My child is always doing things for three minutes, what should I do?

Gold Course for Qualified Parents.

When I grow up, I will slowly correct it.

It is because the child is too impatient, and sometimes he is often impulsive, and at this time parents need to cultivate the child's stable character.

It may be because the child is impatient, such a child should exercise self-control and concentration, and can choose to play puzzles or Lego.

There is a problem with the parent's education, the parent is always hot for three minutes in front of the child, the child is impatient, and especially likes the new and hates the old, so it is always like this.

There are three reasons why children often only have three minutes of enthusiasm for doing things: first, because the child is not patient enough; Second, it was because of the lack of interest in that matter; Third, things are not going as well as he thought.

For the first reason, it is recommended:

1. Deliberately let the child wait. When children can't wait to get something, such as watching cartoons, cutting watermelons that they just bought, etc. The parents were going to tell him that he needed to wait a while. During this time, your child can do something else first.

2. Set appropriate goals. You can set goals for your child based on their actual situation, and reward them for each goal they achieve, so as to motivate them.

3. Through games, competitions and other means, use the characteristics of children's strong competitiveness to exercise their concentration.

For the second reason, it is recommended:

1. Share some interesting skills or experiences with your child about what your child is going to do, for example: if you want to learn the piano, you can tell your child some stories about celebrities learning the piano, or interesting things that happened when people around you learned the piano.

2. In addition, it is best to let the child play freely, for example: to learn the piano, let the child listen to a paragraph by himself, try to play it according to what he hears, at this time it is not required to be accurate, only to ask the child to imagine freely. This will make your child more interested in experimenting.

For the third reason, it is recommended:

When you start doing something, have a backup plan ready. That is, let the child think about what he can consider if he is having trouble doing something and wants to stop, but the parents want him to continue. Since the child's enthusiasm is still there before starting to do things, it is best to let him think of the plan at this time, and because she came up with it, it is in line with her habits, and it is also her commitment, and the parents have reason to implement it.

Three-minute heat, I think everyone has experienced it, very excited before the entry, boring after the entry, and then give up, whether it is an adult or a child.

Here I want to say that if you don't want to be hot for three minutes, there is only one way, which is to find an interest, learn and stick to it.

Because only those who know how to persevere know that three-minute heat is a waste of time. There are people who have achieved a lot in one field and quickly reach a certain height after crossing the border. Some people keep learning and changing careers, and they keep returning to zero.

Three-minute heat is a terrible habit, don't let your child learn too much, design a good learning plan for your interests, allocate time and energy reasonably, and maintain your child's maximum interest and time.

Don't disturb your child when they are playing or focusing on one thing, which is to protect their concentration, guide them to focus on important things, and limit their watching TV and video games.

You should guide the child well, if the child continues to be hot for three minutes, you can give the child a small lesson, let the child know that this practice is very wrong, and can also cultivate the child's concentration, to guide the child slowly.

Cultivate children's patience, cultivate children's self-control, you can set some goals for your children, cultivate children's self-confidence, you can praise children, encourage them more, etc.

The correct psychological guidance should be given to the children, and the patience of the children should also be cultivated. Children should also be encouraged. Children should also be given some counseling, and at the same time, there should be some parent-child mutual harm.

Encourage your child to also tell him what he should do in life. You should also tell your child how to solve the same thing, if you often say this, you will only give up halfway, and there will be no final victory and the child will say something that makes sense.

To improve your child's concentration, be sure to encourage your child not to give up easily when he is doing things.

Parents should have a good talk with their children, and they should also help their children change this situation, and they should recommend a rule for their children to do things according to this rule, and they should also set a time for their children. If the child does it, parents can give the child some rewards, so that the problem of three-minute heat can be solved.

Children do things by feeling, and if you want to correct your child's three-minute heat, you need to reduce the interference of surrounding noise. Children live in a family, and they can't avoid some outside noise. There is no way to be blocked, and it may affect the child when he thinks about the problem.

Don't talk loudly or watch TV while your child is studying, as it will distract your child and make it easy for him to be interrupted. Give your child a quiet environment where they can fully immerse themselves in their studies. Many people have heard the story of Meng's mother's three moves, the purpose is to let the children be rendered by a good atmosphere.

Parents should keep their homes tidy and tidy, so that babies can find what they want as soon as possible. Many parents are busy with work every day and neglect to manage and clean up their household chores. If the family is too messy, it will make the child want to explore constantly.

Likes to touch these and touch that, which will naturally distract some of the child's attention. Unable to devote themselves wholeheartedly to learning, children may also get hurt while exploring. Make the home more tidy, and it will be clear when you are looking for things.

Parents should not rudely interrupt their children's behavior, and do not feel that Qingcheng talks about what their children do without rules. When you see them having fun or concentrating on something, you must give them a relaxed time to choose a team. Some children are full of curiosity about new things, and they will not let go of the small black dots on the table.

In the process of attention, parents must be on the side to watch their children. <>

In general, it is common for children to make mistakes, but parents should not rush to point out their mistakes. The most taboo for children is that parents or elders interrupt their actions, and they must be instructed after the child has done it. Be conscious of playing with your child and find the right time to guide you.

Knowing how to explore with children is the best parent in the process of children's growth. Don't criticize your child without moderation when he is doing things, it will lower his confidence.

Set rules for your child, and once he starts doing something, parents should urge him to stick to it.

If you want to form a habit for your child, if you want your child to stick to it, you must let him insist on doing one thing every day, so that he will form a habit and it will not be hot for three minutes.

Parents need to communicate with their children in a calm tone, so that they know to do things very seriously and not rely on their own feelings to get things done.

First of all, it is worth affirming that it is also a good thing to have three minutes of heat, at least it means that the child is interested in this matter. And we, as parents, should do the following:

Build your child's ability to focus, listen more, children like to repeat, let them listen to familiar stories, repeated listening can exercise their memory, and even memorize the story. This ability to repeat is a gradual process.

Look more, give children some interest**, as well as physical objects, let them find out the similarities and differences of these** or physical objects, teach children methods, let them be familiar with this method, and make the process of searching for their own ability.

The process of seeing more also improves the breadth of the child's attention, and when the ability becomes stronger, the attention is naturally concentrated, because things become easier in front of the child.

Parents improve their roleFirst of all, lead by example, be patient, when we are in the process of teaching by word and deed, do we show our parents' own three-minute enthusiasm for things? Because children often follow the example of adults.

In the process of teaching children, did you do it yourself, and taught the children the steps of the whole thing in detail? Is it patient guidance, instead of calling them stupid like driving school instructors?

Secondly, to establish an orderly environment is to standardize and establish rules. Only by standardizing the factory can we reduce the cost to the greatest extent, and only by establishing rules can education achieve effective results. In addition, to do a good job in the improvement of their own quality, we should cultivate children's self-care ability from an early age, and the strength and weakness of the ability will be reflected in all aspects of the society in the future.

Third, cultivate a fixed interest, instead of these want to learn, that also want to do, at the same time as enrolling in interest classes, parents first ask themselves, whether they have the ability to do several jobs at the same time, if not, then don't ask their children to do it. Because only when one thing is done, continuous efforts, will one be proficient, and grasp the essence of this thing, to achieve the ability to complete this thing and the best effect.

Parents can first cultivate patience from what their children are interested in, observe what their children are interested in, parents must be more patient than their children, do not urge their children, give children free space, and give timely encouragement and praise to children.

This is the nature of a child, so if you want to improve his persistence in doing things, then you should try to accompany him when doing things, and explain to him what is needed to do these things, and what will be the result after doing it, because only by letting the child try the joy of success, so that he can have a subtle influence.