I take love very seriously, can t I take love too seriously

I also think that you are looking too seriously, don't be like this, especially as a woman, if you really take love so seriously, I think your boyfriend will not be able to stand it, but will not know how to cherish you, in fact, there are many beautiful things in life, give it, give him, give him more space for yourself, then you will get along more happily.

Weakly ask, do you two know what love is? Do you know how to manage love? Of course, I don't know, in fact, I have always thought that people love themselves the most, the so-called love is the person who loves the most after deducting the love of themselves, of course, this is one-sided, I don't deny that there is real love, but do you feel that you have gained love?

In addition, it seems that you don't know how to be humble at all, and you love to be sentimental, so why let yourself be so tired? Lie to you and you'll be angry. I feel that at least you should see whether it is benign or malicious, and you can't deny the other party outright.

You should appreciate the right place for the other person, not blindly own. The more you want to get it, the easier it is to lose. Even if you don't understand this truth?

Haven't you heard?

I would like to give you a good word of advice: it is best to try to change yourself, so that it will be good for you now and your future marriage, you are always like this, no man will make you feel better all the time.

People are cheap, the more you want to keep something, but you find that it goes faster!

Now you are like a warm and urgent hand, and your boyfriend is like the sand in your hand, the closer you hold it, the faster he stays...

Slow your senses!

Good luck 、、、

In fact, there are many things in the world that are more important than love, such as family affection, you should communicate more with your family in ordinary times, increase the feelings between relatives, and cultivate your own interests.

Treat everything calmly.

Don't take your feelings too seriously. Love is not the whole of life, you are all of your own life. In love, you can love someone very much, but you should also be able to leave anyone at any time.

Not everyone deserves to be good to him all the time, and no one is worthy of your love. A good person who knows how to cherish you, you can go on with him, but if a person only knows how to trample on your true feelings for him, and never sees your contribution, it will only make you feel wronged, then even if you love again, you must learn to give up and learn to give up.

It's a good thing and a bad thing, it shows that you value your feelings, and you work hard, but if it's over, it's still yourself who will be hurt and uncomfortable, because I'm also this kind of person, I don't dare to talk about the so-called love now, and the taste is really uncomfortable.

That's a good thing. Because you can't forget, it means that you are serious about every relationship, after you say this, I feel that you are very young, young people will consider love, and when you are older, you will consider some other factors, so that you look at love and look lighter. I hope you will adopt.

If you're in love, that's normal.

If you fail in love, you should communicate with your friends more to find happy things, and you will forget them over time.

But be serious about love.

Too little knowledge You should travel more, you can join a group or alone. The world is big, you don't go out. You think that all you are facing now is the world.

Yes, I am the same, depressed, I don't eat or drink, I close my eyes and think of the past, I see love as everything, when I get up and faint, I find that there is no one around me to support, and I am scolded by everyone, saying that when I love crazy, I feel like a waste, and slowly love without self-esteem, is there a right or wrong in love, that person is flesh and blood, how can I not find some soul sustenance.

The more you value love, the more sad you are alone.

There are only two possible ones.

1。Let time dilute everything, do something else, and fill your life with what you love. (Of course it's good, you can't live negatively) While it may be a bit painful, it's the best way to do it.

2.Looking for someone you love, (it can't be that you love you, it can only hurt someone else) [but I don't recommend it, because, in later life, you will be affected by your ex, and once your ex comes back, it hurts your current again.] Moreover, maybe when you are with the current one, you will unconsciously think of the ex and compare it with the current one, which will also hurt the hearts of others].

That's because you're not hurt deep enough!

1. Strong heart.

Love certainly has its selfishness, but if the desire to possess is too strong, it is a manifestation of psychological inferiority. In this case, how to strengthen the heart is the first thing to do. You can seek more strength by talking to others, finding someone to enlighten, reading books, etc., so as to open your heart knots.

When the knot is opened, things will be done much more smoothly.

2. Increase charm.

Don't try to control the other person with possessiveness, but keep increasing your charm to achieve the purpose of attracting the other person and consolidating love. You can make your personality charm more prominent by constantly exercising, socializing, volunteering, etc., so as to make the other party more obsessed with yourself.

3. Live life to the fullest.

The possessiveness in love shows that you value love too much, but love is not everything in our lives. You can also go to work, make friends, and spend time with your parents. Therefore, you should arrange your time reasonably and don't attach too much importance to love, otherwise you will definitely be burdened by it.

4. Independence.

Even lovers who are intimate should insist on having their own private space. The reason why two people want to love is because they are two independent people, not toys! And the reason why love is very mysterious and yearning is that it has an unknown side, which will prompt itself to explore.

5. Don't be suspicious.

You must know the story of the suspicious neighbor stealing the axe, that is, if you always feel that a person is suspicious, then no matter what he does, you will feel that he is disguised. Therefore, please don't convict others first, all doubts must be based on real evidence, otherwise it will be random suspicion, and you will make yourself very embarrassed.

6. Effective venting.

It is impossible for couples to have only positive energy full of laughter, but also negative energy of disharmony. What to do? A more effective and healthy outlet should be sought.

For example, two people have a long talk, be open and honest, and pour out all the bitterness in their hearts! Or go climbing a mountain and shout your heartfelt words into an empty valley. Or maybe have a pillow fight and move your muscles.

1.If you like it, you will be presumptuous, but love is restraint, and I think so, love should not be taken too seriously. Self-opinion, love to be rational and responsible.

Only after loving do you know that taking love too seriously will bring pressure to the counterpart. At present, I am back in the process of finding love, and I still need to improve myself, whether it is work, life or physical (exercise) improvement. In the process of ascension, it is actually very fulfilling, and you will not take love too seriously.

It is better to read 10,000 books than to travel 10,000 miles, and it is better to read countless people.

2.Try to make yourself dependent on yourself and live for yourself. Some people are always bound after falling in love, and they have to think about each other in everything, which leads to many things being unable to do and revolving around love all day long.

For example, if you sign up for a yoga class or a dance class, you give up because you have to match your boyfriend's time. Or quit your job and become a housewife in order to take good care of your boyfriend.

You take love too seriously, everything has two sides, love is too heavy, which shows that you love this girlfriend very much, you should take the initiative to control yourself, arrange your work and study full of so that you don't have time to think about it, after a long time, you will treat her as a part of your life, not all, if you have time, you can also go out to travel, go out to relax and relax to change your mind, everyone knows that traveling can put down your mind, In general, what can not be without can not be too important, so it will affect your study and work, and you will be looked down upon by others and say that you are spineless, because love affects your life, and everything can be overcome depends on whether you have the determination, and you will definitely do better.

If you take love too seriously, you will look down on other parts, people's lives are very long, love is only a small part of it in life, love can not be eaten. If you take love too seriously, you will be obsessed with your own emotional world all day long, ignoring other important things, such as your career, friendship, and family affection. You have to try to shift your focus to other aspects, find something that interests you to do, get together with friends and family, and remember that love is not the whole of life, and don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish the other.

People can't take love too seriously, can't take love as the whole of life, pour energy and hard work into love, then life will be very monotonous, although, love can bring people endless nourishment and fun, but it can not become the whole of life, if once you lose such love, it will be unforgettable, painful, life is sluggish. People should cultivate a variety of fun, learn more, make more progress, and be positive and enterprising as long as they are healthy and progressive. Strive to grow yourself with more positive energy.

Because love is only a part of life, and there are many important and beautiful things in life, if you always take love too seriously and focus on another person, then it will be very painful and tiring.

Because love is not necessary for many people, she is just an additive to our lives, if we take it too seriously, we will make our lives out of balance, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Because everyone's love is not perfect and will hurt, so don't take love too seriously.

Because there is a lot more to do in your life besides love. In addition to love, we also have friendship, but also family affection. In addition to love, you can also focus on studying.

Because if you take love too seriously, it will be very painful when you lose it, so you must be calm and don't take it too seriously when facing love.

Because if you look at it very seriously, you will lose yourself, you will fall into a deep place, and if something happens, you will be hurt a lot.

Love is not a person's own, not all love is a good result, to see love simpler, look down, and strive to pursue what you want is the best way for yourself.

At this age, you will understand that the care of your parents, your parents, your promotion, your salary increase, buying a car and a house are all more important than falling in love.

Because the most important thing in life is not only love, but also many important things. If you take love too seriously, it's only yourself who gets hurt.

This is because love is not all that a person has, and love is also an ethereal thing, so you can't take love too seriously.

Because love itself is built on mutual trust. If you take love too seriously, and the trust between the arguments is insufficient, you will be hurt greatly.

Because if you take love too seriously, you will lose yourself and make yourself unable to find the focus of your life, which is very detrimental to your future life.

Because in a person's life, although love is very important, the most important thing is to love yourself, so don't take love too seriously and lose yourself.

First of all, since you love him, you must know how to tolerate, and the run-in with each other is the most important. The most important thing between people is communication, if there is anything you can let the other person know, don't hide it in the bottom of your heart, tell the other person what you think.