Debate Competition: It s easy to fall in love, it s hard to get along, it s easy to get along, it s

The key to winning a debate is to gain insight into the topic, deeply understand the meaning of the debate, and then seize the commanding heights of the argument. Only in this way can we achieve the goal of attacking and retreating.

There are two conditions that must be met in order to complete the debate: one is the yardstick by which right and wrong are measured. There is no way for a person who acts on the condition of personal interest and a person who puts morality first together because they have different standards for judging right and wrong. When we discuss (debate) issues, we discuss them based on the basic values, morals, and general ethics of the society, and generally ignore some particularities.

This is one of them. Second, in the debate, it is necessary to first clarify the concept of the debate. In fact, the general debate on campus is about how the debater interprets the debate.

Next, I will analyze the debate topic of "love is easy to get along with".

According to the general rule, when we debate, we must first explain the topic of the debate. What is "in love" and what is "getting along". "Love" is an emotional communication activity oriented by people's sexual (behavioral) tastes, so what is "getting along"?

"Getting along" is the social behavior of people communicating and communicating with each other, including cooperation, working together, etc. From the conceptual point of view, we can see that "getting along" is a kind of social ability of people, and "love" is also a kind of ability of social people, and "getting along" covers the content of "love", and the ability of "love" partially reflects a person's social ability.

A person who has the ability to love and be loved by others must have a high ability to "get along", and it must be easier to get along with others (the so-called easy and difficult are comparative, pay attention).

The above is the basic connotation. However, this does not mean that the defense that is close to this meaning will necessarily win, and the process of debate is actually a process of alienation of concepts and meanings.

I can alienate "love" into a simple sexual impulse, which is of course simple, because it strips away the part of the concept that "love" between people is a social behavior of people, and it is of course much easier than the complex social behavior of "getting along"!

And I can also alienate "get along" to "can we be together". "Can we be together" completely reflects the objective accident and inevitability of things, and lacks the role of people here. I love her, but she's a married woman, and we love each other but get along hard – which completely alienates the basic concept of the debate.

Knowing these connotations, we can find arguments in our favor, there are many examples of big writers and big stars, both positive and negative.

Debate is ultimately a judgment of human ability, not the reversal of an argument.

It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to get alongIs it difficult?It's not hard!

Love is two-sided, not unrequited love, two people can love each other, there must be something in common, such as personality, hobbies, ideals, so it will be easier to get along.

On the contrary, if you don't love each other, it's more difficult for the two to get along, you have to find a common language, you have to find a common hobby, what's more, can you get along without loving each other?

Inheriting the old saying "ugly things spread thousands of miles, good things don't go out", people who love each other come together to live together, and they find that there are too many differences in life. So too many people like to feel everywhere, alas, it's easy to fall in love and hard to get along.

In fact, there are many examples of how easy it is to fall in love and get along with each other, we don't care, just like now, we as a group can only get along better if we love each other!Isn't it?

The former is accidental, the latter is inevitable, and the accident has become inevitable, so you must be calm Even if it is difficult, you must go with the flow Otherwise it will be very chaotic and annoying Love is so sudden, it will be difficult to get along It will not face it The difficulty will spread When the pain is extreme, it will be difficult Why not cut off the relationship and fight alone

It's easy to get along with each other, it's hard to fall in love, and it's hard to debate the golden sentences are as follows:

1. Ten years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a hundred years of repair can be slept together. It can be seen that true love, how can it be achieved overnight?And getting along is an activity that you do all the time, is it true that among the thousands of people who get along with you, there must be thousands of people who love you?

Apparently not!It is said that the fate is in the providence and the part is man-made. And love each other, cherish fate, get along and seek share.

2. Doesn't this also prove that it is easy to get along and difficult to fall in love?Xu Zhimo also said: "I will look for the place of my only soul in the vast sea of people, and I will get it, I am lucky, I can't, my life." ”

3. This does not show that true love is hard to find, if you really cherish your feelings, you should understand that it is difficult to find your only soul, even if you can't find it in your life, it is just a fate arrangement. The song is sung well, fate is so arranged, it always teaches people to be helpless!

4. In the river of human growth, getting along with others is an inevitability, and falling in love with others is completely accidental. Is it necessarily more difficult than an accident?Of course not!

5. It is true that many people believe in the phrase "marriage is the grave of love", and many people want to break out of this "besieged city", but in fact, the reason why these couples can't get along is that they have given up the love between each other, and replaced it with that kind of suspicious eyes, complaining faces, and endless wars.

6. Have you seen how many people choose to endure and continue to get along in order to maintain their families. It can be seen that love is difficult to maintain, but it is much easier to get along!

Summary. Hello, this is Xiaodu, I'm glad to have your question.

1, Is it true that only when two people get along well can they gradually develop into love?

2. If you get along, will you be able to fall in love?

3, We get along very easily and simply now, but if you want us to love each other now, even if we are willing to defend each other, we must not want to defend each other!

Debate: It's easy to get along and it's hard to fall in love. Ask how to debate.

Hello, this is Xiaodu, I'm glad to have your question. 1, Is it true that only when two people get along well can they gradually develop into love? 2. If you get along, will you be able to fall in love?

3, We get along very easily and simply now, but if you want us to love each other now, even if we are willing to defend each other, we must not want to defend each other!

I'm a three-debater. Fall in love with each other's strengths and live with each other's shortcomings. Which do you say is harder?

From a biological point of view, parasitism and mutualism are common phenomena in nature, and it is so easy for hermit crabs and sea anemones to live together and depend on each other! But can you make them fall in love?

What to do when the other person asks you a question that you don't know?

Then you can only rely on your own ability to see if you can argue back, if not, there is no way.

What about the summary of Debate 3.

"Get along" is explained in the Modern Chinese Dictionary as follows: live together with each other; Or, reach out to each other and treat each other. And love is a two-way street, it is the commitment of life to life between each other, and it is a dignified word.

Getting along is just the symbiosis of material flow, just a patchwork of trivial things in life, just a form of time or short, process or good or bad, just blindly staying at the superficial and superficial level! In real life, we helplessly see that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately in the face of great difficulties" examples abound, and the so-called friends "only want to share joys and sorrows" is not uncommon. Doesn't all of this just show that it is much easier to get along with each other simply than to love each other with your heart?

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Question 1, what is white hair as new, tilting as old Question 2, love is love, not love is not love. It won't change from not loving to loving because of getting along for a long time3, how much love is there? Or is it love, not something else, such as family and friendship, Nth type of feelings.

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Debate Competition: It is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to get along, how to ask each other questions.

You can ask him, why do many fairy tales end in the bad code book when [The Prince and Princess are Happy Together], and they don't write about firewood, rice, oil, and salt after marriage, and they don't write about the trivialities in life? You can also ask, how do he understand the sentence "It's good to see each other, it's difficult to live together". You can also ask, why are there many emotional programs like [Love Defense] to solve the problem of lovers getting along, if getting along is easier than falling in love, then two people can even love each other, how can they be stumped to get along?

Also, you can ask the other person what is their criterion for judging which is more difficult. If there is no standard, how can it be judged which one is more difficult?

Arguments are made from the following aspects:

The problems faced in loving and getting along with each other are different. Falling in love is a soul match, which requires the consciousness of two people and the consistency of the three views. When the three views are not in agreement, it is more than half a sentence of speculation, how can we talk about love?

For example, feminists can't be with macho people because they have very different views. But when two people love each other and the material conditions are not very good, it is common to never abandon and change the status quo.

It can be seen that the difficulties faced by two people in love are mainly due to the three views of consciousness rather than materiality. True love requires higher requirements for people's three views. The main contradiction in getting along is material life, because there will be no huge difference between the two sides in terms of three views.

Husband and wife accompany each other for a long time, and there will inevitably be a "Symphony of Pots and Pans", and when the song is over, it is either "well water does not interfere with river water", or "respect each other like guests".

XX and XX celebrate a golden wedding, and they have been respectful of each other for decades. It's about "respecting" rather than "loving each other." Respect is not love.

Respect for the elderly, too. Respect for each other is a way to get along. As long as you get along in a proper way, getting along is easy.

Otherwise, how could there be so many "decades like a day".