I ve been working outside for several years, but I don t have a single friend, it s very lonely????

If you feel like a failure, it proves that you haven't failed, and people who know you haven't lost yet, and there is still the possibility of winning.

You've closed yourself off too much. We don't live alone in this world.

Try to find a topic to talk to your colleagues during work breaks, and if you have a colleague who is with you all the way after work, you can have fun with him.

If there is a party with colleagues on the weekend, it will be a good opportunity.

In fact, having said that, making friends in the field is the same as making friends at home Just talk about the word "sincerity", but first of all, you must see clearly whether you want to make this friend "worth" or "not worth".

It's worth --- being able to help you in life and work, and you can talk about what you have in your heart!

It's not worth it--- not only can't share your worries for you, but also plays tricks with you and cheats you out of money!

The basic principles of making friends, in my personal opinion, are as follows:

1: Compare the heart to the heart - people are emotional, you are good to the people around you, they will not turn a blind eye, everyone who pays is basically eager to get something in return, if someone only asks for a return and does not pay such a person, you don't need to interact.

2: Communication has no limits - everyone's emotional exchange is achieved through communication, by understanding others, let others understand you, you will know everyone's hobbies, characteristics, habits, so that you will easily get along with them.

3: Sincere help - helping friends around you who are worthy of help is the greatest concern of being a friend, whether it is successful or not, but you are sincere, they will also be grateful.

The above three points are some of my opinions, if you do this to one person, and you also do this to 10 people, you will feel that everything around you has changed, this is popularity. If you have any other questions, please contact me and I can help you, I will try my best.

Take the initiative to make friends that you think are compatible, generally they will not refuse to associate with you, and after becoming friends, you can't be too casual, you should be a little cautious, pay more attention, and the friendship relationship can last longer.

May you no longer be alone,

Take it easy, praise yourself more, get up and smile in the mirror ten times a day, you have to praise ten people every day (from the heart and just right), the effect is obvious, you will make a big difference!!

Loneliness is a landscape, people who can endure loneliness are the ones who make a difference, and genius is loneliness.

Natural, sincere, confident, funny!

To make friends with others, first learn to be your own friends

I feel the same way you do!

Friends should always keep in touch

You're too autistic. Trust others.

Then go make friends, but be honest with each other.

That's what it feels like to be away from home.

I'm the same now.

Go online when you have time.

Exchange your sincerity for someone else's sincerity!

From your words, you are a person who is far away from home, working alone outside the home or starting a business. You have a strong desire to associate with others and recognize that you are currently abnormal. But you don't have a real reason for this.

Mediocre work is not a reason, and this is what most people are experiencing. I think your autism is the most important reason, so you don't take the initiative to interact with others, and others don't take the initiative to approach you because of your autism. This creates a vicious circle.

Therefore, if you want to change, you must break your own inherent character, make yourself lively and accept others, and the process of accepting others is also the process of being accepted by others. Of course, it's always painful and unaccustomed to breaking something, so go through labor pains – that's what you have to bear. This is the only way to completely change your current situation.

？I just answered a question, that is, he wants to run away from home to work, for her three-year-old son, he is still thinking about his own child, you are upside down with him, homesick, something to give the family a **, right? Ask your relatives and friends how they are, and then the one who said that he was homesick, it was too hard outside, and then he wanted to go home, and then see what the family said, if the family is too poor, you will work outside, there is no way, you want to think about your family, right, but you have paid for the labor, you have done dedication for your family, your family will be very happy, homesick, it is really not okay to buy a ticket to go back and see what is not wrong, and then come back to work in two days,

When you are lonely, think about it, what is good about having friends, you have to spend time, but also spend money, although you have no friends, but you have money, how good, insist on a few days on vacation, you will go home on vacation, how happy, depressed.

There is no goal, no direction, no result. Give yourself a goal, which is a three-year plan or a five-year plan. What are you trying to achieve and try to do it. Wake up every day and see how close you are to your goal. Or maybe it's time for you to fall in love.

Hello stranger, welcome to be my friend! Where are you? I'm in Wuhan, and if you're in the same city, you can get together.

If you're old enough, try having a girlfriend. Or just go home and look for a job near your home. Find a girlfriend.

Try to go to any few friends, choose the one that suits you, people can't live alone. When you're homesick, take a chance to go back and have a look. If you don't have a good mood, you won't have a good work motivation and attitude.

You can read more books, learn some knowledge, strengthen your self-cultivation, participate in spare time activities, increase your self-cultivation, and slowly have friends, first of all, you must believe in yourself.

First fall in love, come to a vigorous love.

Find some friends, or let yourself be buried in work!

Participate in more social activities and make more friends.

The state stipulates that the Spring Festival holiday and other holidays, no matter how busy you are at work, you should go home to see, one to relieve the feelings of your parents, and the other to get the encouragement and help of your parents and relatives, why not?

You also said, in order to survive.

It's not right for children to do this, it's okay to play, men need it.

After you get married, because you are not by your wife's side, someone bubbles your wife, how do you feel? Saying, you're not love, you're just lonely! Don't hurt others and yourself!

Chase anything, play with it, and do it with her if she wants.

I think we in China always say how the Japanese are, so how do many of us in China think so dirty, and how can we say to Japan that we China have a conscience and the Chinese.

She can play with it if she wants.

There is no need to destroy other people's families.

It's not right for you to base your loneliness on ruining other people's feelings.

You can be my mother, you can really do it at such an age.

You have a brain problem, are you playing if someone else has a husband?

I understand your state of mind, this friend! I don't know what kind of job you are working for, if you don't like this job very much, and this job does not bring you a decent income, the loneliness and frustration in your heart will be even stronger! But life is like this, when you didn't choose to work hard at the age of struggle, but chose comfort, then your current situation is the retribution for indulging yourself at the beginning!

Since it is already so, all complaints and remorse are useless, as the saying goes, don't cry over spilled milk, focus on the present and the future! Therefore, I personally believe that your current situation will be difficult to change for a while and a half, but you can't sink negatively, otherwise, you will never be able to get out of the current predicament. What you need to do is to analyze your own strengths and weaknesses, see if you can learn a skill through work, you can no longer live in such a mess, you must cheer up, be cruel to yourself, and force yourself to reserve skills for the future, only in this way can you change the status quo, blindly depressed and hesitant can not solve the problem!

Many people will have such an experience, time will help you, new friends and new lives will have, persevere.

Working alone in the field, lonely want to cry, it seems that you are a very homesick young man, do not go out often, alone outside, food, clothing, housing and transportation are solved by themselves, when you are at home, you have a father, mother, brothers and sisters and you feel very warm and happy, but a person to the outside, in the face of life is not familiar, in the face of strangers, strange places, will feel very uncomfortable, this feeling everyone has experienced, you need to have perseverance and perseverance to overcome the discomfort of being alone, communicate more with colleagues, make a few more like-minded friends, Unite others, help others more, communicate more with family members, and others will treat you well so that you don't feel lonely.

I have been abroad for more than a decade and I understand your situation.

Those who go abroad can quite understand your feelings, just chat with a few casual friends on the dating software.

I want to go abroad. Whether it is possible to teach.

When people come to this world, there will be a lot of helplessness and pain, of course, there is also happiness, joy, etc., but when we encounter unhappy things or are in a depressed environment, the bad emotions will dominate and dominate the shadow of helplessness and pain! Although, there are many people who have a glamorous appearance....In fact, everyone has pain that everyone knows about! Happiness is just a moment in my heart!

Try to look away, work hard to live hard, try to make a few friends, of course, there are too few real friends, you can take your time, you can read a book when you are lonely, listen to **, go out for a walk! It is not easy for a person to live in an unfamiliar environment, but this will also allow us to learn to grow and deal with people, and we can learn lessons from past things by speaking directly and other issues. I used to be too, and now it's better!

Like your character, I am afraid of contacting strangers for fear of offending others, I don't want to go out of the door every day, I don't want to go to work when I have a job, I just like the evening, and at night I don't have to look at the faces I don't like.

It's just that you're too bored, look for a book to read, and connect more with friends.

Then why don't you talk to others more, if you don't dare to talk in reality, you can use the Internet.

Go home and see, if you go on like this for a long time, you will become introverted and depressed, which will have an impact on your physical and mental health.

Your choices determine the outcome of what you do. I don't know if this is a feature.

I'm like you, I've been away alone for eleven years, sometimes I'm lonely, especially during the holidays, I'm very depressed, helpless, let's talk about it.

What are you living for? What harm does it do to society if it dies?

There is actually fun in being alone, but you don't realize it.

There are a lot of people like you, and I'm still like this when I'm so old.

If you really can't do it, go home, you don't have to be outside.