-
Anonymous users2024-02-05Bad for your parents? Marriage is a matter of two families, it is recommended that you talk to your family well, if the woman's parents agree, do not need to apply very formally, first live together for a period of time, that is, the so-called "trial marriage" foolproof in marriage, marriage is a lifelong matter of two families. Love is selfish, marriage cannot.
If it's a parent's problem, you need to know first, ask clearly, what do you not like? See if you can make a change, work hard to do it, parents will move the heart of the silhouette when they see your efforts, which parent doesn't want their children to live well? If it is a force majeure factor, it is recommended that you think about it clearly, she loves you very much, and the meaning of you love her very much is different, which side is more important than what you should consider, you should think about it calmly, which side is more important.
To understand the temperament of the parents, and to figure out whether you miss this girl you will regret for the rest of your life.
-
Anonymous users2024-02-04There are a few questions: First, is she bad for your parents or bad for her own?
Second: Why don't your parents agree?
Is it worth considering the reasons for the parents' disagreement?
-
Anonymous users2024-02-03Many people really realize the difficulties of their parents after becoming parents themselves.
-
Anonymous users2024-02-02Your girlfriend loves you very much, but do you love her? First of all, ask yourself clearly, if you also love her, then you first get a consensus with your parents, listen to their opinions, why don't you agree? Although the relationship is between two people, you can't not have affection for love, and they are your own parents.
Besides, your girlfriend is not good to your parents, what is the reason, is it because she has no filial piety or because your parents oppose your feelings that she treats your parents badly? Having said that, I don't think she's any better for someone who is not good to her parents! If it's just that she loves you and you don't love her, then, things are simple, two words: break up!
-
Anonymous users2024-02-01Is it bad for your parents, or is it her parents?
-
Anonymous users2024-01-31Hehe... Find a way to impress them with you ...
-
Anonymous users2024-01-30First of all, a relationship will eventually enter the palace of marriage. Meeting parents is the way to go. Many lovers are stuck in meeting their parents.
After all, the parents' aesthetics and three views are very different from their children, this kind of time first requires you to pay a lot of thought, so that the woman's parents can see your determination and sincerity, if the woman's parents put forward your impossible needs, you should be cautious.
In this case, the joint efforts of both lovers are needed, and the woman is responsible for appeasing the parents, since the parents are not satisfied, and she is satisfied, you naturally have your own shining point to be fancied, to expand your advantages and reduce the perception of your shortcomings, no one is perfect, there can be no perfect person, there will always be shortcomings, if the parents really grasp the shortcomings to pursue fiercely, then within your ability to change, if the shortcomings lie in appearance, height, these factors that cannot be changed, Then you can only rely on sincerity and the attitude of your girlfriend to make up your mind.
In addition to the subject's parents, you also have to understand your subject's attitude, after the parents bombarded in turn, I think she may also have some wavering, thinking about whether to continue, at this time you have to ask her opinion carefully, after all, if she gives up, even if her parents agree, or you still insist, I think these are useless.
In the case of the woman's parents disagreeing, she has been talking to you for eight years, I think, so many years, her life is not good, you have no pressure from the family here, your parents completely agree with your own ideas, but since she talked to you, she has to constantly bear the pressure from her own family, endlessly, never stopped. She loves you, but she loves her parents.
Lovers eventually become married, which is the right time and place and the same as the same perfect consummation that can be obtained. If the woman's parents want to agree, there are a hundred ways to agree. But if they disagree, there are 10,000 reasons to disagree.
-
Anonymous users2024-01-29Fate is determined, happiness depends on oneself, fate is something that cannot be found, one's own happiness is in charge, girlfriend's parents do not agree, you have to find a way to impress them, now is an open society, as long as your girlfriend really loves you, you really love her, and everything else is not a problem.
This is the typical excuse. Let me tell you something, I have known my girlfriend for 2 years, because I am in the field, I have not seen each other, I have to give her some gifts every time I have a holiday, and finally I asked her if she could join me, she said no, it was a simple and clear, no rhetoric, asked her why, she said that her parents did not want to. Later, she didn't want to go to school and wanted to go out to work, she also told me, I asked her if your parents agreed, she said her parents didn't agree, but less than a week later, she still went out to work, I said your parents agreed, she said that he decided regardless of whether his parents agreed or not. >>>More
You should get straight to the point and put the pregnancy on the table. >>>More
First of all, you can't have a conflict with your parents for him, you have to use a softened attitude to appease your parents first, after all, they won't harm you, even if they are not satisfied, they are still thinking about you. >>>More
...... that doesn't require you to let goLook at him, after all, it's his family who is not satisfied with ......All you can do is love him, help him, comfort him, and let him know that you deserve to treat him like this! Then do your best, let his parents accept you a little bit every day, take your time, don't rush, love, all have to pay! >>>More
Communication is the best bridge, this is my solution to so many similar problems with the landlord you first have to inform the parties, many friends will be because of early love or various reasons with the family discord or conflict, try to communicate it, your family is unwilling to your early love and do not want you to work because they think you have not grown up, not suitable to do these things, you have to use your actions to prove to them that you have grown up, - act wisely, don't mess around, for example: say something more mature, Always be considerate of your parents, tell them that they are tired, rest more, and your daughter will help you ....... In this way, they will slowly think that you have grown up, and you will not be in charge of it so much, don't be like a squeamish girl, in this case, how can your family rest assured, you say? >>>More