, you need to do the preparation of the brigade is to clear your mind, at this time you can divide the good, bad into two sides to write, the more the better, perhaps, at this time you will find, oh, it turns out that I am not so bad, I can find a better way to achieve my goal, persevere, at this time you will find that the mountain in front of you does not seem to be so terrible and not so big, I can pass, I must be able to. At this time, you will no longer disturb yourself because of other people's words, so-called feelings, and behaviors, and you will not be afraid of money, I have nothing, so what if I don't have it?

If you do it, you won't regret it in the future, and you won't make yourself feel really undeserved because of this incident someday in the future, and you really shouldn't have lost such a good opportunity, otherwise, I wouldn't be like this.

Therefore, I personally understand that being firm in oneself is to do what you want to do, to do what you want to do, to do what you are doing in the moment. Firm your heart, firm your thoughts, follow your heart, not afraid, not in a hurry, no regrets, set 3 goals for yourself every day, strive to achieve it, persevere, step by step, go well, is firm to yourself.

Personal opinion: stick to your own heart, don't be troubled by the outside world, and be brave to be yourself.

There are people who evaluate what they do in society, there will always be people who say that they are right, and some people say that they are not doing it right, everyone's height is different, and the angle of looking at the problem is also different.

So, don't care too much about the opinions of the outside world, cultivate a strong heart that can meet any rumors, practice kung fu without getting angry casually, and the most important thing is to be yourself.

Of course, people's opinions can't be one-size-fits-all. There must be people who love you, I hope you can get better and better, when you do things, they will give you some good advice and healthy criticism, this is your nobleman, you must remember his words, you can refer to it when doing things.

1: Insist on self and never forget the original intention.

In fact, no matter what we do or what position we are in, there will always be people who support and oppose it, and we cannot expect to have everyone's support, which is a fact that we need to accept and face. Whether you stick to the end or give up immediately depends on whether you are firm in your choice, whether you believe in your own cognition and values, and whether you are willing to stick to it without being affected by the nuclear destruction of Gaoxin's external voices.

When we decide to stick to ourselves, focus on our goals and do what we have to do. Lower your expectations of others, stick to what you think is right, and time will tell. Just like the comprehensive ability improvement and reform courses I went to participate in various schools, even though there were objections on the way, I persevered to this day, and only I know how much growth and harvest I have.

When you look back, you can say with a clear conscience: I don't regret it. It's all worth it.

2: Acting in a low-key manner, results first, few growth and change can see obvious progress or achieve a qualitative leap in the short term, there is a process of quantitative accumulation, especially learning. Therefore, what we should do at this time is to act in a down-to-earth manner, move forward without being humble or arrogant, without arguing or refutating, and silently complete our own growth and evolution.

Then, speak with the results.

3: Lower expectations, strong heartWhen we inadvertently tell others what we are learning, when we send a circle of friends about our learning results, there is no doubt in our hearts that we are eager to be recognized, recognized, and encouraged by others, and there are more or less expectations, but the fact is that there are only a few people who give us encouragement, but we hear more opposing voices, which is easy to produce a psychological gap. Growth is originally your own business, so lower your inner expectations of others, move forward calmly, work silently, and never forget your original intention and forge ahead no matter whether the road ahead is smooth or bumpy.

At the end of the year, I will always use notes to organize what happened during the year. Then do a self-summary. Such a small approach is very good.

It allows us to summarize and reflect clearly. And then become a better version of yourself in the new year. Keep yourself improving.

Make your own efforts and learning better rewards.

In study, we must pay attention to the correct method and be conscientious. Perseverance is not only important for learning, but also a very important quality for our lives. Only by persevering can we gain something in our studies and lives. It can also allow yourself to really grow.

At the intersection of many people's lives, they chose to give up after a little slack. So we have to be self-asserted. People who insist on themselves have similar energies to each other. The road can be lonely. But they will meet each other in life and shine a light on each other.

Every aspect of our lives has its own points. Every dot is glowing. And in life, how many people choose to compromise for various reasons.

Or a moment of laziness. Or a moment of weakness. Then he hibernates in the mediocre crowd and gradually loses himself.

Forgetting dreams lacks the motivation and spirit to persevere. than hard persistence. It was obviously much easier to give up on the son.

But giving up also means holding on to dreams for years. Say goodbye to that brave and struggling self. All efforts will be abandoned.

The desired future is also out of reach. The light in my heart gradually dimmed. This is what most people look like, indulging in short-term relaxation and forgetting long-term perseverance.

Stopping might make it a little easier now. But since then, I have lost that attachment. They dream of their life choices, and they are unwilling to give them up.

But what we want is only a possible future, and the road ahead will certainly not be easy. Because of the difficulties. That's why the final success is precious.

So on the road to growth. We must learn to persevere. Only by truly being firm in the choice of the heart.

Have the courage to face difficulties and all setbacks in life. In this way, we can sharpen our strong will and exercise ourselves. Calm character, make yourself wiser.

It is also braver and more confident, so that life will be better. We will continue to strive for our ideals to achieve success.

In this case, I will definitely choose to continue to work hard to achieve my ideals, and then use my ability to help more people in need feel the meaning of life, so that our life will be more valuable.

Therefore, we must continue to work hard to learn, in order to better improve ourselves, make ourselves better, and more capable of realizing our ideals and helping others, so that we can feel the beauty of life in our own way, and we can also better realize our own value.

Learning must pay attention to the correct method and do persistence seriously, persistence is not only for learning, very important, for our life is a very important quality, only to do persistence, we can learn and live in the harvest, but also to let themselves get real growth.

At the intersection of many people's lives, they choose to give up after a little slack, so we must be self-conscious, people who insist on self have similar energy between them, the road may be lonely, but they will meet each other in life and illuminate each other.

Every side of our life has every side of the dazzling, every point is shining, and in life, how many people have chosen to compromise for various reasons, or a moment of laziness, or a moment of weakness, and then succumb to the mediocre crowd, gradually lose themselves, forget dreams, lack of motivation and spirit to persevere.

Compared with the difficult persistence, it is obviously much easier to give up, but giving up also means sticking to the dream for several years, and the brave and hard work of their own complete farewell, all the efforts will be respectful to give up, the future you want is also out of reach, the light in the heart is gradually dimming, this is the appearance of most people, indulging in short-term relaxation, forgetting long-term perseverance.

Stopping may make it easier now, but it will lose the self that has persistent dreams, the trade-offs in life, what they are not willing to give up is what they want, but it is only a possible future, the road ahead is not smooth sailing, it is precisely because of the difficulties that the final success is precious.

Therefore, on the road of growth, we must learn to persevere, only by truly being firm in our inner choices, and having the courage to face difficulties and all setbacks in life, so that we can sharpen ourselves, exercise ourselves with a strong will, and have a calm character, so that we can become wiser, braver, and self-confident, so that life will become better, and we will continue to strive to achieve success for our ideals.

When people live in a collective, they are bound to not be able to be themselves completely, and sometimes they have to let go of some egos for some things and some people. After all, we live in a group, but we must grasp this solitude well, we can let go of ourselves appropriately, but we must not lose ourselves. It is still necessary to adhere to the principle issue.

If you really can't think about it, relax your mind, and always think like this, and your mood will be better.