What started sleek you did?

It's because of some work things that start to get slick. In fact, when you embark on the road of society, you will become more and more mellow, because you want to live, in fact, many things do not come from your own heart, but when you are in this society, you must make yourself more and more sleek.

When I started working after graduating from college, I worked very hard, but I had too little social experience, and I was very straightforward about some bosses' problems. But my efforts didn't pay off much, and it was only later that I found my own problems and handled things tactfully.

When I saw that life was very ruthless, life was like flowing water, gradually smoothing out my sharp edges and corners, slowly destroying the pride of my personality, and unconsciously I changed, adapted to what was difficult to adapt to, and got used to what I would not get used to, and became very sleek.

When one of my best friends betrayed me and abandoned me, and chose to play with my right friends, I was determined to change myself, I could no longer follow the rules and be such a person, and I had to learn to be tactful.

When I first entered society, I didn't understand anything, I didn't understand interpersonal relationships, and I was often ostracized. After a few years of experience and observation, my way of dealing with people and things has gradually become smooth.

Since I started working, it was difficult to survive in the outside world if it was not smooth and smooth, so sometimes I hated being like this.

Sometimes classmates or friends hate it when I point out their shortcomings, even if it's for their own good, and then they like to hear me praise her for being more tactful.

I found that the people around me began to become more and more sensitive, I was not tactful, and I was as carefree and desperate as I was when I was a child.

This society is like this, the so-called eating a trench and growing a wisdom is this truth, we can't always wrestle in the same place, we have to be witty slowly.

We will gradually smooth out our edges and become rounded. This feeling will be clearly felt by yourself at some point. Specifically, it includes when you learn to be patient, when you think twice before making decisions, and when you talk and laugh with people you don't like.

1. When you learn to be patient, you will find that you have been smoothed out by life. When we were young, we were full of energy, high spirits, and acted in a hurry. At that time, we could say what we wanted and do what we wanted, and we didn't care about anything.

But as we grow older, we gradually learn to be patient, and even if we are anxious in our hearts, we can be very calm on the surface. At this time, you will realize the feeling that you have been smoothed out by life, 2, think twice before you encounter something, and no longer act impulsively, proving that you have been smoothed out by life. When I was young, I often did things casually, and many times I didn't think it through.

Although this state will make me encounter difficulties a lot of times, I am full of energy and very honest at that time. ......When I grow up, I have experienced a lot of things, I understand a lot of truths, and when I encounter things again, I will not act impulsively, but think twice before acting, and act more prudently. 3. You can talk and laugh with people you don't like, so that you can realize that your edges and corners have been smoothed out by life.

We tend to avoid people we don't like. But sometimes, in order to accomplish something, I will choose to make compromises, to socialize with people I don't like, and even talk and laugh with them. At this moment, you will deeply realize that you have been smoothed out by life, and you are very different from your young self.

To be sleek, you should do this:

First, keep your mouth shut, talk less and do more. No matter what unit you are in, what kind of work you are engaged in, or whatever you encounter, listen first, don't be busy speaking, and wait until you think clearly about how to express it. Also, do more things, and what you do is to let the leader see it, even if you deliberately let him see it.

You have to let him know that you are doing something.

Second, we must learn to judge the situation, who to see and what to say. Speaking and doing things depends on the occasion, and with whom, you can say anything. Although it feels hypocritical, this is the law of social survival, and the more people who can judge the situation, the better they will mix.

Third, learn more from sleek people. There will always be a lot of particularly sleek people around us, and you can secretly observe them to see how they usually behave, how to deal with things, how to deal with problems, and how to communicate with colleagues and leaders. Then you can also try it yourself, summarize while doing it, and if it's full, you'll be sleek.

Fourth, experience more and try more. Anything, don't think that you won't fail to do it, or don't do it if you can't do it well, you have to do more, even if you do it more wrongly, it doesn't matter. Every time you solve a problem, you have experience, and when you hit a wall, you have experience, and slowly become smooth.

In short, if you want to be tactful, you must learn more, reflect more and summarize, and say less and do more.

If you want to be a little sleek, here are a few suggestions:

1.Learn to communicate: Good communication skills are the foundation of interacting with people.

To become a smooth person, you first need to learn to listen to and understand other people's views and feelings, pay attention to your words when expressing yourself, give full play to the charm of language, and make your words relatable and persuasive.

2.Pursue win-win: In the process of communication, we should not only pay attention to our own interests and needs, but also pay attention to the feelings and needs of the other party, establish a reciprocal and mutually beneficial relationship, and give up more self-abandonment, understanding and support, and in the long run, we will gain more respect and support.

3.Worry-free: To be a sleek person, you need to be patient and wise.

When faced with a difficult situation, you should stay calm, learn to deal with conflicts, and don't act rashly or overreact. Give others more patience, less complaints and harsh criticism, be indifferent to fame and fortune, reduce calculations, and calmly deal with setbacks and difficulties.

4.Develop self-confidence: People who can show self-confidence both inside and outside are more likely to win praise and affection from others. Through continuous learning and growth, we can explore our potential abilities and strengths, and improve our taste and accomplishment, so that we can strive for progress.

These need to be constantly practiced and improved, persevered in daily life, slow and not tired of the pursuit of perfection, and enjoy the sense of accomplishment and happiness in time to cooperate with the adjustment.

The so-called sleek is just the depth of the society, but people who are still straightforward in life can be more friends, but when speaking, they should speak from the aspect that others can accept, that is to say, with Yincha one thing, there are many ways to say, try to consider a kind of face to others or a joking tone, so that the other party does not have the idea of losing face.

But a person who is a key fighter may sometimes be more sleek, but he must be straightforward in his heart, so that he can have better friends. Happy to you!