Why middle aged people generally speak more viciously, especially to their own children 100

Measured by the concept of traditional virtues, the strictness of parents is called teaching their children well, so no matter what kind of nameless fire parents have on their children, they will solve it for the sake of their children in the end. In fact, there are many ways to educate children in life, not necessarily to be angry (of course, it is necessary to get angry, but there must not be many such cases), so when some parents get angry (such as verbal slight) too many times, it should not be attributed to their children's own mistakes, but rather to vent their own wrong emotions, which has caused children to suffer dumb losses for no reason. If a person's self-control ability is good enough, has a certain understanding and cognitive ability, and has a broad vision, then this kind of educational error will not exist, so this situation is more common in rural areas、、、

In addition, it should be noted that when anger at children (such as scorn) is regarded as a way to educate children for the sake of their children, then not only us but also our next generation must passively accept this way of being educated, I think how many people will agree to accept it?

Middle-aged people are generally at the intersection of family, children, and careers, and they may encounter more trivial things, which will inevitably lead to a bad mood, and their children are not very perfect in some aspects, so the writer will educate them. As for malice, I feel that it is too serious, and there should be more communication between children and parents, so that on the one hand, it is conducive to increasing each other's feelings and resolving conflicts; On the other hand, reduce parents' worries and let their children develop better...

This is a manifestation of parents' lack of patience with their children, and every time their children disobey, they will be taught harsher lessons, and over time, parents will speak more and more viciously. In addition, the way you speak can easily arouse the desire to attack you.

Parents always like to let their children walk the road of life according to their own wishes, and if they are slightly dissatisfied, they will be strict with their children, although selfish, but the starting point is for the good of their children, as for what you said is generally more vicious, this varies from person to person, it can be judged according to the local customs and education level, or your social circle is more of this kind of people, that is, the local education level is really low, this phenomenon knows it in your heart, Because you can't change anyone, only you can change.

People tend to be more mean to the closer the people, for middle-aged people, experience too many things, the mentality of hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is getting stronger and stronger, to put it ugly, just hope to let their children wake up, not malicious, because from childhood to adulthood years of nagging have made them lose patience, so children should also cool down the hard work of their parents, it can be said that they pity the hearts of parents in the world, but their expression is too radical, and children should also find ......reasons from themselves

Middle-aged age is the most stressful time in my life, all aspects of thinking and language are very mature, in the face of outsiders to speak tactfully, in the face of elders and peers will also be tactful, in the face of children will be very direct, to the point of speaking even to the point, there is also a little bit of children grow up to help me share some pressure.

Most of them are the emotional outpouring of "hating iron does not become steel", if the children are very competitive, the parents will never lose their temper, say mean things, and it is too late to be happy!

Because I'm older, I've seen a lot of things.,So I don't care about talking or something.。

Because of the influence of that era, pay attention to filial piety under the stick, so it is generally a good thing not to beat, let alone scold, angry, except for the ancestors, scolding everything, and sometimes even the ancestors scolded.

When people reach middle age, there are old and young, the pressure on all aspects is great, and menopause is also in this period, a little thing and a sentence may touch their sensitive points, something is not good, but in fact it is not aimed at anyone, I am not middle-aged, nor do I speak for anyone, just talk about things.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, parents love their children, and they talk about scolding, they want their children to be angry, but it is too late to love in their hearts.

I guess it's menopause.

Sometimes my dad loses his temper and scolds him very poisonously, but I usually don't take it to heart and let him fart it.

Parents hate iron but not steel! In fact, I love you the most in my heart.

The deeper the responsibility, the more earnest the love.