Are there couples who don t quarrel? Is there a husband and wife who don t quarrel in their lives?

Not good. Quarrels or Cold War quarrels are indispensable in many marriages, they are also part of marriage, and it is not impossible to forcibly remove them from marriage. But the consequence of this is that the marriage is no longer complete.

I have seen several such couples, their relationship is not salty, they are already middle-aged, their children have already started a family, to say that they have a good relationship, it is really not true.

In addition to not quarrelling, these couples have a very special point: they cannot negotiate. If you want to make a decision on a matter, it is generally one party who has the final say, and if the other party feels that their ideas are better, they can only adopt their own ideas, and the ideas put forward before are vetoed without discussion.

There is no room for bargaining couples, it is better to be a fake couple.

Their world is really black and white. What are your expertise, well, everything is up to you, and I won't use my brain in this matter, it's up to you to decide. And then at the very beginning of the execution, there was constant complaining.

Such a marriage is really tiring, it is better for two people to quarrel happily and make all the things bargain clearly.

Even in the happiest family, there are often quarrels between the two over something, and there have been cold wars, but they are all bedside quarrels and bed-end things, but they can agree on some things, both parties give up the part they feel can give up, and insist on the part that cannot be given up, so that the marriage can be managed well in the process of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

Every time a young couple asks me if they want to talk about a relationship that will never fight, never break up, and never divorce, I will bring up this question and tell them how I feel in such a marriage and family.

If you have such a couple around you, you will feel uncomfortable when you go to their house to sit, because the cold environment is not a life at all, and I don't know what to use to describe it.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong with quarreling between two people and arguing for a result for some differences, at least in this fierce confrontation, the two people sharpen the edges and corners of their bodies more smoothly and have better feelings.

Hello, there is no husband and wife in the world who do not quarrel, because there will always be friction when two people live together, so it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, as long as two people do not take these to heart, even after the quarrel, the most important thing between husband and wife is mutual trust, mutual humility, mutual understanding, mutual care, mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual tolerance, but also have a tolerant heart, but also communicate with each other, no matter what can be discussed and solved together, do not expose each other's shortcomings, to praise more, Don't compare yourself with anyone, as long as you can get along like this, you will definitely live in harmony for a long time.

There is no husband and wife who do not quarrel all their lives, sometimes quarreling can increase their feelings, of course, it is not a big quarrel or an unreasonable quarrel.

No. There will always be differences between husband and wife, there will always be disagreements and opinions, and it is impossible not to quarrel, but there should be a fight at the end of the bed and at the end of the bed, and husband and wife should be considerate of each other, and they should face difficulties together, which is husband and wife.

I'm sure to tell you, no. When a person has upper and lower teeth fighting, let alone two people with independent thoughts, everyone's lifestyle is different, living habits are different, especially different values, all these differences lead to differences between two people in dealing with people and family relationships, and there are quarrels when there are differences. Quarrels between husband and wife are also a kind of communication, in which each other's opinions and solutions to problems are expressed, and then an agreement is reached.

However, it is necessary to stop in moderation and focus on mutual understanding.

There is no such thing as a couple who does not quarrel. Husband and wife are noisy and quarrelsome for a lifetime. As long as it doesn't hurt each other's feelings too much. Then it doesn't hurt to have big teeth.

No, because life is light and tasteless if you don't quarrel, you have to make a little noise to have a taste, there is a sentence that doesn't say: husband and wife quarrel, quarrel at the head of the bed and end of the bed.

Yes, as long as the husband and wife will think about this family, discuss more and communicate more, it will make the impossible possible, I have been married for more than 20 years and have not quarreled, everyone please reason who is reasonable to listen to whom, so that unnecessary quarrels can be avoided, and naturally the contradiction will be resolved, so do you still have to quarrel.

Small quarrels are also communication, and they will also enhance feelings. There is no such thing as not quarreling. In fact, as long as we understand each other, support each other, and respect each other, sometimes it's normal to have a bickering, as long as it's not too overbearing.

No, it can only be said that there are very few couples, and some couples quarrel and close the door, and there is nothing to do in front of outsiders.

There are only couples who can control their emotions well, and there is no one who does not quarrel, and life is inevitably a little noisy. Normal, understand each other!

No, there are those who rarely quarrel. But if it's not noisy at all, it's boring to live like this.

Then it's not a husband and wife, and they quarrel because they care about each other, so they will have requirements for each other. People don't have any requirements when they are dealing with strangers, and they don't make a lot of noise. Quarreling is also an expression of love, and if you don't even bother to quarrel, then your relationship as a husband and wife will be in danger.

If the other party loves each other, they will not hold grudges after the quarrel.

Husbands and wives don't quarrel anymore, I feel that the quarrel is because they care too much about each other. If she (he) has no feelings for you, he or she won't care about you. Remember: if a woman is not noisy or noisy, she has no feelings for you.

Living together, quarreling is a common phenomenon, this quarrel is a conciliator in ordinary life, there is no stumbling and quarrelling, wouldn't that day be even more tasteless. Occasional small quarrels will also enhance the relationship between husband and wife. This is the experience, this is the long road to marriage, and it can be regarded as a landscape.

Of course, what I'm talking about is not rudeness, it's not domestic violence, I'm firmly against it...

The married life day after day makes love gradually fade color, the freshness between husband and wife is lost, and many conflicts arise spontaneously. Therefore, some people are in a marriage and feel that their life is very long, so long that they cannot see life and hope. And some people feel that life is too short, so short that the time to fall in love is only a blink of an eye.

In married life, the way to solve problems between husband and wife is to quarrel. However, cold and violent words are often chilling. How to avoid quarrels, couples need to get along and communicate with each other.

I interviewed 10 loving couples to see how they managed to stay free of quarrels all their lives.

Marriage is very important to people, for example, when I am in poor health all the year round, he not only does not dislike me, but also takes good care of me. Twenty years have been like a day, I am very grateful to him, and over the years, even if there is a little friction between us, I don't care about it, and he won't hold on to it.

Marriage is like this, it takes patience and a heart full of gratitude. ”

Before I got married, I was very irritable, but she was always tepid, so I couldn't quarrel with her. She has a good personality, very open-minded, very cheerful, and optimistic, marry her, and feel that she has earned it in her life.

After 18 years of marriage, she has not only changed the way I treat people, but also made me as calm as her. I think that the key to not having a fight in our life is to have the ability to change our shortcomings. Self-control is very important. ”

There are no absolutes in anything, so there must be couples who don't quarrel all their lives, but they are very, very rare. For example, the ancients said that the case is raised with eyebrows, and the story of respecting each other is like a guest.

In the past, men were inferior to women, and many people who didn't quarrel probably didn't dare to quarrel, but now men and women are equal and have their own independent personality and self-esteem, so there are naturally more quarrels.

There may be couples who do not quarrel for the rest of their lives, but this probability is very small.

After all, husband and wife have to get along for a lifetime, whether it is personality or all aspects, they need to run in slowly, and conflicts will inevitably occur in the process of running-in.

And the relationship between husband and wife is not only the relationship between the small couple, but also the relationship between two big families, which involves a lot of problems, and it is normal to quarrel.

So there may be couples who don't quarrel for the rest of their lives, but this probability is very small.

Some! In the past, there was a custom in some places to marry the underworld, that is, to hold a wedding for the underworld fighters, and it was impossible for couples in this state of underworld marriage to quarrel for the rest of their lives, let alone divorce.

No, since it can become a husband and wife, it is a very big fate.

Since we are married together, we love each other.

Quarrels are inevitable.

If you can reconcile after a quarrel, you will definitely grow old together.

So far, I've never seen a couple who doesn't quarrel, and I think sometimes quarrels are also communication problems, but the way of communication is wrong.

Is there a husband and wife who don't quarrel in their lives? I don't think so.

However, some couples handle a quarrel well when they have different views or handling opinions on a certain matter, and one of them always calmly withdraws first to avoid continuing to quarrel.

But that doesn't mean they didn't quarrel, but they handled it better than other couples.

Yes, it is possible that a few months after the marriage has passed a lifetime (death), so it is inevitable that the husband and wife will quarrel.

Friend: I think it's almost impossible for a husband and wife not to quarrel for a lifetime, every time I see on TV or in books and newspapers that "I have never blushed in my life" I always feel very fake. In fact, it is normal for two people to quarrel like pots and pans inevitably bumping into each other, if a small fight is not only harmless, but also can be used as a seasoning in the life of husband and wife, that is, the so-called "small quarrel and pleasantness".

But if you quarrel often, there will be a problem, and if the husband and wife are both angry and hurt each other, it may affect the relationship between the husband and wife. Because they often quarrel and refuse to admit defeat to each other, it will gradually cause discouragement and detachment between husband and wife; At this time, the warmth of the past disappeared, and all that remained was the Cold War... In fact, there are generally no principled problems between husband and wife, and quarrels are mostly caused by trivial things; In this case, it is not necessary to distinguish who is right and who is wrong; Because home is a place for intercession, not a place for reason.

There are couples who don't quarrel all their lives, but there are very few couples who don't quarrel all their lives, because there will always be some quarrels between more or less couples, which may be a matter of big or small things.

There may also be couples who don't quarrel, after all, this is a rare situation, and it's not necessarily a good thing not to quarrel for a lifetime.

Sometimes the relationship between husband and wife becomes deeper after a quarrel.

No, it's just a distinction between big quarrels and small quarrels, which does not exist, as the so-called bedside quarrel and bedside and, quarrels between husband and wife are conducive to the maintenance of feelings. Don't think of quarrels between husband and wife as a bad thing, it's a good thing!

Yes, but very little, this requires one party to be generous and tolerant, and another party to be considerate, which is something that can not be encountered.

Nope. Contradictions will inevitably arise between people, and after estrangement and contradictions, they will inevitably quarrel due to inconsistent views. This is especially true between husband and wife.

If you don't quarrel, it's either a good relationship like a fairy tale, or you're about to leave.

No, if you don't quarrel all your life, it's no different from passers-by, if you don't quarrel, it can only mean that you don't love each other, and there is no point to quarrel about.

No, it's normal for husbands and wives to quarrel occasionally, and if you don't quarrel for the rest of your life, you're all dead.

My girlfriend and I never had a fight, and that's because he didn't love me at all.

There will be those who quarrel, but there must be those who don't!

The world is so big that there are no surprises, and I think there are.

It can't be, unless you two don't see each other for the rest of your life.

It should be said that it is impossible to talk about this issue, when it comes to husband and wife, every couple of lovers in the besieged city has endless ups and downs.

They love each other but are conflicted, they are attracted to each other but conflicted.

Some couples often have differences when they first meet, and they continue to run in to become familiar;

Some couples quarrel after marriage, and after the vigorous love becomes dull firewood, rice, oil and salt, contradictions begin to appear slowly; Many young couples are very open-minded about today's skyrocketing divorce rate.

They thought that there would always be a time for a fight.

Everyone is a child who has been pampered by their parents since childhood, and everyone has their own different personality.

As a result, marriage has become more and more vulnerable, and the differences between husband and wife make people think that love cannot always be harmonious, and those marriages that do not quarrel for a lifetime are unrealistic.

Think about the reason why we quarrel with our lovers, sometimes two people have different concepts and ideas;

Sometimes it's because of the great oppression that life brings;

Sometimes it's the result of a bad mood and anger at the time;

Sometimes it's because the other party has a word that is not salty or light, which makes people uncomfortable;

Sometimes it is our unwillingness to express that causes misunderstandings between the two sides.

Is quarreling really the spice of marriage?

So, is there a marriage that has always been in love and never quarreled for the rest of your life?

Many people feel that this is unrealistic, two people who have lived very different lives since childhood, live together every day, and it is normal to have differences.

And in the book "Honey, We Can Not Quarrel", the author tells us a new way of getting along with husband and wife.

The book points out that the perfect no-quarrel marriage is not impossible, it just requires rational guidance and practice.

In the book, author Norman shares important steps and methods for couples to communicate, which are applicable to all types of marriages. A real marriage is not a lifetime without quarrels, but a lifetime of quarrels and still being together. ”

Husband and wife are undoubtedly the closest people in the world.

Parents and children, although we are connected by blood, cannot accompany us for the rest of our lives. Although husband and wife start as strangers, they can accompany each other like close relatives.

However, husband and wife are not as close as one person, they are good. Everyone needs their own space. Therefore, in intimacy and space, we need to find a suitable scale.

There will always be a clash of ideas, disagreements and frictions between people, and this is especially true in marriage. The point is the attitude of the two people after they have encountered a problem.

Although there are only two people in the marriage, it is a struggle and reconciliation. Two people need to work together to create a family "rule" and constantly improve in life.