Do you know of any people and things that take advantage of small losses?

There is a strange roommate who loves to take advantage of a small advantage, for example, the drink you just bought, she said that if you are thirsty, she will take it to drink, you go to buy food, she said that she was hungry, so she said to help me buy a bowl of porridge, a bowl is on the line, in short, there are a lot of such things, they are all three or five yuan things, I can't quarrel with her, let people say that I am stingy, I can't stand it, I must return a tooth for a tooth, and then I put everything out and say, see that you don't have anything to eat every day, I have everything here, you can take whatever you want to eat, I have everything, I won't buy it if you don't finish eating.

I especially like what our high school homeroom teacher often says, and of course he does the same, that is: look at human nature in small things, and talk about principles in big things. So when I face such a situation, I always think like this, in fact, it doesn't matter, what you will gain while you lose, it is not an important thing, so you don't need to worry too much about the gain and loss.

Several times we tried to indirectly tell her that young people should not be so greedy, and she replied leisurely: My mother taught me since I was a child that you can eat anything but not suffer losses. Suddenly I understood something, so I gave up persuasion, until last year a friend got married and we both went to attend, just put two packs of cigarettes into her own bag as soon as she got on the table, and the male guest at this table was still complaining about how there was not even a cigarette, and we all wanted to find a crack in the ground to drill down.

Vary. It is natural to like to be greedy for small and cheap, but he will remember your goodness, and one day you are in trouble, he will send carbon in the snow and accompany you through every difficult day. The other is also by nature, but he will not think you are good, but will take advantage of you even harder, and there will be no trace of embarrassment or should.

Over time, I have seen people's hearts, and I am willing to fight and suffer from this kind of thing. If you don't want to be taken advantage of, stay away from these people, and don't think about taking advantage of others.

Many people are a little bit greedy for cheapness, but she is excessive, and two friends can't stand her style and she has always been lukewarm. Everything must be measured, don't challenge everyone's bottom line, and if your reputation is too bad, I think this is actually the biggest loss for yourself.

We were the first in the grade of our major and did not receive a national scholarship. The reason is that she once failed to meet the hygiene standards in her dormitory. But it was not her who was unqualified, but her roommate, who was afraid that she would be embarrassed by her name in the list of reports, so he gave her fifty yuan and replaced it with her name.

When the scholarship was evaluated, because of her dormitory hygiene report, the school gave the scholarship to the second place. Scholarship 8000 yuan! It felt like she might faint from crying.

A small bargain that does not damage much to one's own interests, and if you can close your eyes, you can close your eyes. We don't have the heart to calculate how much we make and how much we lose all day long, because that's not happy. Others calculate for a long time, because he is happy. That's the happiness that others strive for, and we can't experience it. If you can pass, it will pass.

The little one who hurts himself more is cheap, and he doesn't give an inch. That's my personal attitude. I don't want you to be greedy, and I resolutely don't let you be greedy.

Even if it costs several times the price, it will make you spit it out, and you will lose more. Not for anything else, just to let the other party know that cheap is not so easy to be greedy, and greedy for small and cheap may have to suffer a big loss. For me, this, even if it actually loses more, I am willing to do it, because I am happy.

This is something that money can't buy.

But in reality, love to take advantage of is not a good thing.

It's just that this kind of loss, many times people are aware of it, and at that time, it's too late to regret it.

Love takes advantage, after all, it will harm others and yourself, and if you take advantage of these 4 kinds of advantages, you will be better for yourself.

Friend's cheap.

The three most important types of people in a person's life are: relatives, lovers, and friends.

It can be said that life is occupied by these three types of people all the time.

As the saying goes: "Rely on your parents at home, rely on friends when you go out", friends are very important in our lives, if we can have a group of good friends, then the road of life is often easier than others.

Therefore, you must not take advantage of your friends. People are mutual, and when you get some kind of benefit from others, you must think of giving back to each other in another way, and only in this way can the friendship between friends last for a long time.

If you only think about taking advantage of others for nothing, and you are not willing to pay, it is actually a very stupid behavior.

In this world, there has never been, it's just a good thing for you to take advantage of others and suffer losses. You have to understand this so that you don't make stupid mistakes.

Once you get caught up and choose to take advantage of your friends, you will only lose that friendship in the end.

Maybe in the moment, you can get some kind of benefit. But the price to be paid for this benefit is often unimaginable.

Even if you get a benefit, you still need to lose something in the end, and it's simply not worth the loss.

Stranger's cheap.

In addition to friends, strangers should not take advantage of it. Because no one is stupid, a stranger can't let you take advantage of it for nothing, and if you do, then there will only be two endings in the end.

First, you can take advantage of a stranger, but in the end you have to pay back at a much heavier price.

Second, the so-called cheapness is just an illusion, a trap, and when you complacently think that you have taken advantage of a stranger, you have actually fallen into a deep pit.

The simplest example is those "**", the reason why there are so many **, the reason why so many people will be deceived, is actually because of the psychology of love to take advantage of small advantages.

When a stranger has a advantage for you to take advantage of, it is often the beginning of a ****.

The reason why it is called ** is because he is not really cheap for you to take advantage of. It's just taking advantage of your inner vanity to make you think you're taking advantage.

For example, some small traders who sell under the banner of a loss-making sale actually take advantage of people's psychology of taking advantage of small advantages.

When selling goods, they often exaggerate the value of the goods, and then reduce the price of the goods for the reason of discounting, so that customers feel that they have taken a big advantage, and they only spend the least amount of money but buy the most expensive goods.

A person must believe that no one can "get something for nothing" with no hard work and no gain. Maybe someone is opportunistic and makes a fortune, but in fact it is temporary - what is owed to others must be repaid after all.

People are doing it, the sky is watching, don't think that your cleverness is the way to make money. People, people who are greedy for small and cheap often suffer big losses, don't believe it, you look at the following three kinds of analysis, you will understand!

1. People who are cheated of money are often greedy for cheapness, and as a result, they "pick up sesame seeds and lose watermelons".

Do you often hear that someone has been deceived, especially the elderly? When someone scolds **, don't ask yourself, why was you deceived?

I once wrote a joke: A security administrator is very conscientious and responsible, and found that there was a ** in the community, who had a history of fraud. And he also saw ** approaching a fool, the fool has a bad brain, and he can't speak clearly.

The magistrate was very anxious, ran over, and said loudly to **, "Don't bully a fool, he's pitiful enough, how can you be so vicious." ** smiled, "I have cheated all my life, and I have never deceived fools, because they are not greedy, and I don't want anything I give." ”

Look at the old people who were deceived, most of them organized an activity and told everyone that they could send gifts, okay, everyone took the gifts, they were very happy, and then they slowly changed their taste, and the old man's heart was led away, and the money slowly flowed into the pockets of **. Maybe a gift of a few dimes cost the old man a few hundred dollars. It's not a joke, it's reality.

Therefore, most of the people who have been deceived are greedy people who think they can "fish for oil and water," but in fact they have set a trap for themselves, and they will not be able to get out.

2. Some women who are deeply hurt by love are often greedy for cheapness, because "rhetoric" is too tempting.

Amorous is always hurt mercilessly. I always think that those women who are deceived are very pitiful, but in fact, many women are not paying attention. When love comes, I am carried away by happiness.

A few "good words" from a man coaxed a woman around, thinking that it was easy to see a "high-quality man", and he couldn't tell the difference between the southeast and the northwest.

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Others have told women that a man has no sincerity towards you, he just coaxes you with some small things, he has no real plans to marry you, he doesn't buy a house, and there are few actions of love. But "advice against the ear", women do not listen.

Because a woman covets the good sound of "rhetoric" and feels the happiness of her heart, she believes it to be true, but she doesn't know that love is proved by action. Most of those sincere men are stupid, or they speak bluntly, which is too real, causing women to dislike it.

Eat a trench, grow a wisdom. Many women only understand after being hurt that they should cherish the person who loses his temper with you, the person who doesn't say very good things, and the person who is jealous of you. Anyway, it's not a person who "just talks but doesn't do".

3. People who are greedy for other people's small advantages will not make a fortune after all, and they will be punished for overcalculating.

A gentleman carries things with virtue. If you are not kind and calculate others everywhere, although you have received some small favors, you will not become a big deal. To know, to do.

One has to believe that no one can easily get a little out of a work point. Some people may get rich at the right time, but those who owe others will eventually come back.

People who want to take advantage of it don't usually take advantage of it. Take advantage of it, no matter what form, what nature, what purpose, it can be expressed in one sentence: cheap, good, embarrassing or troublesome.

There are a lot of people around you who are writing articles, and my annual report helps me change; If you open a clothing store, please give me the cost price; Summer vacation is coming, no matter what, there is nothing wrong with your vacation, please help my child to make up for the lessons. Good;

There are always those who, in the spirit of not having to use friends, do not take advantage of the principle of cheapness, but instead see friends as a resource that can be used for free. At first, they stood behind a lot of friends, occupied the account, only three or five remained, occupied one or two, until one day, suddenly turned around and found that there was no one behind.

Greedy and cheap people often suffer significant losses. Everyone knows the truth that "sesame seeds lost their watermelon", but many people only like to catch a small bargain in front of them. Greed often obscures the view and keeps people from seeing their true goals.

As the saying goes, "greedy for small and cheap suffers big losses" ......In daily work, study and life, those who love to be greedy for small gains often suffer big losses. This is the case for several reasons:

First of all, people who love to take advantage of small advantages are short-sighted, only focusing on petty profits and looking only at immediate interests, but ignoring long-term interests. ......This is the fundamental reason why such people end up suffering a lot.

Secondly, the daily words and deeds of people who love to take advantage of small advantages are despised and despised, and they are finally isolated by everyone and excluded from the team. How can you not suffer a big loss in such a state!

Finally, people who love to take advantage of small advantages will have a poor relationship state because they are looked down upon by everyone. As a result, he did not receive everyone's care and help. In such a state, in major matters, this person can only struggle alone, and in such a state, he is destined to be unable to obtain major benefits ......The result, of course, is a big loss.

aqui te amo。

People who often take advantage think they are smart and think they have earned it, but in fact, unconsciously, they have already lost a lot, such as friends, such as contacts, such as potential partners. No one is a fool, and people who love to take advantage seem to get a lot, but they lose the respect of others. After a long time, others will naturally know, who would want to work with such a person?

If others can't trust him, he won't develop, so he can only stay where he is.

It is understandable that greed and selfishness are prevalent in the animal nature of man, and as people receive education and improve their self-cultivation, their upbringing and quality should overshadow their nature and restrain greed and selfishness.

So, what should we do in the face of these people around us who love to take advantage of small advantages?

The first kind of self-interest does not harm others, then let him go, as for the rest of the "taking advantage of the mainstream" how should we get along with it?

The four words "respect and stay away", really, if you are not a blood relative, the farther away from these cheap people, the better. The reason is simple: once there are countless times, and people who love to take advantage of small things will only bring negative energy.

There is no cheap greed in life, there is no loss in life, people who love to be cheap can't be greedy in the end, people who love to lose don't suffer in the end, loss is a blessing, greed is a curse!

There is no suffering in vain in life, there is no blessing in vain, blessings and misfortunes are always appropriate, blessings and disasters can not be avoided, don't always want to take advantage of others, because the cheap is too much, disasters will follow you, do not be greedy and do not take advantage of others, so that you will not be taken advantage of, suffering is a blessing, people who love to suffer losses can't suffer losses after all, every good and evil you do God will help you remember, it's not that you don't report, but the time has not come, you will suffer a big loss if you are greedy, don't always think about being cheap, greedy to take advantage of it is a thief, greedy for people and things that do not belong to you, sooner or later you will return it, only down-to-earth life and work, will you harvest what you want, be a steady person and don't be too greedy! People can't be greedy and can't be greedy!

There are always people in life who will try their best to take advantage of you, always want to get but never want to give, the result will always lose more, life can not let you get forever, there is nothing cheap for you to get, some things seem cheap, maybe it is a trap waiting for you, so what cheap can be greedy? To be down-to-earth, don't always want to be opportunistic, play smart, rather suffer your own losses than take advantage of others, suffering losses is a blessing, forbearance is a blessing, generosity is a blessing, good virtues are good blessings, the vast majority of disasters in the world are caused by greed, and end in destruction.

The more you greed, the more you lose.

Don't wait until you set yourself on fire before you regret not doing it at the beginning. People who are greedy for cheap are the stupidest people, don't lose your bottom line and the rules of life because of the small profits in front of you!

There is no shortcut in life, there is no cheap to take advantage of in life, there is good happiness if you don't take advantage of it, and it is a blessing to suffer a loss!