My boyfriend s family is much richer than mine, and I feel a lot of pressure, what should I do?

You and I are really like, my current boyfriend is quite rich, compared to my family background, his family is really good, but I definitely didn't stay with him because his family was rich, he never said this, and his parents never said it.

However, I'm really under pressure, because the outside world always says that I'm with him because of money, but I really haven't spent much money on him, and the money we both spend for each other is about the same, but since we have established a relationship and met my parents, I have worked harder than before, I think this is an incentive for me, we are together because of love, although I do sometimes have low self-esteem, but this can make me better, your low self-esteem is normal, but you have to think about it, you can allow yourself to have low self-esteem, But no one likes people with low self-esteem, no one likes people with negative energy, including themselves, and they don't like such themselves. That's right, you can only become better, to be worthy of his excellent background, is it wrong for people to be rich, not to mention that because he has money to look down on you, at least prove that your boyfriend really likes you, your love is worth your efforts, people must give themselves appropriate pressure, there will be motivation when there is pressure, pressure can make people progress, and I think that when two people are together, boys must be better than girls, so that the relationship can last longer, and girls are more or less a little worshipfulIf the woman is much better than the boy, the boy will be timid and have no confidence to speak.

Think about it, if his family is very poor, then your pressure should be greater, boys should be a little more capable than girls, so that girls will worship boys, how much need to be worshipped in love, so don't feel inferior, you just need to make yourself a little bit better, don't be greedy for your boyfriend's money, love is fair <>

First of all, I want to tell you my opinion

If you feel that it is suitable, you will be together, and if it is not suitable, you will break up.

I think it all depends on your attitude. You think that their family is rich and you are very stressed, but you think that you have a special talk and have common values, so what else do you have to hesitate about, of course, hold your thighs and not let go; But if you feel that you really don't have any common language and have too different concepts of life between each other, it's better to break up!

I have been with my boyfriend for five years, in fact, I didn't know that their family conditions were good at the beginning, and it was only the third year of junior high school when we first got together. After going to college, I had a lot of free time, so I slowly studied those brands. I used to think that the quality of his clothes was very good, and it was very atmospheric to wear, but I slowly realized that they were all this brand and that brand!

But when I was with him, he never told me how much the dress cost or how much the shoes were, and he respected me very much and cared about me, so when I found out that their family conditions were not bad, I never thought about letting go, but cherished him more.

In fact, it is not difficult to see that your boyfriend is really with you, which means that he values your character and talent, rather than those material things. Therefore, if there is pressure, try to read more books to enrich your spiritual world; Read more dressing guides to make yourself look tasteful; Go to the gym more, not only to have a beautiful body curve, but also to be healthy! Let others know that he's good, but you're not bad either!

Even if you didn't end up together, you at least worked hard and didn't regret it, and you gained a lot along the way!

In fact, there are many couples in life who are like this, the boyfriend's family is really rich, and his family is really a well-off family, some girls will really feel the pressure, I think if the girl will feel the pressure, it means that the girl is really good, very sensible and kind person, in this society, many girls are looking for a rich boyfriend, they will not feel that they will be pressured at all, I believe that you really love this boy, instead of valuing the money in his family.

In fact, I also faced such a problem some time ago, I fell in love for a year, my boyfriend is my uncle's son, my uncle's family is super rich, my uncle and father met when they were children, my family can only be regarded as a well-off family, but my uncle is doing real estate, he opened a company in his own family, and then my boyfriend's grades are particularly good, when I was ready to be with him, I was well thought out, to be honest, I was afraid and inferior, I felt really unworthy of him, the family is so rich, I'm so good, I can find a girlfriend who is much more beautiful than me, much better than me, but he told me that he just likes me, I actually liked him very early, but I don't think I'm worthy of him, but then reason still didn't overcome love, I was still with him, we were really good at the beginning, but gradually I integrated into his circle, it was really good, I felt that my pressure was really high, we were in a long-distance relationship, I started to study like crazy, I must catch up with him, I want to be as good as him, I know that this kind of effort is actually just to make myself better, but I am willing, and then gradually my boyfriend told me, I love you, I love you, you don't have to work so hard, in my heart is the best, during that time I said that I was really tired, I thought about giving up, but love is really not to give up.

Only now did I gradually figure it out, in fact, our relationship is a matter of the two of us, and it has nothing to do with his family, as long as you are happy, but progress is needed, don't feel stressed, I am really proud to have such a boyfriend, I will slowly get better, I will slowly catch up with you, but I will not feel inferior, I will not be stressed, because you are my boyfriend.

In today's society, I think I want to find a rich and handsome boyfriend, and I have a lot of face to pull out! Even if I didn't find it, I feel that the good is not as good as the handsome, the handsome is not as good as the rich, and it is still very important to be rich! If you like your boyfriend, you just like everything about him, including his strengths and weaknesses, and having money is his strength, what's so embarrassing about that!

You may be worried that others will say that you are a sugar daddy, you have taken a fancy to his money, and what people say is terrible, this is jealousy, and if your boyfriend is good, you will be said this and that? Just think about it this way: My boyfriend has a crush on me and doesn't like someone else, so others are unhappy, right?

He said that you are interested in money, why didn't he say that you still tolerate so many shortcomings of your boyfriend! Since it's your own, then enjoy it with peace of mind, and don't care what others do! <>

If you think like this, will you feel better, if you still feel stressed, it's okay, work hard to improve yourself, a good horse with a good saddle, when you yourself become excellent, work hard to become a boyfriend, become a golden boy and girl in the eyes of others, a natural pair, others will also shut up or send words about blessings to you. Letting you improve yourself is not for you to catch up with your boyfriend in terms of money, I don't even know how to make a fortune, and it is impossible to provide you with any way. What I mean is that if you are in school, you can try to make your grades better, study well, deal with people well, and then dress yourself up beautifully, so that your excellence can be seen by others at a glance; Or you are at work, trying to improve your performance, get along well with the people around you, excellent people are the easiest to win the respect of others, when no one can block your light, your boyfriend is especially suitable for you in their eyes.

Pressure is motivation, it can push you to keep moving forward, improve yourself, and when you succeed, your boyfriend will also be amazed by you, don't stagnate, if you are not self-motivated, you are really not sure how long a boy will like her! Fighting, I wish you success!

So you know why marriage should be about the right family, right? The truth left by our ancestors is not unreasonable, but we talk too much about free love in our era, and we think that love can do everything, so we feel that it doesn't matter, anyway, love can win the sky.

Why modern divorce rates.

Is it just because of incompatible personalities, just because people are impetuous? Definitely not, there is also the problem of being the right person, because marriage is originally a union of two families, and there is a gap in everything, will there be no problem in living a life?

A relative of mine married a person with very good economic conditions, although her husband loves her, but her parents-in-law don't want to see her, just because her mother's conditions are too ordinary, even if she uses her own salary to support her mother's family, but her mother-in-law still has opinions.

said that they did not want their daughter-in-law to cause trouble to them when they married their daughter-in-law, but their mother's house was a bottomless pit, and they felt that their daughter-in-law did not contribute anything to the family, and she was just serving her mother's family.

So she walked through the door.

It's a steady stream of problems, all of which are related to the economy, and it seems that there is really a gap, and it is easy to have problems.

You said that your boyfriend's financial conditions are much better than your family's, and it is normal for you to be stressed, and I am also worried that you will not have a good life in the future. Because there is a difference in nature between the rich and the poor.

For example, in terms of consumption, maybe your boyfriend is used to seeing a rich woman who has taste and will clean up, and you are frugal everywhere and reluctant to wear good clothes, then after a long time, he will naturally feel that you are different from the eye-catching woman.

There is also the question I mentioned above about your mother's family, you must know that if you earn more than your boyfriend, then their family will never say anything, but if your boyfriend does not earn more, and from time to time to give a little help to your mother's family, do you think about it, will their family have no opinion?

So from the beginning, if the door is not right, it means that you will have more problems, I hope you can pay attention to it, as long as you feel that you can cope with it in the "wealthy family", and can endure all the problems caused by the gap between the economy, you can rest assured and boldly follow it!

Your boyfriend's family is too rich and she should work hard to improve her abilities when she feels a lot of pressure on her face.

The details are as follows:

1. Maintain a confident attitude.

For many people, a confident attitude does not affect the gap between themselves and their boyfriends, but their inner self-confidence is the most important thing.

2. Maintain economic independence.

At all times, girls should remain financially independent, and don't just because their boyfriend is rich, so they can't work hard to do their own things.

3. Avoid inferiority complex.

In front of a rich boyfriend, there will naturally be some inferiority complex, but no matter how psychologically stressed, you must avoid revealing yourself and maintain your personality, which is the best way to maintain yourself.

4. Enrich spare time.

In addition to the daily love time with your boyfriend, your spare time should also be enriched and your spare time should be improved, so that you can also make your personality independent.

5. Create personal value.

No matter at any time, girls should still reflect their personal value, although their boyfriend is rich, but their own value enhancement is the most reliable thing.

If you really love him, then you can fight with him, you are still young, and you can change your living conditions by your own struggle.

Love (liàn ài) is the act of two people loving each other. There are different definitions in different eras, and the modern definition is the most sincere admiration for each other formed by two people based on certain conditions and the ideal of life in love together, and longing for each other to become their lifelong partners The strongest, most stable and most dedicated feelings.

Manifestations of maturity1: Not arrogant or impatient, I would rather be single and burn rocks, never make do, and absolutely prefer lack to abuse.

2: I can afford to put it down.

3: It is not easy to determine the relationship, but the happiness is generally higher after entering the marriage.

In the eyes of the world, they may not be successful, but they generally have a good mentality, no matter good times or bad, they can deal with it calmly, and can find the joy of life.

How rich is his family? I think you don't have to feel inferior, you have become good on your own, and you don't rely on other people, some things go with the flow, you don't have to think so much. Just be yourself, Duan Ming.

What should come will always come, and what will not come will never come.

It takes the two of you to work hard together, and you also need to be prepared to live a poor life, as long as you work together for the first defeat, some good things will come naturally.