What if my mom wants to chase my grandma away?

Updated on society 2024-02-29
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Undoubtedly, you are a good child with heavy feelings, rest assured that grandma will not go to your uncle's house so easily, your mother is just angry and said impulsive words, your grandma went to your uncle's house like this, your mother will definitely be afraid that your aunt will have ideas, and your grandma will not go to your uncle's house because of your mother's words, you think, if it was better to be at your uncle's house than in yours in the past, how could you quarrel with your mother many times and not leave. Children, don't pay too much attention to these quarrels and inexplicable contradictions between adults, you must know that these are the original face of life, and there are many family ties that are slowly rooted in constant quarrels, which is a way for your mother and grandmother to adapt to each other. Relax and sleep, have a good night's sleep, and have a good dream!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on what your family is like...

    1.How many children does your grandmother have? If you are talking about your uncle except your father, it is not your mother who has the final say, but your father and your uncle.

    The two of them discussed. I think that's when your dad should stand up and say something. No matter how big the mistake is, grandma is also an old man.

    As the saying goes, the mistakes of two kinds of people are understandable: the mistakes of the elderly and the mistakes of small children.

    2.How does your family arrange to raise the elderly? Is it taking turns to take care of them?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You go to your uncle's house with your grandmother.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ask her if she wants you to do the same to her in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello dear! If you do something wrong, you have to admit your mistake and ask your mom to forgive you. If it's not good for you, call the police and let the police solve it.

    It is illegal for parents to evict their children from their homes. Parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children; Children have an obligation to support their parents. Legal basis:

    Article 26 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Parents have the obligation to raise, educate and protect their minor children. Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them. Article 37: Parents, children, spouses, and so forth who bear the guardian's child support, alimony, or maintenance expenses in accordance with law shall continue to perform their obligation to bear the burden after the people's court has their guardianship qualifications revoked.

    Article 1067:Where parents do not perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support. Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children. If the parents fail to fulfill the obligation to support them, the child who is a minor or who is unable to live independently has the right to demand maintenance from the parents.

    It is convenient for you to tell me in detail why your mother kicked you out, and perhaps I can help you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I understand how much you miss your grandmother and how you want to see each other. Communication is a very important step when dealing with questions with mom about seeing grandma. Here are some suggestions that I hope will help you and your mom solve this problem:

    1.Open communication: Talk openly with your mom about how much you miss your grandma and your desire to meet. Express your feelings and emotions and let your mom understand your inner needs.

    2.Understand your mother's concerns: Try to understand why your mother won't let you see your grandmother. It may be for safety, health, or other reasons, and mom may have her concerns and concerns. Respect and listen to her point of view.

    3.Provide solutions: Work with moms to meet the needs and concerns of both parties. Consider arranging a call, writing a letter, sending a gift, or developing some other way to keep in touch with your grandma.

    4.Seek a compromise: Try to find a compromise with your mom to find a mutually acceptable solution. Perhaps a short, safety-and-health meeting plan could be proposed to alleviate concerns on both sides.

    5.Seek help from a third party: If you have difficulty communicating with your mother, you can seek help from other relatives, friends or family members. They may be able to offer support with mediation and understanding.

    In the end, communication and understanding with the mother is the key to solving this problem. Try to be peaceful and respectful and find common solutions to maintain your bond with your grandma and your own emotional well-being.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    At noon today, I was staggering with my colleagues, and I received my brother's ** when I was talking about joy, and I habitually hung up and then replied to a text message. Unexpectedly, my brother's reply was "Grandma is gone". I walked out of the private room and called back the ** I had just hung up, and there was a quick response on the other end, "When did you leave?"

    I asked this symbolically, as if subconsciously or more ceremoniously, there should be such a question. My brother briefly described the general experience, and I just hung up with an "oh" and hung up**. No sadness, no tears, I continued back to the private room.

    But for some reason, I slowly had an indescribable feeling in my heart, like a plastic bag on my head, the air in the bag was gradually disappearing, and the feeling of tightness in my chest slowly appeared.

    I really don't know, at this time, as a grandson, what should I do when I face the news of my grandmother's death, painful and sad? But tears come from feelings, and sadness comes from the bottom of my heart. I really don't have that.

    My grandmother's name is Pang Xiuzhen, and her name is not something I knew by heart when I was a child, but I overheard it from my second uncle when I visited my grandmother during the summer vacation of my sophomore year.

    There are not many so-called intergenerational relatives and grandchildren between me and my grandmother, my grandmother gave birth to 8 children, 7 grandchildren, 6 grandchildren, I am not the eldest grandson, and my father is not the child who lives with my grandparents. Therefore, the large number of children and grandchildren seems to make this old man accustomed to the birth of a child, and with the opportunity to meet very often, my grandson has not received much care and love. The word "grandma" has always been an elder that I should respect in terms of etiquette, not a close relative who loves me.

    Grandma is a rat, 94 years old, and at night I heard my father say in ** that grandma walked quite peacefully and was not very painful. In fact, during the summer vacation, my grandmother had been diagnosed with advanced lung cancer, and the doctor's judgment was to hold on for a year at most.

    I have always believed that the unbearable weight in life is not that your parents will leave you one day, but that you know that your parents are away from you but you can't do anything about it. I can't imagine a doctor standing in front of me and telling me this kind of news in the future.

    At this time, I felt more sorry for my father, and I wanted to comfort him in **, but it was difficult to find the right words to comfort an old man who was over sixty years old. When I was bearing the news of my mother's imminent death, I didn't expect to wait for this day so soon, and I didn't know if my father was ready. However, I think that my father will still show his strength to outsiders and his gray hair to his family, just like his grandfather did when he died.

    As the saying goes: "There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure", grandma, in my heart, has long meant to maintain the emotional bond of our family. Now that this most powerful bond is gone, I wonder if this family will still be as united as before.

    May you be happy in heaven, my grandmother

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