My ex girlfriend said I was excessive. Girlfriend says I find I m getting a little too much of you

What else is such a dead-eyed person talking about?

I've never touched it, it's so difficult, and if I touch it, I can get it.

After a while, I naturally let it go.

No matter how deep the emotion or hatred is, it has run through time.

Now that you know it's for her good, why bother to explain it, the more you describe it, the darker it gets, and you go to talk to her again.

Maybe she thinks that you can't bear it, and if you have feelings for her, there is nothing wrong with you, and it is rare for a gentleman to treat her politely.

At the beginning, I tried hard with my heart, there was no deception, I knew that it was not appropriate, and I didn't delay the other party's time and feelings.

Tell me honestly, and it's only been three months, and the relationship is not enough to deepen to her level, and there are many unwilling elements.

You have to talk about it, and men face it, don't run away. What's wrong with that, it's good that others like you, and it's not wrong that you don't like her. But be careful not to hurt others in your words, and don't leave room for illusions for the other person.

How long can people love someone without asking for anything in return? You've only known each other for three months. Don't be misled by some superficial appearances.

Three months of dating is really not long. Calmly face it, and talk about it well when she is a story mentality. If you don't like it, say it, and be careful not to hurt others.

There are three things that a man can do to grow in a relationship, the first is to know what is needed. As the saying goes, it's what kind of woman you love. The second is to be brave, brave, brave, and brave again.

Finally, you must be clear about those you don't like, men are not women and flowers, so don't be like flowers, there are always a bunch of flying things around. Unless you like the feeling of being around, you can just play around. Hey!

Talk to her!

Otherwise, you'll find that you have one more enemy!

I think I should talk to her!

If you really don't like her, don't force yourself to talk to her and say everything.

Have a good face-to-face conversation.

I'm sorry to hear about your predicament. In a relationship, both parties need to respect each other, and respect each other's feelings and arguments. I think you can have the patience to communicate positively with your girlfriend and get all her thoughts about your excesses, while at the same time making your views on the situation clear.

You can also let your girlfriend know where you position yourself in a relationship and what you want in the future. Through mutual understanding and respect, we can communicate more honestly, thereby reducing conceptual deviations and making the relationship between each other more stable.

My girlfriend said that I found that I was a little too clever with you, which means that she thinks she is not good enough for filial piety to you. In two people, trust is the most important thing, and only by trusting each other can they be happy in love. If one party is always suspicious of the other person chatting with others, or checking the chat history, both of them will suffer from gains and losses, which will only lead to the breakdown of the relationship between them.

Mistrust can only lead to insecurity and insecurity. Mutual questioning will only drive each other further and further apart. Therefore, the most important thing in getting along with the two is trust.

Summary. After a man and woman break up, some people can quickly let go of each other, while others have been indulging in a hopeless relationship for a long time but are unable to extricate themselves. The ex-girlfriend said she was terrible, was she in a bad mood or in a bad situation?

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After a man and woman break up, some people can quickly let go of each other, while others have been indulging in a hopeless relationship for a long time but are unable to extricate themselves from fighting. The ex-girlfriend said that she was terrible with empty lead, was she in a bad mood or in a bad situation?

What exactly did the ex-girlfriend say? Do you want to get back together with her?

Brother, after reading your last paragraph, I think your girlfriend loves you very much, do you know? She doesn't want anyone to slander you, no matter who that person is! What your girlfriend says is just realistic, and it's not too demanding.

First of all, from what you wrote, it seems that most of the reason why your girlfriend can be like this is because your stepmother is shrewd and calculating, and the engagement banquet is still organized by the woman, and your stepmother does not respect your girlfriend's parents, which I think no one can accept. What your girlfriend says to you is all about you, and if it were someone else, I'm sure there are a lot of people who would ask you to put your name and her name on your new house, and your girlfriend didn't. And now many couples break up without saying a word, and everyone has a bottom line and principles.

You say that your character is cowardly, but when your girlfriend slandered you by your stepmother, she stood up and said that you are a big man with principles, opinions and positions, and she is very protective of you.

Although I don't know the specifics, but from what you wrote, your girlfriend loves you very much, she just said some very real problems, and she doesn't need to say the word pleasing to anyone, people don't live to please anyone to live well. Are possessions more important than two people being happy, happy, and healthy? You are also entitled to inherit your father's property.

I hope you can both communicate well and understand each other, you should slowly change your cowardly personality and remember your girlfriend's words: you are a big man with principles, opinions and positions!

As your girlfriend, she is more thoughtful, the real thing, if the property is in your name, you have the initiative in the future, your stepmother is in trouble, you can do your best to help her, on the contrary, the property is in your stepmother's name, in the future, you are in trouble, she will not help you, it is her business, I would rather stand in the position of the initiative, than let others lead the nose in the future.

And as a man, don't always think about getting something for nothing, and go now to please your stepmother by worrying about your father's inheritance. You should learn to be independent and work hard with your own hands, and if you succeed, your girlfriend will be proud of you, and your stepmother will look at you differently, so she will be kind to your father. Stand up and be a real man.

The girlfriend is not too much, the house is very considerate of you, I feel that I am a person who can carry it clearly, and I can marry.

On the first day after Christmas in 15 years, I broke up, and I sat in a bubble tea shop and looked out the window, and the sky was brightening up with fireworks passing by. The sky and the silence of winter. There was a man by my side, and you called** to hear his voice, and we said a few words in a hurry, but we didn't explain.

Strange heart, who has left a little bit of status with you, I don't know where I am in the hearts of all the people who have experienced it, I only remember that in the hurried years, we fell in love in a hurry, broke up, and we were not sorry for anyone who did not keep anyone deeply, as if the breakup was the last choice in Bibi's heart and did not struggle too deeply, so it is the best relationship for a woman like me. I said to the people I know well, please no matter who asks you in the future, it is just that they are not suitable for each other, and I regret not to say any person's shortcomings, and my friend said that I really feel sorry for you as a good woman.

What is your girlfriend excessive, I think he knows very well, you are a little bit of a bad brain, ask your wife to please your stepmother, he is not deep, you are wise, and he will not support you. It's up to you to please your father-in-law and mother-in-law, and the child will probably have to ask them in the future.

Do you know that I don't dare to call you, I don't dare to recall that humble time, although I am already running around in society at the moment, I have already taken off the immaturity of that moment, but you can't understand these years, my first love, breakup, blind date, broken love, numbness, acceptance, leaving, all the entanglements and discomfort. I don't want to remember struggling with such a time. When I met you, I was a pure blank sheet of paper, and my whole life was messy after being painted with a lot of color from all kinds of life.

You can go to a place called Tea Storm to drink milk tea and play poker, you can go to a quiet bar called 0907 to listen to the residency of the polar band, you can not talk about your own forward thoughts, and you can accept the engagement that your best friend started after meeting for the second time. It was 11 o'clock in the evening, and the light in my brother's room was still on, so I handed him the snacks I bought, charged and played with my phone, and I didn't know when I was asleep. The phone rang in my dream, and I have been listening to Beibei's text recently, and I don't know if he called, and I'm embarrassed to say that I don't know what kind of job you are, and he said air conditioning.

I said two sentences Beibei Beibei, he said I couldn't hear clearly, I looked at my phone at 0:15, and I woke up and said his name. He said let me guess if there was him in the tenth, and I was the first to guess him. He drank too much, and I had insomnia, so I fell asleep again.