Kneel down and beg someone who understands feelings to help me answer

This man is similar to me, he loves you, he knows that getting you back is not a problem, the problem is that he is not capable of giving you a good life now, he is afraid of getting hurt again, and he doesn't want to hurt you, if he doesn't love you, you have it at your fingertips now, he can eat back grass at any time, physique is not a problem, you can exercise, no money is not a problem now, it's just whether he has such thoughts, whether he is that extraordinary person, you hurt him, deeply. He misses you but doesn't come near you anymore, and I think he's okay with it.

You are really attentive enough, do you know the meaning of the word "forget"? "Dead heart" The heart can be reborn when it dies. If a person can get up from the lowest point, he is not the original person, at least he has figured it out before he can get up! It's ......If you love me, don't hurt me! Understand?

It's a long time, it's a little tired to watch, it's very touching, but there are some things I have to say, this man is still quite unreliable, first, even the reason for the breakup has to be asked by the father, I can't see that he is strong in **, second, no matter how deep the feelings are, you have to know the correct treatment, the breakup is understandable, the mood is understandable, drinking is understandable, what I can't understand is why not turn grief and anger into strength, work hard in the career, even if you are not in the mood to work hard, you have to keep the same state, always sleep, every day when others look at it You know your state of falling out of love, your maturity in**? When such a man encounters a major event in the future, how can you expect him to stand up and help you block the wind and rain? Third, if there is a chance to get back together, but he twists and turns, he still chases if he likes it, and if he is rejected once, he is afraid of the second blow, how can such a man expect him to be resilient and successful in his career?

Every man, when dealing with his first love, or the person he really loves, will have this kind of love similar to what you said, and the breakup will be buried in his heart for a long time, for another woman, as long as he loves, he will be like this, not because this woman is you, will be like this, whether a man is a good man, not to see how deep he is with you, but to see if he is dedicated enough to you when he is emotional, whether he can bear it, if he can't go out of the predicament, can't withstand the wind and rain, such a man can rely on, Your life is not lived by love, but also have your own job, career, if a man only has love, does not have the ability to take on these responsibilities, or the ability is very poor, do you think you will be happy? You may be touched like a little girl now, but sooner or later you will return to the dissatisfaction you felt when you broke up, because the facts have not changed at all, how can you expect the family to change their opinion of him, you will still listen to the words of the family and break up, so why hurt others again?