Love someone she betrayed you, what should you do

Updated on psychology 2024-02-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Good Friend: Life is all about finding love.

    The first is the person you love the most, the second is the person who loves you the most, and the third is the person you spend your life with.

    First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love;

    Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

    How many people will you be in someone else's life?

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is—love his good and love his bad

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    What about you? How many did you find?

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again? This letter is circulating all over the world, I hope it can help you get out of your current mood as soon as possible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dump her, what's the use of keeping this kind of person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I will forgive each other generously, because everyone makes mistakes, so if I can forgive each other, I will definitely choose to forgive.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I would choose to break up with the other person, because betrayal is never forgivable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I will take the initiative to break up with the other person, because I can't accept betrayal in a relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You are the seed of infatuation, there is no way to do it, feelings are very wonderful things, you pay sincerely but feel very wronged, if there is no way to continue, quickly divert your attention, work crazy, stop thinking about everything about her, or start a new relationship again!! Time to help? That's pure!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It must be that you don't love her enough, otherwise as a woman, if you already have a man, it's hard to get another one, so reflect on yourself, buddy!! Don't just care about making money, taking care of the people you love is what you should do more.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How can I quickly forget a person, only know that I love deeply, and hurt deeply, if I have never loved, how can I know the pain after breaking up? Let me know that it is impossible to be friends after a breakup, I want to forget him, I want to anesthetize myself with alcohol, but no matter what I do, it is useless, the only way is to let time fade slowly, but the shadow in my heart will never disappear. Because I really loved.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What is love? Love is a very abstract thing, a feeling, a kind of body taste, a pure reaction of body and mind beyond reality, which affects the whole body and mind and the emotions of joy and sorrow. And the power is enormous, so great that it is often not controllable by reason, or there is no reason to speak of it.

    What does it feel like to love? Love is a thought, like a white cloud drifting in the blue sky. Love is the sun, the wind, the air.

    Love is a heartache, like a trilling sound that tugs at your heart. Love is a wave of feelings, like a quiet and rippling bay. Love is the bright light that can be seen in the night.

    Love is the spring that feels warm in the snow, love is a smiling face, it is satisfaction, it is a new hope, love is everything, it is everywhere, love is reading a good book, you will think, if he can also see how good!

    What does it feel like to be in love? It is pleasant, it is sad, it is intoxicated, it is emotional, it is brave, it is trusting, it is sincere, it is considerate, it is lovesick, it is nostalgic, it is sweet, it is mellow, it is sweet, it is sweet, it is intoxicating, it is happy, it is sacrificial, it is responsible.

    What is love? It is when you think of this person, you will pray for him to be happy, happy and safe, you will want to be with him forever, and when you have to leave, what do you want to leave for him. In the lonely night, thoughts came like a tide, holding a book in his hand but couldn't read it, thinking about whether he had dinner at this time, whether he thought about himself as much as he did.

    Love is to see flowers, want to enjoy with him or her, love is to walk through the cliff and waterside, you will think with a little regret: if two people travel together, what a happy thing! [Love is like this].

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    See if it's your own reason, if it's his reason, then there's nothing to say, if you have more reasons, then try to reconcile with a tolerant heart, if he still loves you, there must be room for redemption, but only this once, and then resolutely let go!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's just one time, then forgive him first, maybe it's a misunderstanding, or there may be another hidden story. If more than three times, go and ask him for an explanation, a satisfactory explanation. If the number of times is very high, then don't hesitate, this person is not credible, try to keep your distance, and slowly time will come to solve everything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it's an emotional thing.

    I will never forgive.

    If something else, I will ask him or her for an explanation, and if the explanation is reasonable, I will forgive.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Will you forgive someone you love for betraying you?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

    Even if you go on like this.

    Not to mention that there will be no good results.

    Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

    Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

    At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

    To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

    Maybe it's easier said than done.

    But all I can say is.

    If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

    Maybe I was like you in the past.

    Time really can change everything.

    Learn to be strong.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the two really have feelings, let's talk about it! If you know that you are wrong, you can stop committing it in the future, and give the other party a chance and give yourself a chance. If you can't tolerate it, forget it, you won't be happy if you are barely together.

    Then you won't be happy with yourself, because of love, so you will care a lot, and it will be very painful It's better to fulfill them, at least until the end to retain your self-esteem If you forgive, you can do without a little sand in your heart, and you can still be together Otherwise, the contradiction will get bigger and bigger

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    We can't ask others what they do. I think as long as I do my best, I can try it, but what can I do after betrayal? Forget the past?

    Is it really that easy to let go of the feeling in my heart?

    Can't we be more tolerant of others?

    Don't worry too much about whether the people around you are sincere to you, as long as you are sincere to yourself, why regret yourself?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless ...... well

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Will you forgive someone you love for betraying you?

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