What if your friends can t get along with you, but they have to get in touch?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then treat him as an ordinary friend, don't talk too much, and have important things to contact, because his three views are no longer the same as his own.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can't go with a friend, but you have to get in touch, don't have too much contact with him at this time, except for work.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your friend can't get along with you, but you have to get in touch, then do a good job of superficiality, at least politely on the surface.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can't tell you that I have to get in touch with you, why? I think it's good to simply say hello to work and life, and don't use anything else, let's talk so carefully.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think friends are like a work-client relationship, but if it's a work-client relationship, it's disgusting that we can't talk about not being able to connect together, because it's for a living.

    Girlfriends don't have any financial stakes, so if they can talk about it together, just talk about it more, and if they can't talk about it together, how can they exist? Said that I had to contact again, was that a friend?

    But if your so-called friend is a customer, don't treat him as a friend, so there is not much gap in your heart, customer, do you just want to hold it? You don't want to be friends either, do you? When the customer is contacted, it is considered work.

    If you can't talk to your friend, you will cut off contact slowly, even if you keep talking to each other, I don't like to talk to you anymore, because he can't talk to you together, and he is not happy, right?

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you can't talk to your friend, he doesn't talk less, don't talk too much. You two can keep in touch with each other, but it's good to talk less if you can't talk together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your friend can't talk to you, which means that he doesn't have a common language, but you have to contact him, and that should be the reason for work, so you can only maintain a relationship that is not salty, not too intimate and not too distant.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Friends and you can't talk together, but you can't help but contact this situation, it's best to do business, explain what you want to say clearly, and talk less gossip.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your friends can't get along with you, but they have to get in touch, then you should get along well and try to reach a consensus.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then find who to find the root of the problem to solve, once the matter is solved, there is no need to contact again, and directly with you can not be together. There is no need for friendship anymore.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you and your friends don't speak the same language, but still have to connect. Then you have to restrain yourself. Contact him less. Ay.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Such friends just need to maintain a humid relationship, and they don't have to be so cordial, because you don't have a common language at all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on whether the relationship between the two of you is real, if the relationship is real, what can you do if you accommodate each other?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your friends can't talk to you together, they can only say that the two of you don't have the same personality and three views, but you have to contact, such a person, it's better to contact less.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you say that you are not together, then there is no need to contact again, because you can't be together, and there is no need to be in contact.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This situation can only be dealt with, there is no way.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can't talk about it, then you don't contact him when it's not necessary, and look for him when you have something.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I can't be together, and I can't be in touch, and I'm going to feel very sad and sad, because friends have to be together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello, you can maintain normal friends and friendships, but not deep friendships, making friends is mainly to make yourself happy, and if you are not happy, you will not maintain it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In this case, since you can't get rid of it, you have to contact it when you have to contact it, and it's best to slowly distance yourself from it in normal times.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your friend can't talk to you, but you have to get in touch, try not to bother with her.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Here's why:1. The reason why I no longer contact my good friends, the life circle is different, there is more and more nothing to talk about, a trip, and going to different things.

    2. Distance will inevitably lead to estrangement between friends, whether it is psychological distance or spatial distance.

    3. They are all married and have children, and the topic is always children, children.

    4. When you complain to your friends, you talk a lot, and you don't want to listen to your friends.

    5. Question his friend in the field he is good at, and distrust his friend.

    6. When your friend is improving, mention the things that your friend used to be very low.

    How to make friendships last.

    1. Keep in touch

    Not only friendship, but all feelings must be kept in touch, without which no matter how good the relationship is, it will no longer exist. Man is a creature who likes the new and hates the old, and when a person arrives in a new environment, he will be attracted to new things and will know more people.

    2. Respect each other and maintain equality

    Many people forget to respect each other as they get to know each other better. It may be that the relationship is too good and does not need respect. In fact, respect has nothing to do with whether the relationship is good or bad, and respecting him if the relationship is not good is politeness and education.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The reason why I no longer contact my good friends is because I am not in the same city, I don't often meet and communicate, and I rarely even communicate with my mobile phone, so I slowly fade out of each other's lives, and naturally I don't contact each other anymore. The two of them went from having nothing to say to having nothing to say, and they could only reminisce about the past. Until the past has been chewed repeatedly, light and tasteless, and hindered by affection, or there is a new circle, and new friends have been met, as time goes by, the two people have less and less common topics.

    Over time, they will be estranged and no longer in touch.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The main reason why good friends are no longer in contact is that the pressure on their lives has increased, and at the same time, there is a distance that has become farther away.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The main reason why I no longer keep in touch with my good friends is because after work, the two of them are busier with each other and have less time to contact each other, especially after having a family, but it does not mean that the friendship between each other has faded.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The reason why I no longer contact with good friends is generally that there is a contradiction or misunderstanding, and the misunderstanding should be eliminated in time, otherwise I regret not being at the beginning.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There are actually many reasons why you no longer contact with good friends, after all, you are now an adult, have your own family, and have your own career, which will occupy a lot of your time, and often contact friends will be less and less.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Here I come: The main reason for not being in touch with good friends anymore is not having common interests and hobbies! The lack of a common topic and language is the main reason why friends are no longer in touch with each other.

    In a person who has a certain relationship with the gap between the rich and the poor, if the friends are in good condition, they will look down on and fight for their friends, and it will also make the relationship between the other party begin to be estranged, which will cause the main reason why friends are no longer in contact with each other. Done, thank you for your question, hope, thank you!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There are many reasons why I no longer contact my good friends, on the one hand, because I have my own family after getting married, or because I am busy at work and career, I naturally have less contact time with my good friends, and because of some misunderstandings and contradictions, there are estrangements between my good friends and other factors.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The reason why my best friend and I don't keep in touch anymore is that after we separated, we had less and less common topics. A lot of things can't be said together, and the relationship slowly fades, so the connection is slowly broken.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The reason why our former best friends are no longer in touch is because our educational qualifications and knowledge levels are far apart, and we don't have common hobbies and topics anymore. My former good friend graduated from college and was admitted to graduate school, worked abroad after studying abroad, got married and started a family, while I graduated from secondary school and lived in a small county, so I hardly met, so what we saw and heard with each other was different, life and work were no longer at the same starting point, and it was natural that we were no longer in touch.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think the biggest reason for not keeping in touch with good friends is that two people are too far apart, and they are very busy with their work, two people are very far apart, and they are busy with work, in this case, there is no proper time to get in touch, and it is impossible to get together in reality, which causes good friends to become more and more estranged, which is the main reason.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, there are many reasons why we no longer contact our good friends, on the one hand, because we have our own family after marriage, and we are busy at work and career, so naturally there is less contact time between us and good friends, and on the other hand, it may be because of some misunderstandings and contradictions, and there are estrangements between our good friends, etc., and we can't put down to find each other, so we slowly stop contacting!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I no longer have contact with my good friends, probably because there are some conflicts between the two parties, or there is no contact with each other, and it slowly fades.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hello, as we grow older, we will be burdened with more and more responsibilities and pressures, but on the contrary, we will be willing to keep it in our hearts, not let outsiders see that we are not doing well, and we don't want to contact our former friends too much in time and psychologically.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Because I grew up, my life trajectory was different.

    There is so much time every day, and I almost run out of work, eating, and sleeping. When you haven't been with your friends for a long time, your life topics and the other person will have less and less in common.

    You see a beautiful leaf and want to share it with the other person, maybe the other person is so busy that they haven't even eaten. Seeing that the sharing you posted may have been typed and then deleted in the dialog box, there is a big gap between your fatigue and the other party's mood. You are still in school, sharing your thoughts at school with the other person, the other party is already working, and it seems that every day is forced to open, and going to work and school are two states.

    There are many more similar things. Slowly, there are more kinds of gaps, and there is little contact at first, and the two people will also have a sense of strangeness.

    Later, maybe everyone is busy with their own things, and everyone is fine.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I no longer have contact with my good friends, mainly because I am busy with work and family, and the pressure gradually becomes greater, and I slowly lack contact, and finally I am okay and no longer contact.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The reason why you don't connect with your best friends anymore is because you're not in one place. It's just that I used to get along day and night, but then I went my separate ways, well, and then I was the one who had a little contact at the beginning, and then I was in a state of no contact at all. We may just have very little contact.

    Basically, the people you can contact are the people you meet at work, and your family members.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    In fact, there are many reasons why you don't connect with your best friends anymore, mainly due to time and geography.

    In fact, our so-called good friends are just like-minded friends who are like-minded with us in the place and environment at that time, but with the change of time, as the distance between the two sides becomes farther away, it is possible that we and these friends no longer have common topics and hobbies. Gradually, the relationship will gradually fade with the change of distance and time. Slowly, good friends are gone from our lives.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When people reach a certain age, they all have their own things, go their own way, and after a long time, they no longer keep in touch. We will find that there are a lot of friends who were very good in school, and after leaving the campus environment, everyone goes to a different environment, although there will be some contact at the beginning, but then there will be less and less contact, or even no contact.

    This is because everyone has their own things to be busy with, and the other environment is another world, in that world he also has the same circle, and in that circle he is still busy dealing with a lot of things, which makes the two people slowly and gradually estranged, but this estrangement is sometimes very good, although the two people usually do not contact, but there is something that person will definitely come to help you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's been so long that I haven't been in touch with most of them, mainly because after separation, we have new friends and we don't play together as often as we used to.

    The reason why I don't keep in touch with my best friend anymore is because both of us have families, and they are not as free as they used to be and can come over and play around often, and now all their energy is focused on family and career.

    There are many reasons why friends no longer contact us, it may be that the distance is very far, it may be caused by changes in all aspects of work environment and life, and there is no way to contact again, and there are many reasons now.

    There is no other reason for no longer being contacted. It's just that there isn't much reason for each other to communicate with each other often. As time goes by, the contact becomes less and less. If the other party has something to ask for him, of course, he will try his best to do it.

    No longer being in touch is not a sudden process, but a process that evolves imperceptibly and slowly. The relationship with friends has produced a certain alienation, and if there is no contact for a long time, this sense of alienation will inevitably arise. If no one on both sides has taken the initiative to contact, this relationship will become more and more vicious, and finally everyone will not contact!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I no longer have contact with my original best friend, because in the process of slow life, everyone has a different circle, and there is less contact with each other, and it is possible that when we see each other again, we will be like strangers.

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