Urgent! My boyfriend said that I broke up, how can I get it back? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's really unimaginable for a man to be ruthless in his relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's useless to be anxious, men don't easily say break up with the woman they like, just once, you see you women talk about breaking up every day, don't you live well together every day, just ask men like to say break up? You're out of play、、、 find a new one.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The man changed his mind, and the nine cows couldn't pull it back. What's the point of you staying? He'll be gone one day. It's not that there are no men in the world,..

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't like you either, there is a limit to everyone's patience, especially if you smoke and drink at the same time...I can't describe you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    THESE YEARS ... Girls chasing boys have to happen.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Only 25 points. Is it okay for me to give 20? Thank you so much!

    Appreciate! Let me see from this sentence that you are really trying to face and redeem the love you once had.

    If you really cherish the present, then please cherish your own happiness and get rid of some of the faults that he doesn't like very much, so that he can feel that you are changing for her... Come on!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you feel that he has you in his heart, love him and don't give up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'll do you a favor! I read it carefully and found one thing, which is that you make a mistake in your analysis of the type of love, that is, you have different methods for people with different personalities. Now in the situation, I advise you to wait.

    On the 10th, I said don't call him in the middle, send some concerned text messages, and don't reply if you don't reply. By the way, if he can agree to eat with you again, it proves that he still likes you. People are flesh and blood, think about your own shortcomings, he said you, you didn't take it seriously.

    It's even more important not to smoke or drink that day. Make sure you don't lose control and then persuade yourself. If experience can decide things, do you think you need to try anything now???

    I don't think so, because most of people's fate is still in their own hands. A word to you: we can't control the direction of the wind, but we can adjust the sails, and we can't control things but we can adjust the mood.

    Face what will happen with the most peaceful mind, and believe that anything is possible with the most sincere heart. Then you will succeed. The definition of success is best reflected in love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Little sister, how old are you, what kind of love are you talking about, career, career, career.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Remember to be stubborn and sticky, which will only backfire and annoy them.

    You can first establish an intersection with them again, through a mutual friend gathering, with a good attitude and a self-changing attitude, at least it will not be too embarrassing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Breaking up is a painful thing to do, but if you want to get your boyfriend back, then you need to take some action. First, you need to calm down. Don't try to argue or make him regret his decision.

    Instead, you should give yourself and him some time and space to think. If there are some issues between you that need to be resolved, now is the time to resolve them. You need to think hard about your actions and words to see if they are causing problems in your relationship.

    Once you've calmed down, you can try to bond with your boyfriend. You can write or text him, but don't bother him all the time. Tell him how you feel, but don't blame him.

    Instead, express your love and concern for him and tell him that you want to solve the problem. If your boyfriend is willing to listen to your explanations and is willing to try to start over and lift the mountain, then you can start discussing the problem and finding a solution.

    Finally, remember that it takes time and patience to get a boyfriend back. Don't rush and don't put too much pressure on yourself and him. Believe in the love between you and believe that you can overcome any problem.

    If you really love each other and are willing to work hard to solve problems, then you can surely get your boyfriend back and build a better relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    How to get back a breakup? He was ruthless when he broke up, and it was 100% effective.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I broke up, how should I get it back?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let him feel your tenderness! Whatever he likes, you will become! Communicate more1 Tell him what you care about! Don't be angry and don't speak, this will only make you more and more scattered!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I see a lot of caution is like this, my husband is very busy and doesn't have time to pay attention to the family, one day my wife dies, my husband doesn't know, and in the end my daughter or son hates him and her Lao Tzu, and Lao Tzu is like an enemy, although it will eventually be reconciled, but the price paid is too great in the end! If busyness can be a reason to forget, then why find a reason for everything that happens in the future, just be busy!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My former boyfriend was also cold to me because of his work, and he didn't see each other for months.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    == It's a bit like playing house.。。。 Maybe it's because your boyfriend is too busy at work. You may not be doing enough in terms of thoughtfulness. Think for yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I've always believed that a person can be busy enough to ignore people!! Hey, maybe it's a lot of work pressure, it's a bit of a temper, you should be considerate, you don't talk anymore when he's angry, I'm like that.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My dear, according to your question, you must first find out what the specific reason for breaking up, and then solve it, so that the chance of recovery is relatively much greater.

    In fact, two couples in the process of getting along will inevitably have differences or contradictions, the current situation you are in, as a teacher I am still very able to your mood, in this case, if you want to save the relationship with your boyfriend, you must first analyze why you broke up, find out the real reason for the matter, find out the reason before you can completely solve it, if it is your own fault that leads to the conflict, then you must admit your mistake with the other party in time, if it is a boyfriend who has a problem, It is also necessary to communicate in a timely manner, as long as you find the real cause of the problem, I believe that asking can be solved, I hope my answer can help you, I am always yo if you have a problem [smile] [touch your head].

    My dear, what problems have you encountered, for example, why you broke up with each other, you can talk about it in detail, so that the teacher can better analyze [touch your head].

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It won't taste like that, little sister.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he still has you in his heart, he will continue to pay attention to you, if he doesn't have you in his heart, there is really no you, no matter how you are, it is useless for you, men's endurance is very strong, but once it comes to the outbreak, it will be difficult to recover, he is tired, don't bother him anymore, give him time to rest, you don't do anything now, first find problems from yourself, and try to change yourself, you really change yourself, he will naturally come back to you, even if he doesn't come back to you, your growth, your change, It will be of great benefit to you later in life, good luck!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How to get back after the boyfriend mentions the breakup.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's so unbelievable that her mother was so good that she went to the hospital.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The situation is so serious that I can't promise that it will change, but I just make suggestions.

    I don't think it's possible for you to convince them yourself, so you need to find your relatives, parents and friends to explain to them, to make his mother understand what you really think, of course you yourself say that they won't listen, it's better to let your parents adjust and make sure that something like this will not happen again, I think they will forgive you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    For a man, you can do whatever you want to him, as long as he loves you, but if you are disrespectful to his parents, even if you don't think so, he will be very angry, no matter how much he loves you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since he can't see his mother, then meet other family members, such as his brother, and let people who can talk to their family help to say good things inside, buy something, and ask a friend to bring it to his mother.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The first paragraph: have a good attitude and deal with it calmly.

    The love life between a boyfriend and his girlfriend is very complicated, and sometimes some small problems can cause a breakup. When your boyfriend talks about breaking up, you must stay calm and don't get excited. Try to maintain a calm attitude so that your girlfriend can listen to you when she is more emotionally stable.

    And when your boyfriend is talking, you must pay attention to the euphemism of the tone and the proper wording, so that your girlfriend will have a certain understanding and trust in you.

    The second paragraph: express love and judge the years and prove your sincerity.

    When your boyfriend talks about breaking up, she should also express her love, let her know the depth and sincerity of her emotions, and help her reconsider her decision. Boyfriends can show their sincerity by writing a touching love letter, giving some special gifts, arranging some romantic dates, etc., to let their girlfriend know how much they love her and how much they want to redeem their relationship.

    The third paragraph: change yourself, change the situation.

    Boyfriend digging holeAfter recovering his girlfriend's breakup, he must seriously think about what his problems are and take positive actions to improve his situation. These actions can include realigning one's mindset, improving one's behavioral habits, changing one's daily routine, and so on. Only by really starting from himself and taking practical actions can the boyfriend win the heart of his girlfriend again.

    Through the above three points, after the boyfriend breaks up with his girlfriend, he can try to redeem it, so that the relationship between each other will be deeper under the baptism of time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When a boyfriend hears his girlfriend say that he is breaking up, he will definitely feel very lost and sad. But in the face of this situation, the boyfriend must deeply reflect on whether his actions and words have caused harm to his girlfriend and whether he has not done a good enough job. Only by recognizing one's own problems and being able to make profound corrections can one take action.

    It takes time and patience to get your girlfriend back, and your boyfriend can't talk about love with a blanket of promises, let alone force her to accept his point of view. The boyfriend should give the girlfriend enough time and space to think and reflect after he is willing to listen to his apologies and explanations, instead of constantly disturbing her normal life. In this process, the boyfriend needs to present the best version of himself as much as possible and make the girlfriend feel that he is changed and valued.

    Finally, the boyfriend needs to sincerely express his feelings and sincerity to his girlfriend and tell her that he is willing to make changes and work hard for her. Since you have chosen to redeem, you must be prepared to face all possible outcomes, even if you do not succeed in the end, you need to respect your girlfriend's choice. Boyfriends need to maintain a good attitude and keep learning and talking, so as to become a girlfriend and be willing to choose to return to their side.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The boyfriend said that they broke up, and it was a time of pain and loss. However, if you genuinely want to get your boyfriend back, you need to take positive action. First, you need to calm down and think hard about what just happened.

    Try to understand your boyfriend's thoughts and feelings and find out what caused him to want to break up. However, after talking about your brother, you need to sit down with him and have a good talk. Instead of arguing or blaming him, try to talk about your problems and try to find a solution.

    If you can communicate openly and honestly, you have a chance to rebuild your relationship.

    In addition to communication, you can also show him your change and determination through actions. If he raises specific questions or grievances, you need to think carefully and try to resolve them. You can show your attitude by changing your behavior or habits, such as changing the way you communicate, increasing the investment of time and energy, or showing your love and care.

    These actions can make your boyfriend see the change in you and may make him reconsider your relationship.

    Finally, you need to give your relationship some time and space. You can't force your boyfriend to reconcile with you, he needs to decide for himself if he wants to reconcile with you. Although this time may make you feel uneasy and anxious, you need to believe in yourself and your boyfriend and keep a positive attitude.

    If your relationship is destined to end, then you need to accept that fact and move on. However, if your relationship still has a chance to be saved, then you need to hold on until your relationship becomes stronger and more stable.

    In conclusion, it takes time, patience, and effort to get your boyfriend back. You need to think hard about your relationship and take positive actions to change and improve. If you really want to get your boyfriend back, you need to put in the effort and keep your faith and determination.

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