What to do if a junior high school student is not self motivated

Hehe, at first glance, it is a person who has not experienced wind and waves, you can send him to the countryside to do farm work for a few days, and it will be good to be tired for a few days, and you will cherish the sweetness when you know that it is bitter, and you will strive for not to be bitter in the future. You can also take him to listen to inspirational lectures and recommend Li Yang's, that kind of madness can hit the heart, shock people, and make people realize.

An ordinary person, if you want to talk about pursuit, I don't have any pursuit. But when you are old, you have responsibilities, and all you pursue is to fulfill your responsibilities as well as possible.

It is normal for children to be small and have no sense of responsibility, what children need is interest, and adults certainly want to see children outstanding, but what do children need? Everyone has the need for "achievement", that is, the need to be recognized and praised, and children also have this need, but when this need to be recognized and praised cannot be realized, they will not be interested in doing it.

Your own children, you know best. But the way of communication can be the worst. It is far better to guide him and praise him than to criticize him and urge him. After all, the child is growing up day by day.

It can only be forced that it is better to have someone supervise == to fix what time to do something.

But you can't be too strict, finish your homework on Saturdays and Sundays, and let them be.

Self-motivation is good, too much is not good, too lacking is not good, you have to be saved in such a situation, it is recommended that you tell your parents what is on your mind, or see a psychiatrist, the important thing is self-regulation, fate is in your own hands, come on, welcome to talk to me.

Children are not self-motivated, don't force them! Listen to the teacher explain the correct way to educate!

It's okay if you don't study well.

It is not the people who are not good at learning that are eliminated by society, but the people who have low comprehensive ability.

It's the same as me.

I just thought, it's okay anyway.

I never wanted to be unmotivated.

As for you, at least think about it, it means that you are also self-motivated.

I'm happy every day, and it's better to live an easy life than anything else.

Let's talk about it carefully.

Give him some motivation, goals.

If you are not self-motivated, you have to cultivate self-motivation by yourself, instead of always thinking that life will be passed like this, and every day will be counted as a day, and everything will be planned, but it will always be postponed to tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow will never be realized.

Now that you have realized that you are a person who is not very motivated, you have to make changes yourself, first of all, you must know what you want, what kind of life you want to live, what goals you want to achieve, and carry out a plan around these, it is definitely impossible to miss what you want from the beginning, you have to take it slowly, maybe the process will be difficult, it is better than doing nothing for a lifetime.

My friend, now a mother of two children, she is only 27 years old, she has begun to rot, her husband has a salary of five or six thousand yuan a month, she is at home with two children, Dabao has been in kindergarten, Erbao is only 8 months, equivalent to her husband's fixed salary to support three or four people, but her two husbands and wives are completely content with the status quo, thinking that the current money is enough to spend, do not think about how to increase a little income, the child is sick and has no extra money, sometimes we have to ask us to borrow.

I asked her why she didn't let your husband find a job with a higher salary, she said that her husband now thinks this job is very good, and she only thinks about bringing up the two children, maybe the children will be very promising in the future, and their hopes are placed on the two children. The key is how old this child is, and he doesn't think about it too well without holding the shed.

When you are not self-motivated, compare yourself with other excellent people, so that you will be motivated, every time I want to be bad, I think that people are richer than me and live better than me, what am I doing here! Such a mediocre life is too boring.

Self-motivated, that is, the heart of striving for progress and being aggressive.

Self-motivation is people's desire to make progress and not be left behind, it is the internal motivation for people to have the courage to open up and keep moving forward, it is the ideological belief that people adhere to their ideals and pursue this kind of work, and it is the spiritual orientation and source of power that leads people to constantly seek development.

Most people will be self-motivated in four situations:

1) If you have a goal, for example, if you want to chase a girl you like, you will become very motivated.

2) Have fun or fun, for example: if you do a job that you like, you will be very self-motivated.

3) Self-motivation forced by the environment, for example: the family has no money to eat, you have no choice, you must earn money to support the family, you will naturally become self-motivated.

To put it simply, the lack of motivation is due to a loss of motivation. You are not motivated right now because you are sleepy and you can't find your goals, or because you can't find your interests and you lose your purpose in life, so you feel that you are not self-motivated.

In layman's terms, the amount of money you make increases every month.

In fact, it requires you to keep learning, improve your abilities, and accumulate experience... In the end, it's all about the money.

True wealth must first be spiritually rich, and then materially rich. If you are spiritually rich, then money will come naturally.