How can I manage myself for growth?

1. Have courage to do things, dare to think and dare to do.

When I was a child, I was a good man and very obedient. I live all day long in the praise of my mother and the praise of relatives and friends. Remember.

When I was seven or eight years old, my mother asked me to respect my teachers and know how to "call people", but I often called strange passers-by "uncle" and "aunt", which made others and myself very embarrassed. "Good men" are easy to make themselves timid, cowardly, and follow the rules and be timid.

Don't live in other people's expectations, dare to pursue the life you like. Actually, no one really cares about how other people live, so don't tie yourself too tightly with other people's opinions. All successful people are envious and dare to break through the rules and regulations of the existing faction, have the courage to explore and innovate, and do things bravely, which will make your life very exciting.

2. Don't regret what you've done.

When I was a child, I did something wrong, and I always complained about myself, how good it would have been if I had done it before. In fact, even if a sage is a sage, he will make mistakes, as the so-called "a wise man must make a mistake in a thousand thoughts", so it is inevitable that anyone will do something wrong, and he will not be too much to blame.

The consequence of blaming oneself for being too perfectionist is that one hesitates to do things in the future, fearing that he will do things wrong.

Be open-minded, enlarge the pattern, don't regret what you've done, learn to bear the results, and learn from the lessons at the same time, which will make you live with confidence and hope for the future.

3. Don't make fun of others.

I've seen a lot of similar news: so-and-so beat his classmate to the point of bleeding because of a joke from his classmate. Everyone's self-esteem strength is different, and so does the ability to endure, and sometimes the little things you think are not worth mentioning may cause others to feel that their self-esteem has been seriously hurt and take revenge violently.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's very tiring and hard to live because society is very unfair, it's very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, it's not boring.

Because, life is like this.

No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it is wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life will inevitably fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

How to make yourself grow quickly, make good use of your off-duty time, and do these few things.

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Do less things that don't use your brain, once anyone becomes relatively idle, then it will only make the person decadent, so in the face of some things, seemingly simple, don't try it easily, as if everyone will like to be lazy, but over time it will make a person become wasted, or even decadent, so do things with more brains.

Having a career that can really make you gain, a job is not measured by money and reputation, the best job must be suitable for you, and at the same time can bring you what you want, but it is by no means the immediate benefits, but through this job you can learn a lot of things, which is the reason why you can engage in a job and maintain it for a long time.

Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that only by growing up can we benefit others.

To be the right person is to spend time and energy on changing yourself, growing yourself, and improving yourself. When you become a person who can have peace of mind and harmony with others no matter where you are in any environment, you become a person who has a sense of creation for the environment and others. And you must be the first to benefit.

Don't go around when you encounter difficulties. Read more books, books have their own ways and means of dealing with the world. Care more about your elders and the people around you, and learn to love in caring for others. Caring for others is a sign of growth.

1. Experience more things in life. 2. Speak calmly and calmly. 3. Be thoughtful in handling things.

In life, it accumulates slowly.

Perseverance. First of all, you stick to one thing all the time. If you can do it, nothing can stump you.

Having more contact with people and participating in more social activities will be good for your growth, and you will grow a lot of knowledge.