My boyfriend is younger than me, so what should I do if he is immature and unambitious?

I'm also 23, I just feel that your boyfriend is really not suitable for you, and he says that he can give you happiness is actually he wants to give you happiness. Have you ever thought that if you are with him, maybe he will never grow up? It is recommended to separate, if it is separated in a few years, how old are you?

The problem is even greater then. You have to think every day that you have to find a good husband quickly. Can the husband found like that be reconciled?

He can grow up before he grows up, and you start to grow old when you have grown up.

If you go to the society for a few years, you will have this feeling, people have just graduated, this is what it looks like, if you can't accept it, then you can choose to leave...It's not his fault ...You're right, it's up to you to accept ,,, reality, or love?

Love is a very realistic thing.

That's right. Who made you bigger than him?

The burden on your shoulders will definitely be heavy. Look at your abilities and you can lead him to development.

You've given yourself the answer in your mind, so do it. Women sometimes need to be cared for

Let it go! What do you expect him to give you happiness?

mouth. What about practical actions?

If you are reluctant.

Then in the end, it is you who will be hurt.

Now that you know what to do, what else to ask, it's useless for others to give advice.

Boil, boil, boil, boil out of Akipo, haha.

You're so funny.

The boyfriend is immature, some because of personality, and some because there is no pressure in life, so he has to change his life status and slowly make him mature. Let's talk about what to do if your boyfriend is immature.

01 Leave his parents.

The boyfriend is immature, some of them are because they are by his parents' side, his parents manage him too much, they dote on him too much, and he has formed the character of a mother's boy for many years, and he has become a child who never grows up, if you want him to become mature, you have to separate from his parents and let him be independent.

02 Apply for a large company.

The boyfriend is immature, and it is also manifested in lazy work, mostly because the work unit is not strict, more casual, and he has developed his casual habits, so he changes his job and applies for a regular large company, one is to increase his income, and the other is to enhance his self-motivation.

03 Attend more meetings.

If you want him to become mature, you must expand his social reach, take him to classmates or friends' gatherings more, let him see how other men are doing, and if he has more contact, he will slowly change.

04 Take out a loan to buy a house.

The boyfriend is immature, sometimes because there is no pressure in life and no worries about doing things, so I negotiate with him to take out a loan to buy a house and repay the loan on a monthly basis.

1. Have a good talk with your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend thinks you're not mature enough, you first have to talk to your boyfriend and ask him why he thinks you're not mature enough and what you're doing to make him think this way. You need to understand his feelings first, so that you can change yourself well and stabilize your relationship. Because you love him, you must care about his feelings and let him give you a little time to grow and become more mature and excellent.

2. Learn to take responsibility.

You are past the childhood of relying on your parents, and you should face life head-on and take responsibility for yourself. Have the courage to take responsibility for your own mistakes and never look for any excuses! If you want to be mature, you must first have a sense of responsibility.

When faced with difficulties, learn to deal with them calmly, rather than using them as an excuse for failure.

3. Have a firm belief.

If you want to become a mature person, you must first have faith, belief is the driving force of maturity, having firm beliefs, and putting them into action is the key to a person's maturity. Just like Roman. Roland said, "The most terrible enemy is not strong in faith."

Think about your boyfriend, in order not to make him work harder, you must make yourself mature so that your boyfriend will love you more.

4. Learn to like yourself.

Even if your boyfriend thinks you're immature, you have to learn to love yourself, you have to learn to accept yourself, you have to accept yourself calmly, objectively, with a sense of self-esteem and human dignity. In the process of liking yourself, you can know yourself better, play to your strengths, correct your shortcomings, and constantly become mature and perfect. When you become a better person, trust your boyfriend and be deeply attracted to you.

5. Make like-minded friends.

Your boyfriend thinks that you are not mature enough, which may take a hit to your confidence, but you have to learn to be a better person, you have to make some like-minded friends, a person's success can be seen from the people around him, as a mature and successful person, there will definitely be some friends around you who have deep friendships and trust each other. With the help of your friends, you will surely become more mature and confident.

This shows that you like your boyfriend very much, and then around him is to show a more weak and childish feeling, so he thinks that you are not mature enough, this performance is right, if you are mature enough, he will feel uncomfortable, so it is okay to keep the original appearance.

The best thing to do is to let him do your tens, help you improve, teach you how to do things and behave. Communicate more with your friends, and it will improve over time.

Physical immaturity or mental immaturity? If the body is immature, it is recommended to exercise more, eat more nutrients, and eat more papaya protein; Psychologically immature means that you haven't experienced too much and haven't been under too much pressure. If your boyfriend is deliberately provocative, it is recommended to choose to break up.

Mature girls are very steady, talking and laughing, sitting and sitting, standing and standing, saying what you can't say with your mouth, you have to think about it first, pay attention not to speak loudly, speak softly, don't jump when walking, do these basically you are a mature girl, you are a good girl.

Then you won't say, if I mature, I won't need you, just kidding. At home, his parents are spoiled, and he has a boyfriend, and he is not used to you, so what is the use of him!

Tell others that there are early and late maturing, and we belong to the late maturing type.

Everyone's personality is different and their requirements are different. But you can try to learn to mature.

It is common for two people to fall in love together and have conflicts.

If you encounter a conflict, you don't have to find a way to solve it, but you want to break up in anger, it's really not interesting.

Your boyfriend is too naïve and completely inconsiderate of your feelings. Not only will I not coax you, but I will also break up and break up with him.

In the long run, he will become less and less concerned about you. Girls need to be cared for by boys, otherwise they will be too tired.

Sometimes it's really tiring after a long time, why are the injured are women, dear I want to say to you to be strong, ignore him and wait until he regrets it will come to you, sometimes you put down your dignity to keep it but it won't be realized.

The woman I love the most is 4 years older than me, we have been together for 3 years, I have delayed her for three years, at that time I have always wanted to separate from her, afraid of delaying him, all kinds of contradictions, all kinds of pressure, and finally after separation, I came back to the present. I'm asking you from the boy's point of view, I think you have to understand his pressure, together!

Yes、、Such hurtful、Obviously inappropriate、

If you can't stand it, you will share it, and if you can stand it, you will continue!

Since there is no intention! Continue to be reluctant, and the final outcome is also doomed!

People cherish each other in the product, people respect each other in morality, people intersect with each other, people embrace each other in courtesy, people believe in sincerity, and people accompany each other in love. Are there any of these? If you have it, stick to it; If not, let it go when it's time to let go.

With such immature people. After getting married, don't you get divorced every day? It's endless. It's up to you.