I want both, but I m afraid I won t get either

Give yourself a ratio, love 90% affects academics, studies affect 100% of the future, 50% of the future affects life, life affects 100% of life, and life affects yourself.

If you want to benefit yourself now, calculate for yourself what to do.

If you want to benefit yourself in the future, you should calculate what you should do.

The 4-word "best of both worlds" cannot be used in your problem. Be sensible.

Gain one and lose one, this one is more suitable for your current problem.

Now study hard, go to the same university as her, and chase her. If I had been, I would have been impressed by this sincerity.

The love of your student days is something you can't grasp.

I've also had people say to me before that as a result, I didn't believe in being together all the time and then facing college.

Well, take the test together and then work hard together.

And then reality forces people to mature.

Then people start to be less pure.

Then face 5 or 6 years of affection.

You can't give it up, and you end up with nothing.

That.

First, the subjective feeling of reaching this conclusion (the more you think about something, the less you can get it) is different from the actual situation.

Rationale:1What sticks in my memory are the events that are quite different from the expectations (one is that the expectations are met too much; One is that too little expectation is met).

2.For what you want to get, if you get it, the reality is not much different from the expectation; If you don't get it, the reality is quite different from your expectations, so you are impressed.

For goals with a mediocre or low level of motivation, there is a greater chance that expectations will be met too much; If you are not satisfied, there is not much difference, and you will not be able to leave a deep impression.

In short, it is easy to store such events in memory if you want to get it but you don't get it.

That. Second, a desire to get something means that the level of motivation is very high. And a high level of motivation generally motivates a higher level of behavior. If the subject does not belong to the type where there are always more correct behaviors than wrong behaviors, a higher level of behavior may lead to an increase in the number and degree of overall errors.

It is more likely to backfire.

Easy to get, would you still want it?

For what is not yours is not gained.

I also feel the same way, what he can't get, the more he wants to get, and what he gets is like. Men have vanity, they all have good faces, and they all have a good sense of freshness? It's just a psychological problem, whether you get it or you don't get it, in the end he will know who is the best for him, rest assured, rest assured.

I remember I don't know who said: It's not yours, it's not yours after all, no matter how hard you try, it's in vain; It's yours, it's always yours, no matter how others rob it. But I just don't understand, it's not me, but why it is in front of my eyes.

It's mine, and why doesn't it let me find out!

Maybe it's the lack of sorrow as a human being! I don't understand if it's mine after all. I don't know why it's not mine? INTERVIEWER I think the best way to do that is to be relentless.

When you are physically and mentally exhausted, you find that you have exchanged your life for the ethereal dreams of the original and withered, but you will be silent without regrets in the thirst you have exchanged for all your dreams! However, when you are in your twilight years, you look back on your life and find that you have exchanged your youth for a confusion that you do not belong to or should not belong to.

So what to do? Don't be afraid! After all, I proved one thing with my actions:

Pursuing, although I didn't get what I expected, I thought it would be mine, but after all, I still have gains--- harvest those that should belong to me, but I have always thought that they do not belong at all or do not belong to me!!

From the Big Science team.

In life, we have a lot of things that we want to get, but we can't get them. There are many things I want to do, but I can't do it. At this time, the feeling of powerlessness in my heart made me want to give up everything. Or just think that this time can be indifferent to everything.

You can't force everything, you want a lot of things, but after all, your ability is limited.

Maybe it's because your personal charm is not big enough, and there is nothing to attract beautiful women.

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Because the requirements of ordinary beauties will be relatively high.

Because the requirements of beautiful women are generally higher

Let me tell you a story: One day, Plato asked his teacher Socrates what love was. The teacher told him to go to the wheat field first and pick the largest corn cob in the whole wheat field, during which he could only pick it once, and he could only walk forward, and he could not turn back Plato did as the teacher said.

As a result, he walked out of the field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it. He said:

Because you can only pick it once, and you can't go back, even if you see the biggest one during the period, because you don't know if there is a better one ahead, so you don't pick it; When I walked to the front, I found that it was not as good as what I saw before, and it turned out that the biggest corn cob had long been missed; So I didn't pick anything. The teacher said, "This is love!"

Then one day, Plato asked his teacher what marriage was, and he told him to go into the wheat field first and pick the biggest corn cob in the whole wheat field. It's still the same old rule.

Plato did as his teacher said. This time, he brought back an ordinary corn cob that was not too bad. The teacher asked him how he brought back the ordinary corn cob, and he said

With the last experience, when I was halfway to the distance and empty-handed, I saw that the corn cob was not too bad, so I took it off, so as not to miss it and finally not be able to bring out any good chain. The teacher said, "This is marriage!"

What I want to say is: love is like sand, the more you try to hold on to it, the more it will drain from your fingers, if you gently hold the sand, I believe you will get a lot!

Love is hard to come by. What should come will always come and ask.

Love is blind to human beings and can only be based on one feeling. Sometimes you love someone like crazy, but when you know that he doesn't love you, or when he betrays you, the sky will fall. I always hope that the other party will pay more than myself, but when the other party is stupid to pay for you, my heart is so unbearable.

Love is contradictory, some people can say that Min pronounces that he loves you in order to covet your love for him, but when he really finds his true love, he will not necessarily pay anything for you, he only wants to pay for the person he loves, so love is not principled at all, not like planting flowers and getting flowers, planting trees and getting trees. The people who pay for the love of Nawan are the stupidest, but they are also the loveliest. Love is inherently a hurt.

Maybe if you love, don't be afraid of being hurt. Why not think about the people who love us in the back?

Don't set love in one position, it will be difficult to get what you want, you have to meet it as you like, and you will meet it naturally.