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It's not that I mean to reject you, it's just that it's inconvenient to go out because the weather is bad, and I'll make an appointment next time the weather is good.

On weekends, when the weather is good, make an appointment, and if she refuses, it will be no fun.

Wait for the next time the weather is good, this time coax her more on the chat software, maybe she is in a bad mood.

No matter what she means, you have to continue the appointment. You can't be thin-skinned!

Maybe it doesn't mean much to you.

First of all, find common interests and hobbies with each other, for example, they all like to play billiards, they all like to watch a certain show, they are all students, etc., find common ground, take the initiative to talk to him, and he will definitely not refuse to talk to you.

Secondly, the words and tone of speech also need to be expressed, different people say different things, some people say it makes it easy for people to have a good impression of the person who speaks, and some people say things that make people uncomfortable, so this discourse is very important.

Finally, it is the attitude of speaking, at least you have to smile, and then choose the right time to talk, you can't be busy, you just go to disturb people.

Girls talk to boys, pay attention to the following:

1. Don't be afraid that he doesn't like to hear what you say. The more scared he is, the less he will be able to speak, and the more he won't be able to say it, the less he will have to talk to you. Fear of saying the wrong thing is a sign of unconfidence in yourself, and only by daring to express yourself and revealing your truest side can you impress people.

2. Show your own humor and humor. Everyone likes to talk to people who are smart and humorous, because it gives people a sense of ease. Maybe your humor will attract him, which will give you extra points. So, be sure to talk generously and let him recognize more sides of you.

3. Show who you are. If the male god really likes you, what he will like is the most authentic side of you. If you're always afraid of saying the wrong thing and don't bring out your truest self, maybe he thinks you're insincere, or he doesn't like it.

4. You can take the initiative to chat with him, but don't always take the initiative. If he is too active, he will feel in his heart that even if he doesn't talk to you, you will take the initiative to find him, and he won't bother to think about what to talk to you about, because you have already considered this problem.

5. Cultivate a hobby that you share with him. If you want to connect, you need to have more common language. It can't be hello every time you pick up a conversation, goodbye, and a few small talk is over! That's why it's important to develop a common hobby.

For example, make mutual friends with him, favorite common food, and get to know his favorite stars. There are more intersections between you, and it is more natural for you to get along because you don't have to worry about running out of topics to talk about.

6. Improve your charm value. The smartest way for girls is to attract guys to talk to them and make them enthusiastic to chat with them. If the feedback you receive on each pickup isn't positive enough, then you'll need to improve in that area.

An important reality is that in the male group they are more attracted to women with excellent appearance, because it is their instinct as creatures.

Although the first step is for the woman to take the initiative, the purpose must be that the man takes the initiative, and even the other party pays, otherwise it will not be called love.

Be proactive, but not provocative;

What can make you think of it, you can think of it;

It's not that I'm interested in you, it's just that my mouth is sweet;

Have a good chat and give you a chance.

What topics should be talked about on the initiative:

1.If you don't know each other very well, it's best not to talk about gender relationships right away, or "what do you think of me?" because this will make the other person understand what you mean at once.

2.Don't think about livening up the atmosphere on a whim, and then make jokes for the other person.

4.Topics should be picked from a range that is relaxed and easy for the other party to answer, such as:

Ask questions (know how to clear memory?) Did you write it? or hobby questions (photography, film, etc.).

After mobilizing the right emotion, let the other person associate it:

1.High-ranking people tend to give imagination to lower-ranking people.

If you give the two people in the chat a high and low position, I believe that no one wants to be that low role. Because of the low position, I think it is giving, flattery, and it is also in the early days of the relationship between men and women, if you have the mentality: I want to be happy when he chats, but you can't talk about anything.

You just have to focus on what he thinks is his business, and I'm going to do my own.

2.Crucially, some men will also tempt you;

A guy with a little bit of emotional intelligence will test the relationship with you.

Most people think that it is not good not to do it, such as suddenly teasing a boy, or blocking the other person when they are angry. So the girls are trembling when chatting, for fear that they will "do" and perform badly. So the more they get along, the more they become a flattering style, and the man says nothing and doesn't refuse.

But I'll tell you the objective fact, men also like girls who are "made", but only by "small works".

What is a small work?

1.If a man chats wrong, dare to suppress him.

For example, if a man you don't know very well comes to talk to you, and you think it's too early to talk about it, you have to resolutely refuse, or even suppress it.

2.In the ambiguous period, "doing" can bring you closer together.

For example, you have been talking for a long time, and you can suddenly talk to him one night: Don't go to bed early tonight, chat with me, I'm not happy

This sudden move is unbearable for most boys, and from the next day, he will definitely be more active with you.

1. Don't mention the shortcomings of boys, such as height, appearance, etc., although you don't say it, you will definitely be unhappy in your heart, because boys love face.

2. You must be serious when chatting with boys, because boys are used to judging by appearances, and your inattention is likely to turn into dislike in his eyes.

3. If you smile, you will get closer to you. Know that the other person may have the same worries as you, and a smile will make the other person relax and not think you are unattainable.

4. If he is willing to talk more, then listen more and interject less, find out his personality and hobbies, and facilitate the next chat. Of course, you can also express your opinion at the right time, and he will definitely be impressed with you.

5. Pay attention to the boy's reaction when starting to chat, after all, sometimes when talking about some unor sensitive topics, his expression can reveal whether he is interested in the matter or does not want to talk.

6. Pay attention to the colleagues, friends and things he talks about around him. Because only by understanding the things around him will we have something to talk to him, and only by having a common circle, common interests and friends who have each other will we talk more.

Talk if you want, don't have any worries, it's normal for men and women to chat. As long as there is no outrage, there is no problem of thick skin. You can ask him what kind of girl he likes to see if you can meet his requirements, and if not, you can only give up.

You also have to know about his hobbies, stories about him as a child, and if he is willing to tell you about the case. You may be unrequited. Now it's not a shame for women to chase men.

But let the girl confess, but she can't say it. Let him slowly understand. If he really likes you, you don't have to say anything.

Boys have always taken the initiative, you chat with him, let go of the baggage, and chat easily. It's okay if you can't be friends of the opposite sex. It's okay to treat him like an older brother.

I wish you to find someone who truly loves you on the road to love.

1.Generally, when girls face the boys they like, whether unintentional or deliberate, they will make a gesture, or show their cuteness, or show gentleness, or show thoughtfulness and sensibility, or show their own amorous style, etc. But no matter how you behave, remember not to be too pretentious, that kind of performance will be very unappetizing, and boys will be impatient to stay away from you.

2.No matter how much you love the boy in front of you, remember not to change everything about yourself for him, and remember that a boy will never like a girl who has no ego, and that kind of girl is really boring. You can choose the content of the chat according to the boy's preferences, or use a little bit of the boy's favorite behavior to do some small words and gestures when chatting, etc., but you must stick to your personality and let the boy understand that you are a girl with personality and not a chicken rib character.

3.If you are dealing with a cold boy, and you show an enthusiastic or noisy chatting style, unless the other person loves you very much, the other person will definitely be annoyed by you. So it's important to remember that when chatting, you must know the general personality of the guy, and then choose the way you should chat, down to the volume of your speech and the look on your face.

If it's an online chat, be careful not to be too verbose.

4.Again, even if you love each other very much, don't overdo it. Although if you love someone, you have to be brave to chase it, but at least you can't make the other person disgusted with you, right?

No matter when, the reserved and shyness that girls should have must be indispensable, otherwise the other party is very likely to think that you are too enthusiastic, and doubt your purpose and even character, so are you outweighing the loss?

Humor attracts attention.

Sometimes take the initiative to talk to you, no matter what the purpose. After all, she is interested in you, so at this time, you have to use your humor to firmly attract her attention, chat with you very happily, and make sure that she has not chosen the wrong idea.

2. Ambiguous close-up.

Both ambiguity and humor can have an impact on a girl's mood, but girls have a better memory of ambiguity than humor. Girls are always duplicitous, and if you ask her if she likes a man who is ambiguous about her, she often denies it. But the truest thought in their hearts is to have the only ambiguity that only for them.

Don't get carried away, ambiguous language like this can't be used at will, because girls are more reserved, if you try not to use this method at the beginning stage, only say that when you enter the familiar stage, in order to be able to determine the relationship, use ambiguous language to make you more intimate.

3. Truly enhance understanding.

Routines are like condiments that make the dish more delicious, but if it is excessive, it will make it difficult for people to swallow, and it is even more so in the process of conversation, the routines are few and fine, try to show your true self. After all, the ultimate purpose of chatting is to meet. If there is a certain gap between your performance on the Internet and your real self, then your score will be deducted by the woman soon after meeting.

It's better to let you slowly get used to the real you, and of course you can focus on showing your charm.

The routine is like a cookbook, with which it may not be able to make excellent and fragrant food, but without you, you will be blind, and the most important thing is to be willing to put your mind to her. The dishes made really are not as good as **. Those who communicate sincerely will not abandon them.

The other person's feelings are calm, because you are a straight man, you are not good at expressing your true feelings, and if you don't contact her for a long time, it means that you don't have a good impression of her.

She should feel good about you, otherwise she can't even be an ordinary friend, just because of your indifference, she can't be attracted to you, and out of a girl's reserve, she must also reject you.

It is recommended to treat her according to your true wishes, like her, insist on caring for her in every detail, treat her well without asking for anything in return, and pay for her without asking for the name of a friend or boyfriend.

It's a bit abrupt, but I don't think there's anything wrong with being straightforward. And I don't think there's a problem with your answer, which saves face for the girl and doesn't embarrass me too much. If you really like her and she has something to like about her, then start with friends!

Aren't all lovers converted from friends? In fact, it is also possible that the girl is testing you, this girl is also a good girl, if you promise your confession on the first date, isn't it a bit too casual? Are you sincere and long-lasting, people always have a definite answer in their hearts to make a decision!

What do you mean? Does this girl know you want to pursue her? In fact, there is no problem, as long as you like it, you will be brave enough to pursue it yourself.

Otherwise, you will regret it in the future, if you pursue success, then you will gain love, if the pursuit is not successful, you will not regret it in the future, because I have already paid, but what, he just doesn't like me, and you can't help it.

It doesn't matter, there will be many opportunities in the future, but I didn't say it this time. There will be a chance in the future, you have to perform well, if you perform well. Girls may also say it themselves.

You don't need to express consciousness, you need to perform for a long time, if you really like him, then you have to care about him, pay attention to his every move, usually be good to him, know what she likes, you have to do things. In this way, girls will like you, which will help a careful and caring person. So that you two will be soon.