Can you tell me that it was at that moment that you suddenly felt that your mentality had grown old?

I just graduated from college this year, so I feel this way, how can I get it! Now I talk less and less, I don't want to say unnecessary words, I don't like to joke anymore; There are no sweet words when talking to girlfriends; I began to feel a sense of burden on my family; Be a man and do things began to be reasonable, and did things began to be sensible; Look at those little pimples and start to think they are naïve. It's a very nasty feeling.,In short, I think it's really a serious mismatch between mentality and age!

This feeling is not that the mentality is getting old, but that the mentality is gradually maturing. In a sense, it can explain the boredom of this love, the boredom of the way your girlfriend gets along, and you find that these are not what you want, so you feel bored, so you hate to talk to him. In my university life, I slowly learned the correct way to get along, and slowly discovered the naivety and correct approach of others.

During the Chinese New Year, I began to think about buying something for my family, I began to ask my family if there was anything I needed to do, I began to think about how many children I would have in the future, how to work harder to earn income so that my family could live a better life, in general, there was more pressure on my body, and the burden was heavy, and I suddenly found that I was "old" and my mentality was no longer young.

Even now, I feel that living in a big city is so stressful, and I want to go back to my hometown. I feel like I'm getting old and losing my momentum.

As I experienced too much in my relationship, I was hurt by love, and even hurt deeply, and I felt that I would never love anyone again. At that moment, I suddenly felt that my mentality was really old, and I had a feeling of tiredness and fear towards love.

My brother and I are fifteen years apart, and now I am a senior and he is in the first grade, and whenever my brother asks my dad all day to buy ice cream and snacks, I will say that why do you eat so many things all day, and it would be good to eat a little bit of food for three meals. My brother has very few friends, and I don't like it, because I think those friends are using my brother, he has a lot of toys to play with computers and mobile phones, usually my brother goes to his friend's house, his friends don't pay attention to him, just call my brother's name downstairs every day, let my brother take him into the house to play, I don't let my brother play with them, my brother cried and said to me one day: I have no friends anymore, I don't know why I became this old mother feeling, and it is still that traditional old mother, I always wanted my brother to have a high level of emotional intelligence, but sometimes I restrained him, and I would tell my dad all day about my brother and then my dad would laugh and say

You weren't like your brother when you were a kid. All of this made me realize that I am getting old, my mentality is also old, I have too many distracting thoughts, and I am becoming less and less pure, and children should be carefree.

When I was young, I laughed heartlessly, I just wanted to do my own things quietly, think twice about everything, repeatedly consider the pros and cons, do things more purposefully, and only do what is linked to salary and easy for leaders to appreciate.

I used to play crazy with my friends, and I didn't often play with my family at school. Now I often take the initiative to call my parents and ask them about their daily life. I feel that my parents are really much older, and I should bear a lot of responsibilities myself.

With the passage of time, the growth of age, and the treatment of the other half in the relationship, it is almost impossible to distinguish what is love and what is affection. I always feel that time is very fast, and I can't help but waste time anymore, just find an eye-catching one!

The songs I liked in junior high school and high school are now slowly starting to feel more and more unacceptable. Now I like to listen to old songs, or just listen to my favorite genre of songs, turn them out and listen to them over and over again.

When I see my peers playing carefree and I don't care.

This is just every night, I think about it a lot, and on the whole, I feel that my mentality is really mature, that is, old.

Seeing a group of young men playing basketball on the basketball court, I didn't have the urge to go up and shoot a ball.

When you suddenly find yourself showing signs of aging, you may feel anxious, uneasy, panicked, surprised, complicated, and relieved.

Since we were born, we have been slowly aging, but old age is also a fact that we do not want to face. What does it feel like to find out that you are old one day? Maybe one day when you look in the mirror or look at yourself, you will find that you have begun to grow nasolabial folds, why there is more gray hair on your head, how the face that used to be a little baby fat seems to start to sag, and how the fat on your belly is getting more and more ......These are all signs of aging.

Finding yourself getting older, maybe different people have different mindsets. <>

1. When you find yourself aging, you often just go out one day in a flash, and the people around you start calling you uncle and aunt, and suddenly realize that you are no longer young; suddenly found that I couldn't stay up all night, I used to be still energetic all night, but now I can't stay up in the middle of the night; Looking in the mirror, I suddenly found that I had nasolabial folds and gray hair; One day, I suddenly found that I became the oldest person in the company, and the people around me regarded you as an elder; The people around you are advised to wear more mature clothes, and the clothes you are wearing now are no longer suitable for you. Finding out that you're getting old is really just a matter of moments. <>

Second, the mentality is not old, and our body is still young, and since the day we go out, we have been slowly getting old, which is something that cannot be changed. But our mentality can change. Even if you have gray hair, you can still have a young mindset.

Some people have lost their vitality in their early twenties, and their mentality is already old; Some people are seventy or eighty years old, and they still have an optimistic and positive attitude, and if they are young, you will not be old. No matter how many marks the years have left on your face, as long as you don't grow old, you will still be young. <>

3. In the face of their own aging, different people have different choicesMany people will become anxious, uneasy, or even panicked after they find themselves aging, and some people have complicated feelings and cannot face it. But there are also people who can calmly face their aging, which is a physiological change after all. Some people can be very relieved and feel that it doesn't matter, and even be more open-minded and more active in doing what they want to do, such as traveling.

Some people will try to age more slowly, pay attention to health, focus on skin care, and even have some surgeries to keep themselves young. Different people, in the face of their own aging, will have different mentalities and different practices.

Fourth, the conclusion of aging, is inevitable, people live a lifetime, isn't it slowly aging? But everyone understands the truth, but there are very few people who can really face it calmly. Most people hope that they can age more slowly, we have the pursuit of beauty, and we only hope that the speed of aging can be slower, slower.

My mentality will be very broken, I also feel very lost, very sad, I can't accept this phenomenon in a short period of time, and I also feel very broken.

The mentality will become very heavy, and sometimes it will feel very tired, so we should protect our mentality, so that it is okay.

The mood will become very negative, because every day I think about my aging, and I will think about things very badly, so my mentality will be greatly affected, and I will be even more old.

There will be some very devastated and negative and sad changes, because everyone wants to be young and doesn't want to be old.

When I was less interested in everything around me right now;

When I noticed that the environment around me had changed differently from when I was a child;

When the boys are holding the general's belly at the class reunion, and the girls are talking about their husbands and children;

When I am faced with unsolvable problems at work, and there are clear answers? When the children in the department can do it;

When I waver more and more in ambition and the stability of the world;

When I'm no longer looking forward to the new year;

When I no longer seek understanding;

When I don't know the name of the popular singer anymore; When I know my style very well, when I take a piece of clothing from the closet in the morning, spray a little perfume and go out;

When I wasn't interested in any promotions on Singles' Day, I didn't even know how to do research;

When I was stupid and digging every day was the same pattern, the same rhythm, and the only thing left in my life was the mortgage and insurance;

When the only things that interest me the most are the child's life, health and the child's academic performance, rather than any of my hobbies;

I found that I was no longer young.

However, not being young doesn't mean I'm old, my 30-year-old self is just more mature, and I enjoy the certainty that comes with that maturity. There is a feeling of thinking about going through things, a feeling of ease and ease, and this feeling makes me feel young. On the contrary, when I was in my 20s and full of powerlessness in life, I felt old at that time.

No longer younger self.