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Anonymous users2024-02-06A happy marriage has too much impact on the family, on the individual, on the career, and on the offspring. If you want to have a happy marriage, no matter who you are marrying with, there is no other way but to rely on tolerance and support. Only look at each other's strengths, not each other's shortcomings.
Only reflect on your own shortcomings and only look for the good of the other party. To put it bluntly, choosing our spouse is similar to choosing to be reincarnated in the home of our current parents, and it is determined by the fate and karma of the individual. Otherwise, why did you choose your current wife in the vast sea of people?
So be sure to cherish and tolerate this relationship. What's more, marriage is not a one-person affair, it is about children, parents and family. You have to think more about why you found this husband and wife when you started this marriage?
Why don't you like this person now? You could see the good things about your husband and wife now, but why can't you see them now? You have to find out for yourself.
My advice to you is to never get divorced. There are too few cases of happy families who remarry after divorce and unhappy cases compared to unhappy cases. To put it bluntly, after a divorce, no one can necessarily find a better one.
And, it is almost certain that you can ask people who have come before you that your remarried spouse is even worse than you are now. Do you know how much a parental divorce affects a child? You are divorced, and no matter how good food and clothing you are, you can't make up for the lack of affection and care for your children to their fathers and mothers.
The child is your flesh and blood, and after the divorce, forever and ever, there is a piece of him that is missing. There are many children who, after their parents divorce, become inferior, sensitive, vulnerable, or go to the other extreme, with a particularly strong protective mentality, who don't care about anything, hate society, hate parents, hate others, hate another home, and so on. Parents, think deeply.
You ruined your child, can you be happy? You are a wife, and my advice to you is to start by changing yourself. Only if you change yourself, others can change.
People often say that men should be rigid and women should be soft, this "soft" is tolerance, and they must be worthy of the word "soft woman". Help your husband. You should do a good job in honoring your parents, in-laws, loving your family, and taking care of your husband.
Be tolerant of your husband, look at your husband's merits, don't argue about things, and tell him the truth in private when things change and the occasion is appropriate. You can be righteous and tolerant, and you know the truth, as a husband, you will definitely admire you in your heart, and I am very happy to find a suitable wife like you. How can a family like yours come to the step of divorce?
How can you not be happy and happy?Think twice.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Legal analysis: According to the relevant laws and regulations of our country, for the situation of not getting divorced and someone else has children, it can be determined that it is an illegal cohabitation, and the other party can use this as evidence of the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, and can file a lawsuit for divorce with the people's court.
Legal basis: Article 1091 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.
In any of the following circumstances, the innocent party has the right to claim damages if the divorce is caused:
a) Bigamy;2) Cohabitation with another person;
3) Committing domestic violence;
4) Ill-treatment or abandonment of family members;
5) There are other major faults.
Article 258 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China.
Whoever has a spouse and marries another person while knowing that he or she has a spouse shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.
Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation;If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.
In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:
1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;
2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;
3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly been taught;
4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;
5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Hello, this situation must be divorced as soon as possible. It is illegal to have children without a divorce. From the perspective of the degree of violation, there are three situations:
One is to have an improper sexual relationship with others, which leads to pregnancy and childbirth. In such a case, they should be dealt with for violating discipline and violating the Family Planning Law. The second is the period of illegal cohabitation with others, resulting in pregnancy and childbirth.
In this case, in addition to accepting the punishment of violating discipline and violating the Family Planning Law, it is one of the circumstances in which the relationship between husband and wife breaks down, and the people's court will grant the divorce as long as one party files for divorce. The third is bigamy with others, which leads to pregnancy and childbirth. In this case, in addition to the punishment of violating discipline, violating the Family Planning Law, and falling under one of the circumstances of the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, as long as one party files for divorce, the people's court will approve the consequences of divorce.
Bigamy is a crime and should be held criminally liable in accordance with the law. Hope my reply is helpful to you!
If both parties do not agree to raise the children at the time of divorce, then the court will not grant a divorce. Because divorce involves issues such as divorced children and child support, if this issue cannot be resolved, then the judge can only reject the divorce application.
Endure the labor pains and do what you should usually do, such as working hard The long pain of an unhappy marriage is not as good as the short pain, it is only in your twenties, and the road ahead is still long, you have to believe that there will always be someone who knows how to appreciate you!
1. Take your child with you as much as possible.
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