What should I do if the boy I like always avoids me? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I think that the awkwardness between you needs to be solved by a good talk, and both parties may feel very uncomfortable and uncomfortable if it goes on like this. If he still needs time to calm down, he can first reflect on how the two of them will get along in the future, after all, they are friends, right.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe it's just this special stage, if you really love each other I believe you can withstand the test of love Let go of your heart, don't let yourself care too much, it's better to go with the flow than anything You won't leave yourself with too many regrets

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Always avoids you, then you ignore him. Why are you so cheap always chasing him? If the sons and daughters of China can't do it, let's change it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love is a superstition at the right time and place, oh, so you are here! "In the vast sea of people, it is not easy for men and women to fall in love, if he or she is a man or woman you like, please be considerate of him and her willfulness, and tolerate each other more! To love someone is to love all of him, including his shortcomings, of course.

    Let each other listen.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People don't want to see you, so what are you still struggling with?

    Either apologize to him, and if he is more angry, maybe he will be reconciled.

    If he is a little smaller, he is still calculating, so is this kind of man worthy of your liking?

    Women should be kind to themselves and don't lose their self-esteem.

    Maybe I'm speaking in a very extreme way.

    But I hope you think about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The easiest way is to know yourself, ask yourself, do you like him, be direct, tell him, let him give you an answer, otherwise, you will be the one who will hurt the most.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why does he do this, that's because he cares about you, sometimes girls make mistakes, take the initiative to go over and apologize, boys don't care.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I regretted it the same way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then you can go to him face to face and make it clear.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, the boy you like deliberately avoided you as soon as she saw me, does it mean that you are interested in you. I don't think boys who like you will avoid you, and they are generally willing to be friends with you. Think about why he's avoiding you, whether he's shy or afraid of you.

    You like him but he doesn't know you like him, so he won't feel embarrassed to run into you, and of course he won't avoid you. If he knows that you like him, then there is no need to hide, hiding means that he doesn't like you.

    A boy will not choose to turn a blind eye in front of the girl he likes, and he will often use various methods to gain your attention and arouse your favor. Because he doesn't know if you like him or not, he will try to show himself to attract you and show you the best in himself.

    An introvert is not so expressive, he will be overwhelmed in front of the girl he likes, he can only use his "coldness" to get along with you, but he will not deliberately avoid you. He is very eager to chat with you, he himself wants to find a chance to get close to you, although he doesn't dare, but he is very willing for you to take the initiative to find him, if you take the initiative, he will be very enthusiastic, and it is impossible to avoid you.

    Why did he hide when he saw you, I think he didn't mean anything to you, but he knew that you liked him, so if I were this boy, I would also avoid you. Because I don't want you to have a misunderstanding, and I don't want to waste your feelings, it's a good thing for you to give up early, so it's a good way to avoid you.

    The second reason is that he avoids you because he has a girlfriend, he is meaningless to you, and he doesn't want his girlfriend to misunderstand, just to avoid suspicion. And is he deliberately avoiding you alone, or is it the same as other girls? A little boy is afraid of getting along with the opposite sex, there is a certain psychological barrier, and he instinctively avoids you.

    So if you want to know if he is interesting to you, I think you should ask him in person, even if he is the boy you like, then be bold and ask him the reason for avoiding you in person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, dear, there are many possibilities for a boy to deliberately avoid you 1, this man's good brother likes you, but he also likes you a little, but he doesn't want to fight with a good brother; 2. This man's girlfriend suspects or doesn't want him to get close to you, and he listens to his girlfriend very much; 3. He likes you, but he thinks you can't be together, so he avoids you very rationally; 4. If someone likes you and threatens and intimidates him to stay away from you, he is very cowardly or thinks that you are not worthy of offending those people; 5. He really hates you and annoys you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello dear, it is generally the following situations: first: psychological contradictions do not explicitly reject you, but start to avoid you, maybe the boy is also very conflicted in his heart, he has not thought about it, and avoiding you in a reprieve may be the best choice.

    Disturb the second: I don't like you, the boy doesn't like you, but I feel that it's not very embarrassing to reject you bluntly, so I can only take a roundabout strategy, and hiding from you may be the best solution for him. Third:

    Shy or inferior, he may like you when he makes trouble, but he is more shy or inferior, feels unworthy of you, and wants to get close to you, but this psychology is at work, and he can only choose to avoid you. Fourth: I don't know how to deal with it, maybe the boy is also the first time to encounter being pursued by a girl, so he doesn't know what to do for a while, he is still struggling with whether he likes you in his heart or not, whether to accept you.

    Because of this entanglement, he began to avoid it. Fifth: Fear of being pestered The boy makes it clear that he doesn't like you, and even if he rejects you, he is afraid of being pestered, so he cuts off contact, doesn't meet, and doesn't give you any hope.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He shouldn't be afraid, maybe he is afraid of hurting you, he can't be sure that he can give you happiness, so he can only choose to escape. The most important thing is that you can understand him and he can understand you, so that there will be no misunderstanding and no sadness for the other party. It is still necessary to communicate well to determine whether his feelings for you are genuine.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, the answer is very clear.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    From my personal point of view, this guy should really dislike you.

    I think girls are a godsend.

    They are the little fairies in the sky who come down to earth to experience the joy of red dust, the most precious gems that are thrown into the mother's belly by the gods, the most precious flowers, the most clear dewdrops, the brightest, clearest and gentlest sunshine in the morning, the lightest, most elegant and most comfortable breeze in the afternoon, the brightest and loveliest stars in the blue crab shell-colored sky when the evening is about to fall, and the gentle, bright, bright and holy moon in the sky on a midsummer night.

    They should not be troubled by the hardships of the world, they should not be disgusted by others, they should not be saddened by the imminent departure of others, and they should not be hurt by the cold words of others.

    They are the most beautiful treasures, the most cherished little treasures.

    Every girl is the cutest little fairy.

    How could the little fairy be hurt for a little emotion?

    So, don't be sad even if the guy you like doesn't like you. Because you are more important than him.

    You have to have this kind of consciousness all the time, you are the most important, you are the most cherished, you are the treasure of this world, you are the person who deserves the most beauty and happiness in this world.

    Don't be sad about others and trivial things.

    That will make you feel less like a fairy and will dust your jewelry.

    Even if he doesn't like you, you have to be happy, be yourself, and be the best version of yourself.

    Live your life as you normally would, go to school, study when you need to, take exams, write homework, sleep when you need to sleep, and have fun with your friends.

    Enjoy everything you can, and don't make yourself sad and discouraged because of just one man.

    That's going to make people feel distressed.

    The little fairy should be held in her hands.

    The one you like he hates you, this is also a matter of no way, after all, feelings are not controlled by yourself, he doesn't like you, can you still force him to like you? Of course it can't be, so be it, give up on him, don't work hard for a very painful feeling that doesn't exist, it's tiring and it's not worth it.

    You are a little fairy, you deserve a better life, you deserve to be treated better, you will have a better one, and you will have a better future.

    Give up the man who doesn't like you and forget about his feelings, face the future with anticipation and anticipation, let yourself live happily, dress yourself up beautifully, sooner or later you will become a little baby in the palm of someone else's hand, and sooner or later you will find the real one. So, don't be too sad, don't be too heartbroken.

    You have to believe that he doesn't like you, it's not that you don't deserve it, it's that he doesn't deserve it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not a dislike for you, it's probably that what you've done has caused trouble to him. He doesn't want to cross paths with you, and at this time you will definitely feel annoyed and think that it is wrong to like someone. There's nothing wrong with liking someone, it's wrong not to disturb someone else's life because of your own liking.

    It's a beautiful thing to like someone, and you want to know his joys, sorrows, and sorrows. It may be that in the process he knows that you like him, but he shouldn't like you. So he had to avoid you in order to avoid embarrassment, because he didn't know how to face you, and it was not good to reject a girl directly, for fear that you would be too sad.

    It is also possible that you have gone too far and will do whatever it takes to make him like you, and at this time you are obviously disgusted with you. If you like someone, you definitely don't want him to hate yourself, so you don't go too far and don't bother him to the greatest extent.

    My junior high school classmate was like that, she liked a boy in my class, and the two of them played quite well, and the boy didn't know that she liked him. Later, my classmate told another good friend that she liked the boy, but I didn't expect that friend to tell her that she liked him. The whole class knew, and after that, the boy didn't take the initiative to say a word to my classmates, and the two of them were originally good friends, but since then they have become strangers.

    blamed that friend for not being able to control his mouth, so that his classmate's crush was so nowhere to be found. It should be that everyone in the class knew that she liked him at that time, and always made jokes about the two of them, and the two parties felt very embarrassed, and gradually stopped contacting. So liking someone is such a contradiction, not telling him that he is unwilling, telling him that he may not have friends to do it, how helpless.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it's not disgust, at least it's implying that people don't like you, so give up staying away from this boy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not disgusting, but at least it means that he doesn't like you very much, not as much as you think.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I shouldn't say it's disgust! You should go to him and ask for clarification! Otherwise, it's not a good idea for you to guess like that!

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