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1 Look at a man's taste, look at his socks. 2 To see whether a woman is pampered or not, it depends on her hands. 3 Look at a man's blood and his hair.
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If you want to recognize a person instantly, I think you can start from the aspect of monetary interests, of course, in addition to this, there are the following reference factors.
1. Choices in the face of interests.
Remember, human nature is profit-oriented. In the face of interests, many people will tear off their disguises. At this time, it is usually the best time to recognize and distinguish people.
If a person can ignore his conscience for his own interests, can not hide his family affection, and can abandon morality, do you dare to believe such a person? It's better to stay away as soon as possible! Otherwise, once there is a conflict of interest with him, you will definitely be very sad!
2. We have to look at the attitude towards our parents.
We are usually all of us: good tempers are reserved for others, and bad tempers are reserved for family members. This is a very normal thing in the science of the heart.
However, if a person is able to maintain self-cultivation and a pleasant face when dealing with those closest to him, then that person has a great practice. It's admirable!
3. Treat people who are lower than yourself.
Not humble to the top, not arrogant to the bottom. This is a sign of good conduct! If a person flatters his superiors and dictates to his subordinates, then this person will not have good moral cultivation.
A moral and educated person is respectful of everyone, and even if he communicates with someone of lower status than him, he will not show arrogance.
4. When faced with promises.
In the face of promises, it is often easy to see a person's character. A gentleman promises a thousand gold, and he will never easily disobey what he promises to himself. Such people are very reliable!
And if a person can't keep his promise to himself and repents casually, then this person has no grandeur and personality at all!
It is indeed not easy to see a person clearly. But as long as you comprehend the above four points, you can have a purpose. People's hearts are unpredictable, I hope you will learn to recognize and distinguish people on the road of life, and I also hope that the kind people in the world will be treated preferentially, and those with bad intentions have nowhere to hide.
We need to get along with positive and optimistic people. Naturally, it will also make you feel positive and optimistic. Some people are always complaining, and those will not help solve the problem at all, and staying in a bad state all the time will only make their lives worse and worse.
If you are in a difficult situation, you will want to change your current situation. When you really can't change the status quo, you need a positive and optimistic person by your side to help you get out of the situation!
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Every time we suffer a little loss, we are worried about not being able to see through people, in fact, seeing through a person is really not so complicated, but the Zen world is our own to make it too complicated, if you want to see a person's nature clearly, you only need to follow the following four dimensions, a little careful observation, the key is to see if you use your heart.
Looking at his ambition by desire - looking at what he really wants in his heart, you can judge what his ambition is to attack and defeat early, and a person's ambition can basically reflect his virtue.
When dealing with people, in fact, what she wants in her heart, we can easily know, that is, through his desires, through his ideals and aspirations, we can judge whether this person will have a future future, whether he can mix well, how his character is, etc., the key is that you have to have such thoughts, you have to do it with this kind of thinking, rather than waiting for others to give you a heart-to-heart explanation, and then think about these things, by that time, everything is too late.
It is easy to see through his nature to see how he plans things and what kind of attitude he uses to treat others.
This latitude can also see a person more clearly, if a person considers the problem more long-term, and when dealing with people, the attitude is more sincere, we can basically judge that this person is worthy of our relationship with the gentleman, on the contrary, if only care about the immediate interests, there is no long-term vision, such a person usually will not have much interest, has a great desire for benefits, but does not want to pay, in fact, through this, we can also distinguish the people around us into several grades, Make it easy for yourself to screen your own confidants.
Judge love with affection - look at how a person controls his emotions, you can know whether this person is a person in temperament or a person who is extraordinary.
A person's attitude towards feelings can better reflect its essence, if a person is all day long, in addition to indiscriminate affection or indiscriminate affection, there is a big problem with this person's quality, do you dare to deal with such a person? If a person is particularly single-minded about feelings, at least the person is not very bad.
By looking at a person's attitude when they are hurt or offended, you can know their style of life.
The easiest way for us to judge a person is to see how he deals with it when he is attacked, and what kind of attitude he uses to treat others when he is offended by others. Whether it is to beat people to death with a stick, or to know how to be tolerant and generous, these are all important bases for judging a person.
* There is no specific pattern of happiness, you should determine your goals according to your own strength, and don't force yourself to achieve things that you can't do. There is a way to be content and happy, in fact, happiness is around you, smile in the mirror, and look down on everything.
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