Goodbye, my love! 2

Friend, I also fell out of love some time ago. The relationship with her for 4 years ended with her words. Losing the person I love the most hurts in my heart, but who can understand?

Years of emotion were ended in one sentence, and the promises that had been made were so weak and powerless at that time. I really can't accept it, I can't believe it's true. But what can I do?

The person I love the most hurts me the most, leaving a scar in my heart that will never fade away. I had nothing to say to her, no matter what she did to me, I still couldn't say anything cruel to her. I can only smile with tears and wish her happiness, who understands how much my heart hurts?

But I still smiled at her and said, I don't blame you, I really don't blame you, in fact, my heart was dripping blood at that time. I'd rather leave me alone to suffer than see her grieved. I love her very deeply, and it hurts me very much.

Hopefully she did the right thing, and I can only bless them.

Hello!My experience is exactly the same as yours, but on the contrary, the person who was injured was me, I almost thought of dying to solve this relationship (maybe I am a woman and I will think differently from you) but I didn't, I believe it was mine that I can never escape, my "he" is doing well now, he has had a child with his current wife, I still silently bless him, of course I am married now, I didn't tell my current husband about this matter, only I know it in my heart.

Brothers.. Tomorrow will be better!Forget the past and let him be your good memory, and your true angel will appear.

Cheer up!It's the same person who is in love, but it's not as traumatic as you!

Time will ** our wounds!

Two words love wrong.

Maybe it's just your own love all the while.

It turns out that the falling flowers intentionally follow the flowing water, but the flowing water has no intention of falling in love with the falling flowers!

Again speechless.

I only hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

You must know that what Yin Susu said to Zhang Wuji was very philosophical

Very touching. Even the eyes are wet.

Because. My mood at this time was also disturbed by love.

It's really sad, I don't even know if there is true love in this society now

Let's talk about the second couple, it turns out that about marriage and emotion, if you want to be fast, you can't reach it, and you can't get married in a flash. Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng dated for a month and got pregnant, and the two became parents without any preparation at all, and got married in panic and got a marriage certificate.

Flash, anxiety, fear, and lack of understanding caused the two to endlessly accuse and quarrel with each other, and as a result, the two divorced in confusion and confusion.

The story of the goodbye lover in the flash marriage, pregnancy, and separation in "Goodbye Lover 2" is thought-provoking.

Dating for a month flash pregnancy:

Zhang Shuyou Xian Wanting and Song Ningfeng were not in a hurry to get married after they became pregnant, they gave birth to the child smoothly first, and when the child was 8 months old, in order to register the child, they got married under pressure and fear.

Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng is a candidate to be a father, she also wants to be a mother, she doesn't know Song Ningfeng well enough, but she has no time, she needs to solve all problems as soon as possible.

But the words "flash" and "pregnant" doomed her to be unable to solve the problem in a short time, and the most taboo thing about emotional matters was Flash's ignorance and pregnancy's irrationality.

The flash pregnancy has buried a huge hidden danger in the marriage and love of the two, and it has also made it impossible for the two people to understand each other normally and enhance their feelings.

Pregnancy is a period of physiological and psychological fluctuations for women, and women during this period cannot control their emotions well, especially when there are questions about marital emotions.

Moreover, Zhang Wanting seems to be a quick-tempered personality, and Song Ningfeng also seems to be a straight man of steel who will not warm his wife. An emotional outburst out of control sues the state, a straight to the state without leaving any room for scolding, and the consequence of flash is that it starts with flash and ends with flash, so the reality is so cruel.

There is no time to open your eyes to see each other clearly before marriage, and you can't turn a blind eye to understand each other and tolerate each other after marriage, which is the incomprehensibility of flash and marital emotion.

Don't try to "survive" for marital emotions in "flash", we can't afford to play, and our children can't afford to play.

In this season's "Goodbye Lover", among the three couples who are divorced or about to divorce, the most impressive are Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting.

41-year-old actor Song Ningfeng and 31-year-old agent Zhang Wanting got married and got pregnant. From pregnancy, marriage to married children, the two have constant contradictions, many problems, and the marriage has reached an irreconcilable point.

Although only one episode was broadcast, what I felt was Zhang Wanting's strength and arrogance, as well as Song Ningfeng's forbearance and concession.

It's a bad feeling, it's a relationship that's in a state of inequality, and it's only a matter of time before something goes wrong.

Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng met at a party, Zhang Wanting fell in love at a glance, and took the initiative to pursue it.

The two got pregnant after a month together and decided to be together. But Zhang Wanting felt that Song Ningfeng didn't know herself well enough, so she wanted to present her truest side to him.

As a result, Zhang Wanting's irritability, strength, and unreasonableness were released without concealment. This condition may be related to the effect of hormone levels during pregnancy, but it is more due to Zhang Wanting's own personality.

Zhang Wanting thought that the two had known each other too short and didn't understand each other, so she was forced to bear the consequences of not knowing Song Ningfeng. Thinking from the other side, Song Ningfeng is also bearing this consequence.

Song Ningfeng is a simple, introverted, and quiet person. Although he had a history of marriage, he had not yet come out of the shadow of divorce and hastily entered another marriage.

In his relationship with Zhang Wanting, under the attack of his wife's unreasonable and tantrum anytime and anywhere, Song Ningfeng became cautious, and he began to deny himself, thinking that he really had a problem.

I feel that he has been PUA by Zhang Wanting, and he is still unaware.

The marriage of the two of them represents the marriage of many people in today's lives: flash marriage, lack of communication, unequal feelings, and the final outcome is either divorce or will make up, which is too heavy.

Hello, goodbye lover In this drama, what impressed me the most was the pair of Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng, who single-handedly sent the first place on the hot list. I saw the following problems in their relationship. 1.

Trying to change the other person is the norm in many relationships. It's easier to blame someone than to solve a problem, and it's easier to vent your anger than to face yourself. If you blame the outside world for the occurrence of problems, you can escape your own part of the responsibility, which is essentially lazy, hoping to sit back and enjoy the results while lying down, and get something for nothing.

I'm not happy because you don't comfort me. My life is not going well because you are not a good partner. I'm not good enough because you didn't give me a good life.

Imagine if we are like this at home, parents are not very good, but they ask their children to take the first place in the exam, fight for themselves, and if they don't do well in the exam, they will be beaten and scolded all kinds of scolding, yin and yang, and do not give a good face. The child is excellent, his face is golden, and his vanity is satisfied. When children are obedient and do what they say, they feel empowered to discipline others.

Put all the expectations and attention on the child, treat the child as a puppet, hope that the child will become a dragon, and hope that the child will grow up to give himself happiness and glory. In an intimate relationship, the boyfriend is required to be considerate, the boyfriend is required to try to be responsive, the boyfriend is required to be on call, and the boyfriend is required to prepare gifts carefully every holiday... In this way, you can satisfy your fantasy of the perfect lover, show off with your girlfriends, and let yourself lie down to win.

But the more such people, the more painful they will be, because of their entrusted mentality, put all the things in life, all the happiness on the other party, and feel that only if the other party changes, they will be happy, but this is against the objective law, one is that the other party is also an ordinary person, which means that he also has shortcomings, has his own needs, and also has his own habits, it is impossible to revolve around you all day long, and the second is that when you have this kind of thought, it means that there is a huge hole in your heart, It can't be filled no matter what. 2。Manifestations of giant babies.

When I was a baby, I would have a sense of "omnipotence", I would feel that the whole world revolved around me, that I would give me whatever I wanted, that as long as I cried, my parents would come and coax me, and I would not have to do anything. Zhang Wanting is obviously playing this role in this. I don't have any problem, if I want to change you, it's that you're sorry for me, that is, you didn't soothe my feelings and didn't pay attention to my feelings.

What grievances do you have? Your grievances are all fake, I can't understand it. As I tell you, you have to be.

Who can stand this kind of overlord clause? You can only have emotions, I can't have emotions. She's ostensibly here to solve the problem, thank you.

Sunflower Kid, born in 1984, is from Xinyi, Jiangsu.

In 2004, he engaged in online literature writing, and wrote a long ** "Love Can't Go Tomorrow", "Love in the Age of Farewell", "Astringent", "Drunk Life and Dream Death", "Falling in Love with the Chairman's Daughter", "Sister Mei", "Goodbye, My Love" (real estate female boss).

In 2008, "Goodbye, My Love" was published in the Tianya community with a vest "hand-held green hat", which touched hundreds of millions of readers and was published.

In 2008, he published his first ** "Sister Mei" describing the love between sisters and brothers, and the Internet responded strongly. **The film and television rights have been purchased by Beijing Jinshi Film Company, and it was put into shooting in 2010!