Love a girl, doesn t she love me and give up?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't give up, if she has someone she likes, see who she likes?

    If you can outrun him, don't give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Try hard, don't let yourself regret it later, even if you still can't be with her in the end, but at least you work hard, you won't feel sorry... It's painful though... However, I guess you don't want to regret yourself! It's a mistake to wait, and if she makes you wait too long, forget it, because the days that can't wait are too uncomfortable...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give up, if you really love her, you should respect his choice and let him find his own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm a girl, if she doesn't hate you very much, I think you should insist, I never believe in love at first sight, I've seen a lot of love over time, if you're serious enough, I believe you'll be happy, as the above said, girls are indeed easy to move, but this is to pay the price, neither stay away nor too sticky, should be able to move him, you try, don't let yourself regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Perseverance, there is no love at first sight, you can fall in love for a long time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's better to go with the flow and not force yourself to give up or not to give up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Make a careful confession, if she doesn't react at all, then you are unrequited love, let go quickly, there is no grass at the end of the world!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it were me who had chosen, I would have given up.

    But it's still the same sentence, it doesn't happen to you, and it's useless to say anything.

    If you love her to the point where you can't give up, keep pursuing; If your love can back down because of her, give it up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Silently bless her and accompany her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Give up, don't be wishful thinking, there are so many girls in the world.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, if you want unrequited love, it's hard.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She doesn't love you, so of course she gives up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Fought for. . . Don't regret giving up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you should give up, because if you keep giving, you will definitely feel tired, and it will be difficult for you to persevere.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the girl you love doesn't love you, the best way is to continue to give some yourself, see if the other party can change, and then give up if there is no result, so that you don't regret it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Feelings need to like each other to be together, shaving your head and picking a hot head is definitely not good, for the emotion that you can't see hope, it is recommended that you give up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The girl you love doesn't love you, but feelings can also be cultivated, if he is willing to say that you get along more and communicate more, maybe gradually he will fall in love with you, so whether you should give up this relationship or not, it also depends on whether it is possible to cultivate his feelings of love for you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think a girl has made it clear that he doesn't love you, I think you should give up a lot of girls in the world, and you should pursue your own happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you can't move him, just let it go, fate is destined, people who are destined to be together, even if they go around in a big circle, they will return to the beginning, if there is no destined fate, it is useless.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course it should. Because the twisted melon is not sweet, you have to give up your feelings and must fulfill the other party.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If the girl you love doesn't love you, and you will never get a return for your continuous efforts, you will give up on this relationship in the future, and give up in the future as scheduled, it is better to stop now.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    should give up, he doesn't love you has doomed this one-man show The era of love is over.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't give you a chance, let it go as soon as possible, so as not to be ashamed of yourself and hurt yourself. Unrequited love is fruitless.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The girl you love doesn't love you, so you should give up this relationship.

    Because you don't have anything in return for your efforts, loving him all the time will only delay your time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Ask if you want to end this relationship deep down, whether she is worth it for her, and if it is worth it, don't give up! On the contrary, give up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the girl you like doesn't love you, then you're giving up the relationship.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Abandon. You know that this kind of fruitless relationship will only bring you more and more pain.

    But your feelings and reason are in conflict, reason makes you leave, feelings want you to continue, inner contradictions, people will suffer.

    When people are in pain in their hearts, they will activate the psychological defense mechanism to protect themselves, and the feeling of being unable to extricate themselves belongs to one of the self-deception mechanisms, and you will have this thought: "She has her own suffering, she loves me." "There is hope for me and her.

    I may never see such a good person in the future. Use this to convince yourself to continue in order to get temporary emotional comfort.

    Therefore, I want to end this bad relationship, withdraw from it, and come out. It is necessary to break your psychological defenses and get out of your emotional comfort zone.

    Three suggestions for you:

    1. Work hard.

    Busy, is the best medicine for all cranky negative emotions.

    Fill your life with work and study.

    Wasting your mind on the wrong person is meaningless internal friction, it is better to use this energy to earn money, to improve yourself, and then you will meet better people.

    2. Emotional resolution.

    Don't suppress yourself anymore, venting can really let the emotions pass.

    Instead of relying on yourself to figure it out and calm your mood, it is better to vent directly.

    Go to boxing, basketball, and let out all the qi; Go to the K song and shout out the dissatisfaction and grievances in the high voice; Go to the venting house, make trouble, smash and go crazy, and send out all your dissatisfaction; Get together with friends, have a chat, and talk about your thoughts.

    When the clouds cleared, it was naturally sunny.

    For the little thing of feelings, when the emotions have passed, you can come out of it, and then find sunshine and self-confidence.

    3. Change the way of love.

    Emotional "inextricability" is not wrong.

    This shows that you are loyal to your feelings and love. But only the right people are worthy of your sincerity. Men's attitude towards feelings is mostly passive, but when you come out, when you are more handsome, more capable, and more sunny and confident.

    You have to change the way of love, go to the sedan chair and take the initiative to love a worthy person.

    Of course, all emotional changes will make people have varying degrees of psychological trauma. Some people are able to come out quickly through positive self-adjustment, but some serious trauma requires psychological intervention and healing by professional psychological counselors.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    1.If you really like it, you can continue.

    Confession is a fool's trick, and it's something we've always strongly opposed. Confession is equivalent to coercing a girl to sign a contract with you, and if the girl can't confirm that she likes you, she will definitely be rejected.

    The confession itself is a mistake and subtract points, your confession has undoubtedly revealed your sense of need, which is equivalent to showing all your hole cards, the girl has fallen into the observer's perspective, and the position of the party is not calm, and you are in an absolutely vulnerable state. The confession is rejected, and the difficulty of continuing to pursue must be much higher than that of a new girl, and it is generally not recommended to continue chasing.

    2.Non-explicit refusal.

    Just because your confession is rejected doesn't mean you can't attract the other person at all. In some cases, the confessing party is too anxious, you haven't shown enough samples, the girl hasn't discovered your shining point, and she doesn't know enough about you. was coerced by your confession, and you rejected it in a hurry.

    In this case, there is no problem with your own attractiveness, which is enough to match the girl. It's just that he confessed that he made a mistake, which led to the situation becoming very passive, and there is still hope for updating the strategy.

    3.The girl categorically refused.

    If you have been with a girl for a long time, and you have confessed your thoughts many times in the middle, the other party's attitude is negative, and you have clearly rejected you several times, but I don't like you and have no feelings for you! It is advisable to give up!

    When your confession is rejected, either the other party knows you well enough, or the other party just doesn't like you and doesn't feel good for you. Whatever the reason, you can't continue to pressure girls. Otherwise, it will make the girl feel that you are very entangled, and eventually make a mess of the situation.

    Continuing to pursue girls will make girls feel pressured. Trying to get a good impression of a girl by doubling down on her will also make the girl feel stressed.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. If a woman loves you very much, but she doesn't want to give up on someone else: what about such a woman?

    What if you could accept that he loved you at the same time? Don't give up on others, then you are acceptable, but what if you can't? It's better to stay away from him as soon as possible, because maybe after you get together in the future, you will continue to quarrel for various reasons, which will lead to the breakdown of your relationship.

    If a woman loves you very much, but she doesn't want to give up on someone else: what about such a woman? What if you could accept that he loved you at the same time?

    Don't give up on others, then you are acceptable, but what if you can't? It's better to stay away from him as soon as possible, because maybe after you get together in the future, you will continue to quarrel for various reasons, which will lead to the breakdown of your relationship.

Related questions
14 answers2024-02-09

Anyone can have such emotions, after all, if it is a friendship with a purpose, not a real friendship, then it is meaningless. It's just that some people react differently, everyone will want to be the focus of others, it's vanity that is doing the trick, so this girl is eager to have real friends, and she has a strong vanity. Hehe, this girl has to adjust her mentality, otherwise it will not be beneficial to the body.

11 answers2024-02-09

English. It fits her personality and is easy to find a job!

17 answers2024-02-09

It's best not to study mathematics, and the discipline of construction and civil engineering is engineering, which is not suitable for girls. >>>More

29 answers2024-02-09

If the two parties really love each other, then everything in the past is not a problem, as long as they love each other, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

19 answers2024-02-09

The landlord, go straight to the point.

Ask her if she loves you, she loves you, and you love her, then you can't let go, and if you let go, it's not love. >>>More