Do you agree with Big S s concept of fertility? Are you optimistic about Big S s marriage this time?

I agree with Da S's concept of fertility, "Don't have children because of ridiculous reasons such as inheritance, raising children to prevent old age" I think this sentence is very good, because I believe that the vast majority of people in the current society have children for the sake of inheritance and to prevent old age. Although the economy is now very developed and people have received a higher level of ideological and political education, China's concept of childbearing is deeply rooted.

Prosperity is what every family wants, the idea of preference for sons over daughters is a bad habit left over from the ancient patriarchal society, so until now, except for some young people, grandparents and parents with older grades still have the idea of having many children and grandchildren, and still hope to give birth to a child is a boy, and will also have a lot of family problems because of whether the child is a boy, resulting in the separation of many couples, I hope that this sentence of Da S can give them inspiration and self-reflection and thinking.

In my opinion, having children is a sacred cause, because it is to bring a new life to this world, and to bring them to know, to integrate, to change the world, to create and realize their own value, not to let them continue the bloodline of this family, to provide for their old self.

It is not important to have a child, the most important thing is how to train a child to grow into a useful person, how to train him to be a flesh-and-blood person, if you only regard giving birth to a child as a task, then the child's growth is like a machine, because you have arranged his future path clearly, and turned family affection into the shackles of moral kidnapping, once the child does something unsatisfactory, it will give you an unfilial hat.

Everyone has their own different opinions, but I still agree with her concept of fertility, children are not only born to raise enough, but also need love If there is no complete family and the love of parents, I think there will still be some missing.

I agree with Da S's concept of fertility, and it is the same as my concept of fertility, the elders in the family are all interested in having a second child and giving birth to a son, but I don't want to have a second child, I think that my child was born not to serve me, I am to complete the growth of another life.

I agree with it, now that women in this society have slowly begun to become independent, don't imprison themselves because of some traditional thoughts, give birth if you like children, and don't do something for what others say.

Everyone has different opinions and opinions on the matter of childbirth, but most women's senses are similar, but the most important thing is to live happily on their own.

Everyone has their own ideas, he said that he should not raise children to prevent old age because of inheritance, such a reason, indicating that he is rich now, he may feel that he can support the elderly if he has money, so different positions will have different views.

Agree, everyone has their own attitude towards life, we just need to respect other people's choices and live our own lives, I think this is the most important thing. Don't always care too much about other people's feelings.

I think what Big S said is very right, because in this world, everyone has their own life, we can't have children because of the concept of the older generation, but if we want, we can't just be born for others.

Recently, Da S's concept of fertility has been on the hot search on Weibo, and Da S chatted with Xiao S and Aya about the question of whether to have children in "We Are Real Friends", and talked about his own concept of fertilityShe believes that having a child is not for the sake of inheritance, nor for some ridiculous reasons such as raising children to prevent old age, and she also said that if you really want to take care of a child, you can adopt it.

And my friend Aya thinks that having children is actually a very good thing. Actually, Da S and Aya's statements are not contradictory, taken together, it is the freest and most independent conception of fertility for a contemporary woman! In the latest issue of "We Are Real Friends", Big S and his sisters talked about the concept of fertility, and Big S bluntly said that you should never have children because of the absurd reasons of inheriting the family and raising children to prevent old age, if you don't take due responsibility, it will be a harm to both adults and children, and my sister Xiao S said that this kind of thing is just natural, and Aya thinks that having children is also a good thing.

Whose view do you agree with?

Education experts believe that the parent-child relationship is divided into three dimensions, one is the role, the second is the boundary, and the third is the model.

What role do parents play in a child's life? The most basic level is nurturing, which is to provide a basic living condition for children; The second is to regard raising children as a parent-child responsibility; The next level is parent-child education, at this level parents usually consider the cultivation of their children, what kind of person they will become in the future, and this also requires parents to give more material security. There are also some families who confuse each other:

Children need to take care of their parents and play the role of adults. "Second, parents and children must recognize the boundaries between parents and children, and parents and children are two separate individuals. Third, parents and children must find a healthy way to get along with each other.

In many families, there is a relationship of control and obedience between parents and children, and parents make various demands on their children and hope that their children will meet their expectations. Worse still, they reach a relationship of mutual opposition.

A healthy parent-child relationship should be to treat each other as collaborators: we are parents for the first time, and children are also children for the first time, and everyone has shortcomings, and both parties invest time and energy together to promote growth. For a long time, many parents defined a good child as well-behaved and obedient; To put it bluntly, it is not to make trouble for yourself, and then to meet your own expectations.

Few parents value the happiness their children bring to them, realizing that they are actually a continuation of our lives.

I still agree with it, because having a child is a major decision, and being born is a lifelong responsibility, don't have a child for others or some traditional concepts, everything must be prepared by yourself.

Wang Xiaofei and Da S have two children, one is a daughter, the other is a son, in 2014, the daughter Wang Xiyue was born first, and now she is eight years old, in 2016, the 39-year-old Da S gave birth to a second child, the son is called Wang Xilai, and now he is 6 years old. After a few years of marriage, the two gave birth to 1 son and 1 daughter, and their lives were very happy. In fact, there were not only two babies in their lives, they were pregnant with three children in total, but only two children were born, and the other child did not come into this world by fate.

In 2018, Da S was actually pregnant with his third child, and he also hoped to give birth to this child, but he didn't expect that the child's development was not particularly good, so in Xiangxiaozhi's helplessness, the couple could only choose to stop the child's pregnancy. Because after many examinations, the doctor found that there was no way to detect the heartbeat of the embryo, so there was no way to stay. I probably feel very sad about this matter, after all, it is his child, but there is no way to change it, because the child's development is not good, and he can't be forced to stay.

Although it is said that many women will have children and will go through this process, it is really a very painful process for Big S. Because everyone knows that in order to maintain his figure and appearance in Shenlu, Da S has been a vegetarian for many years, and he has not eaten meat for a long, long time. But as we all know, if you really want to have a baby, the body must need to be recuperated, if you are careful to eat vegetarian all day long, there is not much nutrition for the baby, and it is not easy to get pregnant.

That's what it looks like, in order to be able to give birth to a safe and healthy baby, so he began to eat meat, and he really made a lot of fortune during pregnancy.

As of July 6, 2021, Da S has given birth to two children.

On April 2, 2014, 37-year-old Xu Xiyuan was pregnant with "Little Pony" for Wang Xiaofei, and it is expected to give birth at the end of April; At half past three in the afternoon of April 24, Xu Xiyuan successfully gave birth to a 6-pound baby girl by caesarean section, and revealed in a statement that her daughter "is a beautiful long-legged girl"; On May 7, Xu Xiyuan revealed on Weibo that her daughter's name is Wang Xiyue;

On May 24, Xu Xiyuan and his wife, mother-in-law Zhang Lan and other families held a full moon banquet for their daughter Wang Xiyue in Taipei 101; On August 3, Wang Xiaofei held a 100-day banquet for her daughter in Beijing, attended by parents of both sides; In October, Wang Xiaofei showed off her daughter's ** on Weibo.

On May 14, 2016, Xu Xiyuan gave birth by caesarean section, and her son was named Wang Xijiu, nicknamed Xijiu.

Wang Xiaofei posted the second baby:

On May 29, 2016, Wang Xiaofei posted a recent photo of her second son, **, Wang Xiaofei's son is sleeping with his eyes closed, very quiet.

Wang Xiaofei wrote: "My son is very regular every day, drinking milk every four hours, and crying when changing diapers. It turns out that the blood type is the same as my wife's, and she is very calm (Yue'er is the same as me). The name is Wang Xijiu, and the nickname is Xijiu, which is quiet and delicate like bamboo. ”

On the morning of June 13th, Da S's studio posted a warm photo of Da S and his son holding hands, revealing that Wang Xijiu was full moon, and Da S also ** and shouted "Love is everything".

On January 22, 2017, Da S made his son's front public for the first time. Big S wrote: "Only this once! My Prince Charming! I don't want to see it when I grow up! ”

Although Big S and Little S are sisters, their personalities are very different, precisely because of their original families.

The reason for the creation of their respective personalities, the personalities of the two people are completely different, the big S is a very strong person, living himself as the eldest sister, and the little S is very weak, but he is very upright, his character has created their attitude towards life and marriage, the big S is very strong in the face of marriage, and the small S is very humble, and different personalities have also created different lives.

Big S and Little S are biological sisters, their original family is not very happy, their father likes to get drunk and beat people, since when he was a child, Big S began to protect the women in the family, and then lived as a big sister, she will always protect the girls in her family, Big S was forced to become a woman, she knows that she must know how to resist when she encounters things, and she has to carry all the things when she encounters jujube cores. <>

Xiao S has the protection of Big S and has become a little sheep protected by the family, so his character will be a little weak, although it is the same original family, but he did not force his ruthlessness out, creating his own weak character, and even in his career, Xiao S also debuted with Big S, Xiao S just obeyed Big S's arrangement, in the eyes of the world, we can see that even if the sky falls, there is a big S on top, and every time Xiao S chooses his career, he will go with the flow and will not take the initiative to fight for it. <>

It is precisely because of the different personalities of the two people that they have different attitudes towards marriage, Da S trusts his intuition very much, he firmly believes in his choice at that time, and Xiao S got married because he was pregnant first, and her husband is often exposed to lace news, but Xiao S will always stand by her husband's side to clarify that Da S directly announced his divorce when his marriage was unhappy, and he didn't talk much, while Xiao S has been struggling in marriage, which makes outsiders feel very distressed. <>

Whether it is a strong big S or a weak little S, the personalities of the two of them are all influenced by their original families, Big S is like a warrior, and Little S doesn't love himself enough, You La deserves to be respected no matter what kind of character he is.

is very optimistic about Da S's second marriage, the reason is that the matching degree between Uncle Gu and Da S is simply too high; One is a Korean over-the-top single male star, and the other is an older divorced actress in Wanwan, the two of them come together is a legendary match made in heaven, and the masses who eat melons will wish them an early birth to a precious son.

Very unfavorable. After a few glances at the variety shows that Da S participated in, I felt that this woman was special and lived an unreal life. I used to think that Wang Xiaofei was just a gentleman, a little rich, loved to chase stars, and had a lustful voice, but after a few things, I felt that Wang Xiaofei was a good man who loved the country and his family, and he became better and better after years of polishing.

Maybe the marriage between Da S and South Korean Oba will be dull after a few years, and it is unknown that he will flash the knot again in order to become popular again. I just hope that ** will not be overwhelmingly hyped anymore, it is better to worry about worrying about the Russian-Ukrainian war and our Shenzhou series, idle!

It doesn't matter if you look good or not, love first, and then talk about it, who will live a nourishing life if you have money.

From the beginning, Xiao S said that her sister was in a good mood after the divorce, and the male star announced her marriage within a few days, and then Big S's mother said she didn't know, posted on Weibo and said not to rob her children, and then Xiao S took the initiative to ** chat with her new husband ......In fact, the two of them are originally a cooperative relationship of interests, and only a small part of the relationship is to cooperate to earn traffic and develop new channels to make money! Their mother and daughter three + expired male stars are all acting together! I really think that Da S's children are very pitiful, Da S quickly got married after the divorce, and the family took the initiative to ** all kinds of details, not thinking about their children at all!