Help find the stories of some people in life who love vanity

"Hermes and the Statuer" writes that the god sends Hermes to the statuer's shop and asks about the price of the statue. satirizes those who love vanity but are worthless.

Hermes wanted to know how much respect he was held in the world, so he turned into a mortal and went to a statuer's shop.

He saw the statue of Zeus and asked, "How much is it worth?" The statue bearer said, "One silver dollar." Hermes smiled again and asked, "How much is Hera's statue worth?" The statue man said, "It's a little more expensive." ”

Later, when Hermes saw his statue and thought that as an oracle and patron saint of merchants, people would respect him more, so he asked, "How much is this?" The statue man replied, "If you buy those two, this one will be spared, and it will be given away for free." ”

The term "Muqiang" usually refers to the psychological tendency of one or both parties in love because of the worship and pursuit of each other's ability, achievements or wealth. This emotion can affect the stability and health of the relationship.

First of all, it should be clear that "Mu Qiang" in love is not completely undesirable. It's normal for people to go for a better life and a better partner, and that's part of love. However, if "Muqiang" becomes the only criterion and motivation, then it may cause some problems.

On the one hand, "Muqiang" can lead to dissatisfaction and insecurity in the relationship. Because in this case, the other person's abilities and achievements become the measure of whether to continue the relationship. In this case, the relationship becomes a transaction, lacking a real emotional foundation, and it is easy to feel tired and lost.

On the other hand, the pursuit of "Mu Qiang" may also lead to some bad behaviors, such as unscrupulous means to pursue a better love partner, excessive vanity, etc.

To sum up, in order to avoid the negative impact of "Mu Qiang" in love on the relationship, it is recommended that when we choose a love partner, we should pay attention to the other party's character, personality and emotional foundation, rather than simply pursuing external material conditions and achievements. At the same time, learn to appreciate the good of the other person, and don't blindly demand and pursue the so-called "perfection". The most important thing is to focus on real emotional exchange and communication in a relationship, and don't see the relationship as a transaction.

1. First of all, we must look at what kind of relationship this vain person has with you.

2. Secondly, it depends on whether you want to persuade such a person or deal with such a person.

3. Furthermore, it depends on whether you hate this person or like this person.

4. If you like this person, you have to get rid of her love for vanity, and if you hate this person, you have to ridicule this person.

Personally, I think the biggest manifestation of vanity is that I am very envious or even jealous of things that exceed my consumption level or purchasing power, but I really want to own it.

For example, a wealthy and highly educated person who wears famous brands every day, goes to opera, drives a fancy car, goes to fancy restaurants and cafes, and that's just his habit, and he takes it for granted every day, and the vanity man does it to show off or satisfy his vanity.

If you do something that costs a lot and you get complacent and want others to notice you and praise you for what you've done, it's basically vanity.

1. Likes to talk about famous relatives and friends.

2. Keen on fashionable clothing and sensitive to Western fashion goods;

The three rolls are gone, hungry, but unwilling to enter low-class restaurants.

Fourth, I don't know how to pretend to understand, and I regret it afterwards;

Fifth, if you don't succeed in what you do, emphasize the objective reasons;

6. Keen pursuit of blockbuster results;

7. Seek only a half-understanding of famous books and famous films, and use them to deal with discussions;

8. Acting strives to be the protagonist, and would rather not participate in the performance than play tricks;

9. Complacent about praise and always fresh in memory;

10. Be enthusiastic about people on the surface and indifferent in the heart, so as to please comrades;

Ten. 1. Looking for a spouse pays too much attention to the other party's appearance and family background;

Twelve bridges, weddings, pomp, and arrogance;

Ten. 3. Love to interrupt the other person's speech during the conversation;

Ten. Fourth, when classmates and friends achieve results, or are better than themselves in some aspects, they feel unhappy or unconvinced.