In life, are there really a lot of girls hoarding spare tires, or do too many men mistakenly think t

Updated on psychology 2024-02-25
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In the perspective of the girls I have been in contact with so far, not everyone likes to keep a spare tire, and I think this phenomenon may be due to too many men misunderstanding some of the behaviors of girls and thinking that girls are saving spare tires.

    I found that nowadays it is not only girls who are easily deceived by some articles on the Internet, but even boys are often unable to distinguish whether the articles on the Internet are true or not, or whether there is any reference meaning, this situation I think is very incredible, what kind of attitude does a person have towards you, can't you get the answer from daily interactions? Why do you need to use the tips given to you by some unmasked people on the Internet to tell if this person is real to you?

    And nowadays, I think there are a lot of boys who actually don't have a sense of security in their hearts, so when a person treats him a little better, he will be flattered by it, and then he begins to fall into a state of hot and cold or suffering from gains and losses, and he forces a boy to become a girl.

    In general, although it is not that no girls will like pure spare tires, but in the eyes of the girls I contacted, in fact, most girls do not have much energy to maintain too much affection, so when they face some people who are not interesting or do not like it, in fact, they have a lot of performance are very obvious boys, just need to observe what these girls say and what the actions mean, it is easy to know what they think.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hoarding spare tires is just the behavior of a few girls, don't "overturn a boatload of people with a stick", sometimes it's just a boy who thinks too much, don't doubt her casually, if you trust each other, you won't have such thoughts.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think there will be such a thing, after all, in a relationship, it's a matter between two parties, and if it's not a real relationship, there's no need to continue.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think that in real life, there should be girls who will use a boy as a spare tire in the process of falling in love, but I believe that such girls are still a minority, so I still hope that boys don't think too much in the process of falling in love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Nowadays, there are many girls who are honored to raise a spare tire is vanity, because there are too many boys now, and there are many good girls, but they can't meet them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it is a girl who saves a spare tire a little more, because if the girl is willing to save a spare tire, she will naturally send some signals to make the boy have an illusion, and the boy's thinking usually does not think too much and unconsciously makes a spare tire.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Things like this feel a bit messy. These things often happen between men and women before they get married! How to deal with these things varies from person to person! It's good to like it, don't think about it so much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are indeed a lot of girls who have done such things, so we really need to understand what kind of person the other person is, and if we really think of ourselves as a spare tire, then we should leave earlier.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Girls like to save spare tires, which is not right. The practice of spare tires is to settle for the next best, not true love, just a helpless choice! At the same time, this practice is also a kind of hurt to feelings!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is built on trust! If a girl has a spare tire, it is a betrayal and irresponsibility of feelings! Such a girl is not worth dating! Boys can't be spare tires, that's not true love!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The reason why girls like to find a spare tire for themselves is also because there are too many boys who pursue them and don't know how to choose, and because they lack a sense of security about their feelings, they are still worried that once they break up, they will not have a home, so they will find a complementary candidate for themselves in this case. The reason why the spare tire is used to describe it is because this situation is very similar to a normal car, although there is no hidden danger on the surface, but if there is no spare tire, it seems to lack safety guarantees, which is a kind of worry, but because it is not applicable emotionally, and it will cause some unnecessary emotional disputes.

    Normal love does not need a spare tire, but if a girl always has a lot of suitors, and they are very good, and they don't know how to choose, they will make girls picky, and they are reluctant to let go of this or that, and in the end they can only try one by one, but in this process, girls are worried that because they have established a relationship with a boy, they will let others go, so the girl did not promise someone to be his girlfriend, only suitable for everyone to maintain an ambiguous relationship, In order to test which person is more suitable for themselves, this situation is only when the girl initially has a spare tire, but as time goes by, this situation will become more and more intense, and some girls will even choose to accept one of the boys, but do not give up the other spare tire, which involves the single-mindedness of the relationship.

    Some girls are naturally more attentive and have good capital, so they begin to use the spare tire to satisfy their vanity, and because the spare tire is always attentive to themselves, it can also allow girls to enjoy the benefits of impermanence, so girls raise the spare tire with peace of mind.

    Judging whether a girl has a spare tire is very simple, you just need to observe what the girl usually does, if the girl always disappears suddenly, and in the case of her own economy does not allow, she still buys more expensive things at every turn, it means that the girl is ambiguous with other people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Probably to avoid finding the object yourself. Originally, the term was related to the spare tire of the car, and the role of the spare tire was only to exist as a precaution.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    They are afraid that their feelings are not strong, and they will be very sad after being dumped, which is also to prove their charm. From the word spare tire for a car.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A normal relationship should be that both parties should stand on an equal footing and manage the relationship together. If one of the parties is used as a spare tire or voluntarily as a spare tire, it makes the relationship no longer normal. In fact, in daily life, if you meet a boy who is willing to be a spare tire or a boy who voluntarily offers to be a spare tire, this is a terrible thing.

    People who are willing to be spare tires are terrible. This is because both men and women, when they are willing to be spare tires, have abandoned their dignity completely, and even self-love has been left behind. How can a person who does not love himself have the ability to love others well?

    Therefore, when a person is willing to be a spare tire to love someone, it can feel like there is an unstable factor around them, and it is not known when it will erupt.

    It is also very undesirable for a boy to voluntarily offer to be a spare tire. Men are extremely possessive creatures, and if they voluntarily act as spare tires, they will only be a means of coaxing women. If this kind of boy can't bear it anymore, he will do something like a shot and two and break the net, which will put women in danger, so women should stay away from this kind of person.

    Only normal feelings can be long-lasting, no matter which party acts as a spare tire is not a desirable thing, in short, only people who know how to love themselves have the ability to love others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because these boys are very half-hearted and know how to coax girls with rhetoric. As long as he likes a certain girl a little, he has to get to know that girl regardless of whether he has a girlfriend or not.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because this kind of boy may be very attractive and easy to attract bees and butterflies, but he may have a bad character, so he will maintain an ambiguous relationship with many girls. In order to fall in love with him, these girls did not hesitate to make spare tires.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In this way, it is necessary to divide the situation, one is that such boys are more popular with girls, and they naturally like them more; There is also a kind of boys who are naturally more attentive and like to mix in the girls' pile, and there will be more girls relatively speaking.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because these boys have higher emotional intelligence and are more thoughtful about things, they will find a lot of spare tires for themselves to avoid being single in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because such boys are scumbags, they enjoy the feeling of the stars holding the moon, are proud of how many spare tires they have, and never take their feelings seriously.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It shows that this kind of boy doesn't really like girls, just to have fun. So he had long been ready for a breakup.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because he may think that one of them will not agree to him, he will prepare a few others, so that he will have a better chance of getting off the list.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Although in relationships, in terms of communication, men and women are becoming more and more open, many times, women are misunderstood.

    For example, if a man has talked about 5 girlfriends, others will think that the man is very powerful, very good, and very attractive, but if it is a woman and has talked about 5 boyfriends, some people will think that the woman has problems in her private life.

    To a certain extent, this is also a double standard, but I think that everyone has the freedom to pursue love, the freedom to pursue happiness, women can be brave for love, women can also pay for love, and others should not be discriminated against.

    A woman is originally an independent individual, and women have the freedom to choose how to choose love. And now women are very independent, can make money and support their families, and can live a good life, and it is not our men's turn to point fingers at their lives, because we are not qualified.

    People who care can only say machismo, if a man has not done it himself, why should he ask a woman to do it? I think in the relationship, it is more important to love each other, and in the future, as long as my wife loves her, I will not mind this problem, and the two of them will manage their marriage well, which is the foundation of happiness. What I say in my heart is that men should not be obsessed with this issue, because it is not good for themselves, and the most important thing is to be able to live a good life.

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