Should I talk about my first love at the age of 23 I am 28 years old, I don t have my first love, an

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, what do you say, late maturity, in fact, it's too late, it's not good, it's easy to get hurt and can't think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's talk, let's talk. In fact, it's not a late love, because no one can accurately define her as a real first love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What's not to do, as long as you like it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Old! Don't talk about being an older unmarried young man anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes

    Find the right one, though

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it's a man, it's early!

    If it is a woman, then you have to look for it, because China's marriage law says that "a woman gets married after the age of 22, which is a late marriage".

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love is a responsibility, it is to be responsible, people are slowly maturing, if there is a suitable one, you have to catch it, give up, you will regret it, love is everyone's right, you decide for yourself, you can't be assertive, especially men.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're old

    Let's talk.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's time to talk about it, it's all old

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Alas, if you don't fall in love, it's about to become a twilight love! Don't hesitate, if you meet a good one, fall in love, if you don't have a good one, wait anyway, you're still young!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    23。。Late love all...

    Don't miss out on the right one.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Some people may not have been in a relationship at the age of 28, and they don't even want to fall in love, but in fact, some people will feel that this situation is normal? So for me, I think this situation is also a normal phenomenon, because some people don't find a suitable person for themselves in the process of life, so they don't fall in love.

    Because love is our own business, that is to say, others have no way to measure our view of love.

    Or that there is no way to interfere with our state of love. If we haven't found a suitable person or someone who wants us to fall in love, then I think we can wait for a while, don't think that age is necessarily a problem, some people think that if I don't fall in love when I'm 20 or 30 years old, it's a very serious thing, but in fact it's not the case.

    In fact, everyone's view of love is different, some people feel that they are 28 years old, have no first love, and don't want to fall in love, which is not a normal thing, but in my opinion, no matter how old it is, as long as we find the right one, we can talk about it, but if we don't find what we like, or think it's right for us, it's okay for us not to talk about it for the time being, otherwise we will start a relationship at will, which is also irresponsible to each other.

    First of all, we must abandon this abnormal thinking, that is to say, we must be objective, to look at these love problems, some people feel that love is to be chosen in a certain age, that is to say, after this age, if we fall in love, it may not be a good thing. But we can take a look at some people who have never been married in their lives, and even spend their lives waiting for someone, so this is actually love, but also themselves, as long as they can bear this consequence, it doesn't matter.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is nothing abnormal, everyone chooses what kind of life to live according to their own needs, but it is necessary to remind you to think clearly, in the future, you have to pay for the current choice, choose to marry and children, you will pay a lot at the moment, choose to be single, chic in the present, and old and lonely. Normal, such people are ambitious people, have dreams, goals, and plans for life, whether they are men or women, they will have a successful career in the future, and they will get everything you want, and now there are many young men and women, who are trapped by love at every turn, and some are eager to catch one quickly, for fear that it will be difficult to find when they are older, all such people, most of them will achieve nothing in the future, and they will not have much interest, and their feelings and marriages are not happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal, everyone has their own thoughts and choices, it's not a big deal if you don't want to fall in love, life is your own, do what you want to do, and happiness is the most important thing.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is a beautiful thing, but it is not a necessity of lifeLife is your own, and you have the right to choose what you want and have. Everyone comes into this world with a special meaning, and there is no need to feel strange that you have not been in love. Falling in love is a very mysterious thing, maybe the destined one is still waiting for you in a corner, and what you have to do now is to love yourself.

    Love will come by chance, don't be anxious, don't need to be uneasy, just love yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not normal, maybe what happened to you when you were a child was not particularly good, or your family was not particularly happy, so you don't want to fall in love, and you don't believe in love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Normal, love is not a necessity of life, everyone's needs for love are different, some people need love very much, and some people don't necessarily, it depends on yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Normal, everyone has the right to choose, and it's normal not to want to fall in love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not a late love.

    Understand the other person's personality.

    When in love, only after understanding each other's personalities, can the two communicate better. For example, his personality is quieter, and you have a cheerful and lively personality, which requires each other to adjust their frequency and adapt to each other's rhythm.

    Familiarize yourself with each other's hobbies.

    If you want to warm up the relationship quickly, you must know how to do what you like. It is also very important to give appropriate affirmation when the other person is willing to confide in you about their personal preferences, which will make the other person feel that you are very optimistic about them. A feeling that resonates with you.

    Be a friend of ta.

    Don't just think about being each other's lovers, but know how to be each other's friends first. We will hide from our lovers, and we will be more open to our friends. But if you can become friends who talk about everything, and finally become lovers, you will form a more stable relationship.

    Know some pushing and pulling skills.

    Even if you like the other person again, if you agree to confess, it will make the other party less interested. Give him some frustration appropriately, arouse the other party's desire to conquer, and maybe it will make the relationship between the two of you go further.

    Gentleness is the best lubricant.

    People will always be more unscrupulous with those close to them, but much more enthusiastic with strangers. But that's not good, we should change this habit and try to be as gentle as possible with the person you love. Men are more likely to make this mistake than women, and the more they like a woman, the worse they will sometimes treat her.

    But this kind of badness is actually a manifestation of care, but it is just used in the wrong place.

    Precautions for the first time in love: Invest too quickly.

    When you and you are in a relationship, don't rush into it, you want to stick together, don't be anxious, you haven't married yet.

    Identify the other party too early.

    In the early stage of a relationship, both parties will hide some of their shortcomings, even if you are fully committed, don't think too much of each other perfectly, and think rationally about whether they are suitable to accompany you to the end.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Not counted. 23-year-old girls are at the best age of their lives, and the love at this time is not only not too late but also very early, so you should cherish it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, it doesn't count, 23 years old may have just graduated from college, and some people are worried that falling in love will affect their studies, so it is normal not to fall in love when they are studying, and the most important thing is to find someone they like.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course not, like I'm 30 years old, I haven't been in love once, I married someone else directly, and I still regret that I didn't fall in love when I was young.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No, it's just the right age, falling in love with each other won't be so naïve, and I also know that it's not easy for both parties to come together, after all, the chance of two people being together is also very small.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The first time I fell in love at the age of 23 was considered a late love, and I was only 18 years old when I first fell in love, and I felt that I was late enough.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not a late love, many people around me who only fall in love for the first time at the age of 30, since it's the first time to fall in love, then take advantage of the opportunity.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course, it's not a late love, I'm 25 years old and haven't been in love, and 23 years old is just the right time to talk.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, it's just the right age, so that you can understand whether the other party wants to be inferior to you, and hopes that the other party can accompany you all the way.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Not counted. Many of my graduate students are studying at the age of 23, so it's normal to be in love even if you don't fall in love, and falling in love is certainly not a late love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No, it's very early, if you are too early, you won't fall in love, such an adult, you can't understand such a thing, can you understand falling in love?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No, first of all, everyone's emotional foundation is not yet solid, but everyone is very, very unwilling to break up or separate. When you reach the age of 27, the lover you meet will say the word marriage.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Falling in love with the purpose of marriage means that you must get along sincerely, not to talk and play, so marriage is not the ultimate goal, but to find the right person, so you will naturally get married.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you don't have any illusions about love when you're young, you can't say it's late, after all, people are like that. When is the first love, but be sure to find your true love and solve it casually will make you regret it. .

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Now there are still a few relationships for the purpose of marriage, marriage and love are two different things.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Not necessarily, it depends on the individual's thoughts, the ideas are different, and the results will of course be different.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    That's right, falling in love doesn't have to be married right away, marriage doesn't have to be children, what do you do with people who let the dink plot.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Love and marriage are two different things, first love, just the first love. Beautiful and simple, but it can't be said that you can't fall in love if you don't get married, and getting married is not only about feelings, but also about the integration of two families. For the purpose of getting married, try to get along, but if you don't have the right personality, forget it.

    But, remember, don't hurt the people you love. The process is also beautiful.

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