Is there a man who feels still in love and regrets long after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After breaking up, I found that I was reluctant to save the other party, and I still wanted to save the other party, but I didn't know how to save it?

    I believe many people don't understand what kind of mentality is needed in the recovery process. Because most people's first reaction after a breakup is to be restless, and then they will be cranky, and some even can't control their emotions, and will be angry or weak and kneel and lick. Such a mentality is quite unfavorable for recovery.

    In the process of redemption, you have to have a strong belief that the separation between you is only temporary, and that she is not the best in your heart. You must understand that men and women are equal, although you are at fault, but it does not mean that all the faults are on you, you can admit and correct your own mistakes, but it does not mean that you can take all the faults on yourself.

    Many students will have a question when they see this: Obviously, I love her very much, and I will only redeem her if I regard her as a true daughter, why do I want to treat her as not the best in my heart now? Well, if you take her too seriously, will you constantly expose your sense of need in the process of recovery, and it is easy to have emotional fluctuations because of her, thereby lowering your own value, which is very detrimental to your recovery.

    Then, be sure to figure out the reasons for the breakup, not only to understand the fuse of the breakup, but also to know what the fundamental problem is between you. In this way, we can know ourselves and our opponents in the follow-up recovery, so as to win all battles. In the process of redemption, know that you are equal to each other, so that you can avoid too many inappropriate behaviors in the process of redemption.

    The process of adjusting the mindset is very hard, but it is also very necessary and the most important thing, since you have decided to redeem it, then you need to pay 200% determination and perseverance, so that is the first step to success.

    The mentor wrote some experiences and experiences in redeeming love in ***wanhuimiji. If you want to save true love, you can ***** the book "Saving the Standardized Process". There are many ways to redeem (the freezing rule, the three-three-three chat method, the puzzle theory), and how to get along with the object more harmoniously.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Whoever the is like that, he didn't sell the regret pill.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you regret it, you will regret it, it is enough to have it in your heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello. Let's take a look.

    This will happen

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It usually takes a month or two before they start to regret it, because at first they feel free and chic, but when they have calmed down, they feel very sad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In general, if you regret it, you will regret it when you are in a bad mood when you know that you are wrong, and you will regret it when you think of the other person's goodness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I will regret it on the second day, because if I still love each other deeply, I will feel annoyed by the impulse at that time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes.

    Yes, but they will not regret it immediately like a girl just after breaking up, they will experience a sense of release, discomfort, and remorse, but this regret does not mean that he will be willing to get back together.

    For the fact of breaking up, for a long time, boys are unwilling to accept it, after all, for this relationship, he has poured all his heart and soul into it, and he also has every kind of longing, hoping that the two will have a happy ending, but in the end, your love is still to the point where you are most unwilling to accept, so regret will definitely be regretted.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Men always show in their emotions that they are aware of their mistakes, and when they know that they are wrong, they have caused irreparable results. Boys experience an increase in discomfort over time after a breakup, mainly due to personality differences.

    The male grandson is born with a love of freedom, does not like to be bound, and is fraternal. Girls, on the other hand, like to be clingy, like to follow, and have a long relationship. Boys' natural personality will make them feel tied down in a relationship, and girls will often ask boys to do something they don't want to do, resulting in the idea of returning to singleness.

    The first time you return to being single is to let go of yourself and play hard. The man felt liberated and free, and when he returned to the dormitory, he immediately played games with his classmates, and he didn't feel too uncomfortable. Gradually, the game is over, and the man doesn't know what he should do for a while, because he used to be looking for a girlfriend at this time, but now that he has lost it, he suddenly feels a little empty.

    When the boy's enthusiasm for his own freedom has passed, he will think about the mistakes he has made, which is when he is sad and sad. On the contrary, girls have adapted to being single during this transition period, because during the period when they just broke up, girls were immersed in good memories with boys every day, and always felt that they would not break up and would go on forever, so girls felt like they were dreaming, and a relationship broke down, so it can be said that girls gradually came out of their feelings and came out of sadness.

    Therefore, the boy's grief is all self-inflicted, because there was enough time to save the relationship, but the boy is addicted to the so-called game and is ready to spend the rest of his life with the game. When the girl came out of her grief and wanted to have a new life, the boy woke up and lost himself.

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