If the husband and wife meet once a year when they are separated, will the relationship fade?

No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is at the beginning, once they have been separated for a long time, various problems will arise, just like the popular saying "companionship is the most affectionate confession". Therefore, sometimes try not to be in a different place for too long, because both men and women will be lonely, once lonely, there will be all kinds of unpredictable problems, not everyone can endure loneliness! Therefore, if both parties are often by each other's side, this deepens each other's feelings and understands each other better, which also makes the future go further!

The current society is not as conservative as before, so no matter whether it is a man or a woman, they will not wronged themselves, if you can't get it, it is likely to look outside, so, don't give such an opportunity, try to choose to be together, there is really no way, and choose to be separated for a short time, not too long.

After the husband and wife get married, they should rely on each other for a long time, especially the young couples in their thirties and fifties who are thirty, forty or fifty years old, if they are separated for a long time, they will become strangers when they meet once a year, and they will not recognize each other. People are high-level emotional animals, only long-term pleasure, feelings can be sublimated, long-term separation of the two parties without attraction feelings will be weakened. In many divorce cases, the separation of husband and wife leads to conflicts in about 70 percent.

In order to keep the marriage fresh, I do not approve of the long-term separation of husband and wife.

No, the premise is that your relationship is incomparably deep, such as my father and mother, who see each other at most twice a year, and the relationship is still very good.

Two people have been separated for a long time, and the relationship will definitely fade, even if they call and contact every day, people's feelings can only be generated by communication, and they can't see each other every day, in case there are other good relationships around them, it is normal to fade, not only husband and wife, but also good friends who have not been in contact for a long time, and friendship will also be weakened, is it not good for your children to go to school abroad? Why do you have to come back? I felt that whether I came back or not, it was best to be a family of three.

My husband has been working in the field for four months, these four months a month home for three or four days, I found that I really don't love such days now, no one cares about no one hurts, this month because the unit is busy no time to go home, in fact, when he left, he said that he was there to develop for a period of time and called me to go over, but now I want to go to his place to work and live with him, he did say that he did not let me go for various reasons, I think he is now a director and thinks that I will drag my feet in the past, cause trouble for him, I think our relationship has faded, Not to mention the once a year? I think their relationship will definitely fade.

There are too many uncertainties in the workplace, and I recommend not trying it lightly.

Since I am not only a career planner, but also a counselor, I also accept some emotional help.

This time last year, I did emotional counseling for a middle-aged male client.

His troubles at that time were that he was separated from his wife in a long way, and then he always suspected that his wife was outside and wanted to change his job, but due to various factors, he could not achieve it in the short term, so he was very painful and came to seek help.

I analyzed his situation, psychologically he did not have the influence of his original family, mainly because the problem of husband and wife in a different place caused his emotional anxiety, and even some obsessive thinking symptoms, and after a long time, he also had a tendency to be depressed.

It varies from person to person, some couples will have beauty in the distance, and some feelings will become weaker, but I think the most important thing is communication, long-distance couples can not see each other for a long time, can not be by each other's side, so what to rely on to maintain each other's feelings, the only way is to strengthen communication, but fortunately, the choice of communication is developed, in addition to traditional chat typing, you can also voice can **, very convenient, you can hear each other's voice, see each other's people, even if you quarrel and get angry, you can also communicate calmly face to face, not a cold war or sending some cold text. If you don't understand each other, then the natural relationship will also fade, so if you are really forced by life and have to separate, you must also jointly maintain the feelings and marriage of two people, after all, it is not easy to walk together, marriage is not easy, and you can do it and cherish it.

The separation of husband and wife should be a last resort, most of them because of work reasons, such as serving soldiers, such as scientists and staff of military enterprises with strong secrecy, such as employees of enterprises whose work is of a mobile nature...Wait a minute. No one wants to live separately, everyone wants their wives and children to live on the kang, and the family lives with me. Most of them are separated from each other and only see each other once a year.

I will often work outside, and I am not worried that the relationship between husband and wife will fade, but more of a Hongyan handing books, hiding my thoughts deep in my heart, waiting for the moment of meeting to tell each other. We husband and wife have a solid foundation of love, both love each other, love children, and love family. Most employees live separately before they retire.

People will get used to it, and when a person is used to being comfortable, he will naturally not want to be managed and restrained by others. Two people live separately, and it is natural for their relationship to fade. However, although some couples have been separated for a long time, their feelings are the same as before, and most of these couples are more rational than emotional.

But how many of them are there? If two people have been separated for a long time and get together again, we can take some measures to warm up the weakened emotions. For example, going to a movie, going to a restaurant that two people often eat when they are in love, and other romantic things.

Or take the children and a family of three out to play, and you will always find some feelings back.

If the two of them really care about this marriage, even if Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu can miss each other for so long.

My wife and I have been separated for more than 20 years, and we meet every year for the Chinese New Year and Children's Day, and the relationship between husband and wife is still deep.

It will definitely be light, not to mention a year, it will be light once a month.

If you live separately for a long time, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife. Because in this process, both parties will be busy, so gradually everyone does not like to chat. And after a long separation, there won't be too many common topics between the two people.

In order to promote the relationship between two people, everyone can also give each other a small surprise appropriately. <>

Many couples may be separated for a long time due to work, and in this process, the number of times the two parties see each other is relatively small, because everyone is very busy with work. After a long time, it may also affect the relationship between two people. For people who are busy at work, they may want to take a good break after work.

So at this time, they have very little time to talk to their partners, and they are not willing to spend too much time communicating with their partners, so there will be a lot of conflicts between the two people. <>

In this process, everyone may not have too many common topics, because the circle in which two people live is different. Therefore, the relationship between two people will also face very huge challenges. Therefore, many people don't like long-distance relationships very much in the process of falling in love, because in their opinion, long-distance relationships cannot last long.

Therefore, in order to promote the relationship between two people, everyone can also give each other a small surprise. When the other party celebrates their birthday, everyone can also buy a small gift for each other. <>

Everyone knows that it can take a lot of effort to run a good marriage. Therefore, at this time, everyone should also learn to understand the thoughts of the other half, and at the same time, they must communicate frequently. Although I am very busy at work every day, if I don't communicate, it may also affect my relationship.

At this time, no matter what kind of topics everyone says, it may shorten the distance between the two people. And in this process, it will not make everyone's feelings change much, and at the same time, it will not make the other party feel very strange.

It will affect the relationship between husband and wife. Separation between the two places is the most testing of the relationship between husband and wife, even if they only see each other once a week, this is only equivalent to a weekend couple, which has a very strong impact on the relationship.

Yes, the frequency of seeing each other once a week is a bit too little, and the couple will slowly become very cold until the last two people divorce.

If the other party loves you very much, cares about you very much, is very single-minded, and will not go out to fool around, then whether you two see each other or not, he will be very loyal to you, and there will be no change in the relationship between the two of you.

Couples who live separately will have a weaker and weaker relationship. Because the husband and wife are a family after they get married, then the two people live apart for a long time, and the other party is not around when they need each other. Then this feeling will slowly become weaker and weaker with the passage of time.

This is true of any relationship, if the relationship between two people has no way to interact often, there is no way, and they often stay by each other's side, then what is the difference between being single and single? This kind of feeling will slowly become more and more indifferent with the changes of the people around you over time, and even disappear.

Just imagine, two couples living separately, they work and live in their respective places, so they are in contact with their own networks, they often contact and meet colleagues at work, chat with each other and care about friends, if there is a problem, their partner will not appear by their side for the first time, when they need someone to accompany and need comfort, their partner can not appear by their side, and slowly they no longer need each other, and the other party will no longer give themselves any warm feelings. Then two people feel like they have come together for the sake of interests, and slowly if there are other people around them, then it is likely that the relationship is not only getting bigger and bigger, but it is likely to deteriorate. Although some couples who live separately may usually communicate more through WeChat voice chat, this kind of chat is incomparable with real companionship, and it will still make people feel lonely. Especially for women, if a woman's husband is not around after marriage, then she needs some places in her life when she needs a man to give some care, but her husband can't take care of her, then, when she needs to give a sense of security, her husband is not around, no one can rely on him, he will become more and more independent, and maybe this marriage makes him feel that there is no temperature, then the relationship between the two people will become weaker and weaker.

In the same way, a man can have a wife to wait when he returns home, accompany two people to eat warmly, romantic candlelight dinner, and two people to live a fireworks day and eat alone. If you only compare the shadows, then I think this marriage will gradually become meaningless. Therefore, I think the feelings of separation between the two places will become weaker and weaker.

Feelings only get better and better when the memories of two people's lives fill up in marriage and fill each other's memories. A marriage recalls that there is no story, no touching, no companionship, then this marriage makes people feel cold, it makes people feel no warmth, then the relationship between two people may eventually come to an end.

Therefore, it is better for couples who live separately to have one of them go to live and work in the other person's city. Sometimes it's not impossible to change jobs in another place, maybe it's not stable, but if you work hard, you can also have a good job, then you can also make your marriage more stable, so you want couples who are separated from each other. It is better for one side to compromise its own interests and live in the other city.

The relationship between husband and wife who are separated from each other will gradually fade, and they will eventually become strangers if they don't see each other.

Not necessarily, some will cherish each other more because of the separation of the two places.

There is a lot of room for a man's development, and the easiest and most effective way to want him to change his mind is to turn his attention to yourself. The more you keep an eye on a man's whereabouts every day, the easier it is to pick a bone in the egg. The best control is not control, you live your life well, put on makeup every day, read a book, buy flowers once a week to decorate the room, and settle the children to go to the gym and have a meal with your girlfriends on the weekend.

The more exciting your life is, the more attractive you are as a person.